Is this rude?

[PICK3]

Yea, if you turn her down though. Please give a legit reason. If you just say "NO" and expect her to understand... well I have done things like this before with girls in general and (even though I'm a guy I figured this much out) man... the recoil is horrid. Like most people would think "Meh, they'll understand right?" But in times like these the girls will get even more selfish and think you don't wanna go for EVERY bad reason possible. (I'm sure you can imagine a few)

u don't need a reason under those conditions

my reason wood be "cuz I don't have gold bricks falling out of my ass"

 

[cindylou]

She shouldn't even be planning her own party.

 

[AFeedz]

Yea, if you turn her down though. Please give a legit reason. If you just say "NO" and expect her to understand... well I have done things like this before with girls in general and (even though I'm a guy I figured this much out) man... the recoil is horrid. Like most people would think "Meh, they'll understand right?" But in times like these the girls will get even more selfish and think you don't wanna go for EVERY bad reason possible. (I'm sure you can imagine a few)

I'm ok with her being mad. I don't owe her an explanation. If she cut me out, that'd be fine by me.

 

[AFeedz]

15 bridesmaids. I already don't like her. Lol!

Completely agree Annie.

Right? I hate it. There's no way you're super equally close to 15 people. Draw the line. I told her she didn't need to include me and she told me she wanted me and would cut some other people before me. That's scary but I mean I like her and we chill but were not even like best friends.

And um, if you could've cut people, you should've.

 

[AFeedz]

She shouldn't even be planning her own party.

Well her MoH cousin did, but still. If I saw that I'd think it were inappropriate and ask for something smaller, but she didn't. So I blame them equally.

 

[mrplunkey]

If you were one of four bridesmaids, I'd do some soul-searching.

If you were one of 15, I'd pass. That is ridiculous.

 

[AFeedz]

Thank you. Like who the fuck sends out this email and pricing and expects us to say yes?

 

[cindylou]

Right? I hate it. There's no way you're super equally close to 15 people. Draw the line. I told her she didn't need to include me and she told me she wanted me and would cut some other people before me. That's scary but I mean I like her and we chill but were not even like best friends.

And um, if you could've cut people, you should've.

She doesn't have any really close friends I bet...she's kinda superficial with her friendships?

 

[-SD-]

Tell her it wouldnt be a sound investment decision since it has a 50% FAILURE rate.

 

[PICK3]

Thank you. Like who the fuck sends out this email and pricing and expects us to say yes?

road trip?