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Is this cheating????

Guilty of cheating?

  • Guilty

    Votes: 34 79.1%

  • Not Guilty

    Votes: 4 9.3%

  • Undecided

    Votes: 5 11.6%
  • Total voters
    43
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Tigerparks

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I'm confused and miffed.:confused:

If your girl got soooo drunk at a friends party and she crashed in the same bed as her best friend and her boyfriend.

Then later during the night, she became conscious and started to kiss the boyfriend as he lay fast asleep next to his girl.

Then the best friend awoke to this kissing and murmuring sound switched on the light and saw her best friend kissing her fella with him still asleep.

And only when the best friend started to scream the house down, shouting and swearing, did all three of the group become properly awake.

Then your girl pleads her innocence thinking she was kissing her REAL boyfriend (ie YOU).

1) Would you believe her?
2) Is this cheating?

Three important facts for the defence:
1 - She was so drunk she couldn't stand up. Crying uncontrollably once it became apparent.
2 - The guy she was kissing is one weird ugly looking mofo.
3 - Her best friend was laying in the same bed. (risky?)

For the prosecution:
1 - She was kissing him with her arm around him, murmuring.
2 - She was stripped down to her underwear.
3 - When her boyfriend found out (i.e ME) she initially blamed the guy who was asleep claiming he came onto her! Later admitted this was a lie.

Guilty of cheating or not? Jury will you retire for your verdicts please.
 
Who knows?
Only thing for sure , i hate liars, especially when people lie to blame their own short commings on someone else.
 
First of all, I must say we must all admit our mistakes, wrong doings, etc. You are responsible for your own actions. You can't blame other people for your own mistakes. I hate people that blame others for their fuck ups (ie: my soon to be exhusband ALWAYS blamed other people for his fuck ups and he always lied to cover up and let me tell you he is a sucky liar).

I hate liars.

My personal opinion.....I think that was walking on a very fine line of cheating. BUT....if the other guy was still asleep, well then he is innocent so to speak. Just remember it takes TWO to tango. Without that support of the other person (ie the boyfriend of the best friend) he didn't cheat but she tried to...sound like SHE has some issues that you guys need to discuss.
 
Thats a tough call I'll have to go with undecided. She was drunk and she probably had no clue what was going on but she shouldn't have been in a bed with some guy. It was just a kiss by the way it sounds not much of one. I think you should tell your girlfriend to control her drinking. Your choice to break up with your girl shouldn't be made on something that she probably had no idea what she was doing but more on if you can trust her.
 
Alcohol os no excuse, if you can't controll yourself ten you shouldn't be drinking. I would kick my girls ass to the curb for good, drunk or otherwise. It takes two to tango! I wdon't give second chances in those instances, if you'll do it once, you'll do it again.
 
This is definitely a toughie. Its true that she might have thought she was kissing you, but still...she lied to you about the sleeping guy coming onto her. Dude, ditch her. If she honestly thought it was you, why would she lie about it? If you stay with her, you're going to have doubts in your head and you wont be able to trust her. You're probably better off w/o her. Sorry, man.
 
Thanks for the posts people. So far it's a majority verdict that she is guilty.
I'm still confused. We had a heart to heart today. And she told me she was 'rowing for shore' when she blamed the other guy, knew it was wrong and has vowed to give up drinking to excess.

She claims she needs to get her life in order and can see all of her lifes turmoils have come from the demon drink.

She wants me to give her another chance. Practically begged me. Bottom lip trembleing and everything.

So anyway, one thing led to another, and we start to get it on. The problem is, I've also gone a week without any pussy and am in dire need. (Shame on me!) In the week we've been apart she hasn't eaten and has lost 7 lbs. She strips off and is wearing a black thong. With matching bra.

Okay, I was weak, very weak. We went at it like rabbits. Once it was over I felt really.... guilty.

I felt that she used her body to get me back. She's left now and I got this feeling she's saying to herself, "Yep, works everytime". I just feel a bit....Cheap! I know I sound like a wuss but part of me wishes I was stronger and said "No FUCK OFF!"

It's my dick ruling my head again. Hey look on the bright side. She owes me one now right? IF she catches me with a girl, I'll blame the drink and say "I thought it was you".
 
No matter how many time you try to convince yourself, I can assure you that you will never ever trust her again. Trust is like a million $$$$ once you spend a penny, it's no longer a million dollars. & maybe she truly wont do it again but, you'll never be able to forget about it & every time she's late getting home or you get suspicious you're going to return back to this situation.
 
yes, of course she cheated. she thought it was you? baloney - how dizzy is this bitch? if she's that stupid, don't dump her, use her and abuse her,. make her pay 4 her transgressions, then dump her if you want. the answer is, yes of course she cheated, but if he's so GD ugly, why did she do it? and do you care?
 
Her friend and her friend's boyfriend let her in bed didn't they? I can't see why the friend became hysterical. It seems they all laid the groundwork for a threesome. Especially if she and maybe they were partially nude.
 
and i'll bet the boyfriend was not asleep, i bet he knew what was happening at the time and did nothing to stop the girl, you should kick his ass too. the only innocent in this whole thing was the ugly guy's girlfriend, except she was stupid enough to lie down (unclothed) with her boyfriend and another girl, perhaps she was too shy but she should've kicked the other chick (small yellow bird, yes) out of the bed.

what do you guys think? i'm SURE the boyfriend was awake and aware that this chick was kissing and stroking him, but he pretended to remain asleep... what would you guys do, you'd just lay there and see where she went with it, maybe roll over and accidentaly knock her hand onto your package or make some sounds (while "asleep") to suggest you liked the things she was doing. yes or no, isn't that exactly what most of you guys would do????
 
Cindy99 said:
and i'll bet the boyfriend was not asleep, i bet he knew what was happening at the time and did nothing to stop the girl, you should kick his ass too. the only innocent in this whole thing was the ugly guy's girlfriend, except she was stupid enough to lie down (unclothed) with her boyfriend and another girl, perhaps she was too shy but she should've kicked the other chick (small yellow bird, yes) out of the bed.

what do you guys think? i'm SURE the boyfriend was awake and aware that this chick was kissing and stroking him, but he pretended to remain asleep... what would you guys do, you'd just lay there and see where she went with it, maybe roll over and accidentaly knock her hand onto your package or make some sounds (while "asleep") to suggest you liked the things she was doing. yes or no, isn't that exactly what most of you guys would do????
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Boy Cindy I think you hit that right on the button! LOL :) I agree with you 100%
 
THE FUCKING Q IS WHAT THE FUCK WAS SHE DOING IN BED WITH THEM WEARING ONLY HER PANTIES. ID TELL HER TO FUCK OFF AND DIE , I'VE DO IT BEFORE . IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL ANY BETTER YOU COULD THRASH HIS ASS TILL YOU GET THE TRUTH. ID OPT FOR B THRASH HIS ASS AND FEEL BETTER. GOOD LUCK BRO
 
i think it is definitly cheating. OK, not only was she piss drunk without you (her boyfriend).. she proceeded to lay in bed with the 2 other people in question, why didnt she lay next to her best friend?? she CHOSE to sandwich herself right smack in the middle of them, HOW CONVINIENT :rolleyes: then to top things off, she ends up in her panties!! come on! what story did she have explaining that one?? "um sorry honey, what happened was that i slipped and fell and the clothes just came off!!" i say it is all a crock of shit and dont waste your time.
 
I've spoken to her, and we've had it all out. I've come to the conclusion that she is DUM. Pure and simply stoopid!

And she's even worse when she's had a few drinks, she looses what 2 brain cells she's got and she actually becomes dangerous.

What smart girl would try and make out with a butt ugly guy right next to her best friend, who happens to be his girlfriend?

She was soo dumb she wasn't even capable of lying. I got her twisted in her story and was like the 'bad cop' when I said "I know something went on, WHAT?"

She was panicing and made up some lie which was a flight of fantasy, completely turning the tables on her stupidity. And she's so stupid that she thought I'd give her sympathy!!

She's so stupid to the point of her being pathetic. And I feel sorry for her.

I'm gonna keep her around for a while. She owes me big time, and she's gonna spend every day paying for it. And she's soo damn stupid that she'll agree to this.:p
 
OH, I think I'd be pissed as hell!!!!

I would have been pissed at her if she got that drunk and didn't do any kissing shit!!!

Letting your girl get that trashed when she's not in your presence is a bad idea... especially if you have a chick who gets so drunk she doesn't know whats going on...

THINK ABOUT THIS...

what if some guy actually would have come on to her... she'd have fucked him, and not known what the hell was going on!!!

I'd say, Not Guilty of Cheating, BUT, guilty of being DUMB!
 
girl gets drunk

girl gets horny

girl falls asleep in the same bed with guy and another girl

girl strips down to her undies

girl feels horny

girl starts kissing ugly mofo

girl gets caught

girl freaks out

girl tries to cry and say she doesnt know what happened

girl is a lyin / cheatin ho...

everybody say HOOO HO HO
 
If your girlfriend sleeps in a bed with another couple shes a whore, not a girlfriend. A real girlfriend would sleep on the couch or the floor because she would think it was wrong. Drunk or sober. If my girl ever did that she wouldnt be my girl. I like the good girls who shut every guy down at the club. Thats why I never dated a girl who cheated on her boyfried with me.
 
What does the bestfreind say about it if she is mad at her and doesn`t talk with her anymore you know that she is wronge and then you sould tell her to bounce.But if the bestfreind is still freinds with her then its ok to say with her(but if your going to have doubts about her then don`t). Good luck!
 
It's been settled, but I was going to say that even if she was telling the truth, she was wrong to get drunk, strip and get in someone's bed. She could have crashed, fully clothed, in the den. A drunk speaks (or acts) with a sober mind.

Tigerparks said:
I'm gonna keep her around for a while. She owes me big time, and she's gonna spend every day paying for it. And she's soo damn stupid that she'll agree to this.:p
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This sounds like manipulation and abuse. It sounds to me like your feelings are hurt and "revenge" is how you're going to explain away (to yourself and maybe others) continuing to be involved with this woman. Anyone would be disappointed and angry in your situation, but don't be a fool and risk getting hurt again or getting her pregnant or getting a disease.

Think about it: By your OWN words, this woman is a pathetic, stupid drunk. So if stay with her, what does that make YOU?
 
Guilty: if she hadnt slept in the same bed as these 2 people nothing of that would have happened. She got drunk then she's responsible of her acts.
 
Guilty - If you let her get away with this shit then it will set precedence for the relationship that she can get over on you. Let her go and she will come back to you. Fuck her when she comes back and after sex tell her that she does not do it for you anymore.
 
guilty

lets get past the bit about her being in the bed with them. or only wearing panties, why was she sleeping right next to the guy, the guys girlfriend should have been in the middle and then she wouldnt have been able to roll over and start coming on to the guy...
 
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