Is it disrespectful to have sex with your SO when spending the night over someone elses house?

[TC2]

Re: Is it disrespectful to have sex with your SO when spending the night over someone

I love the way Melissa makes loud sex noises in the sack.

Who's he??

 

[Smurfy]

This weekend I was too intoxicated to drive home after going to the bars so we ended up walking back to my GF's friends condo for an after hourse party. Long story short, a bunch of people POD on the floor of her living room so we just slept on her couch and did the dirty under some linen. Anyways, I woke up the next morning, went on the balconi to get some fresh air, I come back inside and hear the girl that owns the condo saying "wow Melissa, you really had to get it last night didn't you". I didn't really think anything of it at the time because my brain felt like trash, but then on the way home I realized that she was being serious. lol... This is the first time I heard someone get pissy over someone having sex. Maybe it was because we were on her suede couch, who knows though.

Disrespectful?

well yeah. you're not in a bedroom with the door closed and obviously were loud enough for others to hear/ that's kinda classless. but i could see myself doing something like that in a drunken stupor in college.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

like someone said, in a guest bedroom, its ok if you were invited rather than just emergency crashed. on a suede couch? death penalty

 

[Sub-Zero]

This weekend I was too intoxicated to drive home after going to the bars so we ended up walking back to my GF's friends condo for an after hourse party. Long story short, a bunch of people POD on the floor of her living room so we just slept on her couch and did the dirty under some linen. Anyways, I woke up the next morning, went on the balconi to get some fresh air, I come back inside and hear the girl that owns the condo saying "wow Melissa, you really had to get it last night didn't you". I didn't really think anything of it at the time because my brain felt like trash, but then on the way home I realized that she was being serious. lol... This is the first time I heard someone get pissy over someone having sex. Maybe it was because we were on her suede couch, who knows though.

Disrespectful?

in that aspects it is pretty disrespectful. its situational though

 

[redshirt27se]

it can be


its cool if:

its a 1st time or relatively new hook up
one of the people involved is not from the area
its in a guest bedroom removed from the general area of the house (if its a room next door.. then that can be rude. no one wants fucking noises keeping them up when they are in their own house)

 

[mountain muscle]

Someone explain to me the difference between hooking up for the first time with someone being okay and hooking up with an SO not being okay.

It's still sex either way. jesus people are stupid.

 

[redshirt27se]

Someone explain to me the difference between hooking up for the first time with someone being okay and hooking up with an SO not being okay.

It's still sex either way. jesus people are stupid.

because if its a SO you can fuck anytime


if its a 1st time, i'm not going to cockblock a buddy from getting fresh new poon.


its that simple.

 

[Lestat]

I think its rude not to!

 

[KillahBee]

because if its a SO you can fuck anytime


if its a 1st time, i'm not going to cockblock a buddy from getting fresh new poon.


its that simple.

Exactly. It may be his only chance with said poobah too.

With an SO you can get it whenever (unless ur married)

 

[Cal_21]

Re: Is it disrespectful to have sex with your SO when spending the night over someone

yeah, i think.

also depends what type of house it is.

if it's like a college dorm room type setup or bachelor pad, then it ain't so bad. If it's a nicer place, i think it's kinda grimey.

if it came down to it (like if my boy was meeting a new chick or whatever, and had a chance to bang her there) then i'd be happy to dish out an assist.
but it's a girlfriend or someone he can bang anytime, then that's fucked up.

We're like kindred spirits as far as this answer goes lol. But freelz, this is exactly what I was thinking.