I've been wounded beyond repair....

[nikolai_bolkov]

wow! big buck, i always had respected you, but this is harsh. I think it's great that you want to work things out, and even better about the responsibiility you are willing to take for your son. I am sorry someone treated you so bad, but you will find the right girl and when you do this post will come to haunt you.

No that is where you are wrong. That is the only sane approach to take or you get screwed, every time.

Unfortunately Big Buck has to deal with this right now where he is and what he has to face. Women will drop these bombs (no pun intended) on you no matter where you are or what you're facing.

Big Buck has 100% of the right idea.

 

[Kryp2o]

Buck,
Screw her! You have to just let her go. You can not make it work by yourself. Besides, she has to be a pretty pathetic excuse of a person to do this to you while you are there. Hang in there and keep your head up.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Screw her Buck, you're over there defending her right to freedom in this country. At least she could have waited till you returned and was straight up with you. Yeah I know rrriiiighhhhtttt.

 

[thefantom1]

Quite possibly the most moving comment I've
read on these boards.

I shall take that as a compliment...... but its a lesson I learned in my own situation with my own son....... I don't even speak to his mother.......but I never talk bad about her to him cuz I know he adores her as much as he adores me...and if I talk bad (even though it would be the truth) about her..... I won't, because it will hurt him..... and I could never do that.... Buck..trust me when I tell you it is much easier bouncing back from a relationship when you are in your 20's....... a year from now you will look back and laugh at the "sting" your heart has now........ but when you get a little older and this happens.....then the little "sting" becomes a bleeding wound that never seems to heal.......... but what shall keep you going on is your son........... the days when he wants you instead of his mother......when he wants to be at your house instead of hers....and at times you may think you are being a "babysitter" while she goes out and "hoes" around.......but you know what?? Those are the times for you to shine as a father..... always be better than her......never give up time with your son to go out pimpin'........ you may have fun at the moment.....but the disapointment your son feels will forever cast a shadow upon your heart.......... Buck.. I guess Im just trying to tell you that the most important thing for you to do with this mess is to stand tall, be a true father and love your son like only a good father can.......the rewards that you shall receive in return will so much eclipse any token "sting" your heart may be feeling now....Just remember who Number 1 is now in your life............ Your Son..............

 

[RADAR]

that was a pretty low blow sending you a letter at a time like this.....whatever happens its always for the better...remember that BB..........RADAR

 

[Milhouse]

Sorry to hear that brother, but then again not all women are bad even though I am pissed off at a few myself.

Just be more like my man larry in my avatar and you will be pimpin ho's in no time.

 

[Pimp C]

Bro I really hate to hear that. We've talked before and are kinda in the same boat, I just turned 22 and have a 3 mo. baby and I don't get to see him as much as I like.

From what you said before it sounds like you need to lose this chick, I know its hard though because the thought of another guy raising my son absolutley pisses me off.

You don't need this shit man, your over there risking your life for us and this is how she treats you, thats just wrong.

 

[Stillhere]

Hey Buck sorry to hear that. Maybe you guys can work things out later.
Thank you for kicking ass out there and defending this great nation.
Semper Fidelis.

 

[Big Brother Val]

I'm sorry, bigman. I can relate to how you feel. My lady is the same way. One day she wants me out... a day later she's telling me she wants to work it out no matter what.

I'm tired of the roller coaster. It's just so damn hard to get off the ride, you know?

But I understand it's hard to be strong at a time like this.

What will be really hard, is if she gets back to you in a little while, and says she was wrong, and that she wants to work things out. That builds your hope up, but you'll still have the fear of it being torn down again, and that can negate your trust in her.

I hope she does allow you to have your boy as much as you want to. My x does allow me to have my children. 7 days a week. They sleep at my house 3 days a week. Though when she's mad, she uses them against me and says I can't see them. She can use him as a weapon against you, and I can tell you that it would be the most damaging, painful weapon she could ever use.

Keep your chin up, and take care of yourself.

 

[HighIntensity]

another ELITE BROTHER brought to his knee's by a selfish heartless woman, whats is going on these days


SORRY BB,
I know what it's like to be wounded, going throught it right now
HANG IN THERE ELITE IS HERE FOR YA

 

[WODIN]

Hang tight brother buck...things will work out and you'll get to be around your son. That's really the important thing bro. Stay safe!!