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I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.

nah i doubt that that is harassment...lol...what's the worst that can happen? she rejects you like a bitch saying something such as "get out of my face you pervert!" then who cares you walk away and try the next lady on the next park bench...lol...one will have to budge ;) :heart:
 
Well I wouldn't just walk up to her, tell her how beautiful she is and then ask for her number right away.

Small talk will let you know whether she is interested or not. I don't see why meeting someone in a park would be any different than meeting someone at a bar or any other public establishment
 
No, it's not sexual harrassment if you ask a random girl for her phone number. Go for it. You will get phone numbers that way if you act confident. Be good.
 
Delinquent said:
Well I wouldn't just walk up to her, tell her how beautiful she is and then ask for her number right away.

Small talk will let you know whether she is interested or not. I don't see why meeting someone in a park would be any different than meeting someone at a bar or any other public establishment

i guess i could pull some small talk shiz for 5 minutes, but then after that id probably have to budge and pop the question.
 
evansteve said:
i guess i could pull some small talk shiz for 5 minutes, but then after that id probably have to budge and pop the question.


the question as in phone number? sure, that could work. But don't ask her about cuddling and all that shit like in your other post. That would freak just about any girl out.
 
Delinquent said:
the question as in phone number? sure, that could work. But don't ask her about cuddling and all that shit like in your other post. That would freak just about any girl out.

okay, ya thats what i meant.

how the heck do you ask a girl if she wants to fool around with you? (keeping in mind if she's already a friend)
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.


All this time and you still havn't had the balls to change one little bit. Unbelievable.
 
I don´t know what the law is and it will be different from place to place but I think it should only be illegal to touch her crotch, ass, mouth or breasts unless she wants you to.

Touching her anywhere else should only be illegal after a warning. You touch her arm or something and she tells you to piss off and if you do it again, THEN its illegal.

The whole area of law is fucking shady. There is usually no evidence at all.
My girlfriend could go to the police now and claim I´ve been raping and threatening her for two years and she never dared tell them until now.

I´d be in serious danger of being convicted. It´s crazy. Then again you can´t legalize this stuff either.

This is a problem caused by this crazy world in which it is normal for women to have interaction with men who aren´t spouses or relatives. Gives all sorts of tricky problems.

:chomp:
 
...... and people wonder why there are so many singles.... :rolleyes:
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.


no its not harassment or sexual harassment, as you have only asked once, anyone can ask anyone, how else would people get together. harassment is defined if it is continued unwanted contact of any kind, and obviously sexual harassment needs some form of sexual act to it, it could be lewd comments of suggestive comments etc. but what your talking about is 100% fine.
 
DUH! everyone knows you walk up to her.. and ask her to Taco Bell first! Then its all smooth sailing from there.
 
jd_uk said:
All this time and you still havn't had the balls to change one little bit. Unbelievable.

wrong. ive approached a lot of women in the last year. unfortauntely i just havent had much success.
 
not you AGAIN man.....what do you mean "pop the question"..you're not asking her to marry you dude
 
SAGAT said:
not you AGAIN man.....what do you mean "pop the question"..you're not asking her to marry you dude

by pop the question i mean asking them out, sorry for the confusion.
 
you're not getting what i'm saying man... by saying that i meant that you make too big a deal out of this...just do it once, twice, enough times so that these kind of things become natural for you. and don't go asking "if she wants to make out", the girls who say yes to that, you don't wanna be with. start with some small talk, don't come here asking for a complete script of what to say, do etc. that will NEVER work.
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.

In a workplace ... oh yes! You could escape punishment with a quick apology and a statement you will not approach her again.

In public .... If she feels she is in physical danger, that is Assault and you are in big trouble.

If she feels this is an unwanted sexual advancement, but not physical danger, you are guilty of harassment. This is usually solved by reasonable people with an apology and you go away.

If you say you've noticed her many times ... thats Stalking and jail time.

Touch her ... it is battery and you are going to jail.

So ... polite small talk, introductions from friends/family is the way to go.
 
SAGAT said:
you're not getting what i'm saying man... by saying that i meant that you make too big a deal out of this...just do it once, twice, enough times so that these kind of things become natural for you. and don't go asking "if she wants to make out", the girls who say yes to that, you don't wanna be with. start with some small talk, don't come here asking for a complete script of what to say, do etc. that will NEVER work.

I've been doing it a lot and it hasnt been becoming natural yet. :(

i do small talk, but i have a hard time asking for a number after that or a lot of times when i engage in small talk they show that they are not interested.
 
foreigngirl said:
I cant beleive this thread is still going and mine died out!!!

yea, i know, i was pretty friggin surprised too. lol!
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.
you can walk up to her and ask her to have sex with you.

its not sexual harrasment untill she says no and then you ask again (im pretty sure)
 
evansteve said:
wrong. ive approached a lot of women in the last year. unfortauntely i just havent had much success.

bollocks...your attidtude is the same as ever, that's obvious.

If you really wanted success then you could have it, but you just don't want it enough to grow some balls and be that cocky, funny guy that you so want to be. You just can't forget that you're shy, geeky blah blah...until you do forget it you'll always fail.
 
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dude just go do something stupid, like go jogging right in front of her then trip and fall down and get up with a goofy look on ur face and shell stop and probably laugh, then shell have her walls down and u can talk to her, make small talk, then ask her if shed like to jog with u, and u 2 can jog and talk, then ask her if she wants to jog to a coffee shop, or ask if u can buy her water or something.

make it really goofy and laugh like ur joking the whole time....like c'mon "wanna go jogging sometime, like how about we jog" and then "can i buy you water sometime, like maybe after we finish jogging if ur thirsty"

if that doesnt work then who cares at least u had fun being goofy and have a funny story to post on EF
 
go in for the kill man,
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.


omg
 
SublimeZM said:
dude just go do something stupid, like go jogging right in front of her then trip and fall down and get up with a goofy look on ur face and shell stop and probably laugh, then shell have her walls down and u can talk to her, make small talk, then ask her if shed like to jog with u, and u 2 can jog and talk, then ask her if she wants to jog to a coffee shop, or ask if u can buy her water or something.

make it really goofy and laugh like ur joking the whole time....like c'mon "wanna go jogging sometime, like how about we jog" and then "can i buy you water sometime, like maybe after we finish jogging if ur thirsty"

if that doesnt work then who cares at least u had fun being goofy and have a funny story to post on EF


lol,
pure genius.

but ya, prolly something i wouldnt have the balls to do unfortuantely :(
i guess for now ill just try to make friends and see where that goes.
 
jd_uk said:
bollocks...your attidtude is the same as ever, that's obvious.

If you really wanted success then you could have it, but you just don't want it enough to grow some balls and be that cocky, funny guy that you so want to be. You just can't forget that you're shy, geeky blah blah...until you do forget it you'll always fail.


good post.
 
evansteve said:
I walk up to some random girl in the park and tell her that she's beautiful and that I want her number?
After all it might make her uncomfortable.

But then again some women get uncomfortable if you look at them.

I'm sure if you walked up to some girl in the park and asked her if she wanted to make out with you, then that would be sexual harrassment.

I wonder where the line gets drawn.
ok, i think we've pinpointed your problem. that "look" you refer to is called a leer or glare. when you stare at a chick with your mouth open, it's makes them uncomfortable. you've got a better chance saying "hi, i'm evansteve, and the last time i had pussy is when pussy had me."
 
HumanTarget said:
ok, i think we've pinpointed your problem. that "look" you refer to is called a leer or glare. when you stare at a chick with your mouth open, it's makes them uncomfortable. you've got a better chance saying "hi, i'm evansteve, and the last time i had pussy is when pussy had me."

maybe id have a better chance at women if i was blind.
 
foreigngirl said:
oh, no, the stinky farts after eating Taco Bell....



hey, you get stinky farts from taco bell? do you fart loud? i mean, the only time i ever heard my wife fart was when she was sleeping. when do woman fart? and is it as loud as ours???
 
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