Is it sexual harrassment if..

[evansteve]

All this time and you still havn't had the balls to change one little bit. Unbelievable.

wrong. ive approached a lot of women in the last year. unfortauntely i just havent had much success.

 

[SAGAT]

not you AGAIN man.....what do you mean "pop the question"..you're not asking her to marry you dude

 

[evansteve]

not you AGAIN man.....what do you mean "pop the question"..you're not asking her to marry you dude

by pop the question i mean asking them out, sorry for the confusion.

 

[SAGAT]

you're not getting what i'm saying man... by saying that i meant that you make too big a deal out of this...just do it once, twice, enough times so that these kind of things become natural for you. and don't go asking "if she wants to make out", the girls who say yes to that, you don't wanna be with. start with some small talk, don't come here asking for a complete script of what to say, do etc. that will NEVER work.

 

[thelion2005]

I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.

In a workplace ... oh yes! You could escape punishment with a quick apology and a statement you will not approach her again.

In public .... If she feels she is in physical danger, that is Assault and you are in big trouble.

If she feels this is an unwanted sexual advancement, but not physical danger, you are guilty of harassment. This is usually solved by reasonable people with an apology and you go away.

If you say you've noticed her many times ... thats Stalking and jail time.

Touch her ... it is battery and you are going to jail.

So ... polite small talk, introductions from friends/family is the way to go.

 

[foreigngirl]

I cant beleive this thread is still going and mine died out!!!

 

[evansteve]

you're not getting what i'm saying man... by saying that i meant that you make too big a deal out of this...just do it once, twice, enough times so that these kind of things become natural for you. and don't go asking "if she wants to make out", the girls who say yes to that, you don't wanna be with. start with some small talk, don't come here asking for a complete script of what to say, do etc. that will NEVER work.

I've been doing it a lot and it hasnt been becoming natural yet.

i do small talk, but i have a hard time asking for a number after that or a lot of times when i engage in small talk they show that they are not interested.

 

[evansteve]

I cant beleive this thread is still going and mine died out!!!

yea, i know, i was pretty friggin surprised too. lol!

 

[Sub-Zero]

I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.

you can walk up to her and ask her to have sex with you.

its not sexual harrasment untill she says no and then you ask again (im pretty sure)

 

[jd_uk]

wrong. ive approached a lot of women in the last year. unfortauntely i just havent had much success.

bollocks...your attidtude is the same as ever, that's obvious.

If you really wanted success then you could have it, but you just don't want it enough to grow some balls and be that cocky, funny guy that you so want to be. You just can't forget that you're shy, geeky blah blah...until you do forget it you'll always fail.