In Your Last 10 Sexual Encounter How Many Were Initiated by You and Your Spouse?

[curling]

Man, bikini mom,

I hate to ask this but are you telling me he still has feelings for you? Cause you know how the ole saying goes you really don't know what you have until you lose it. So maybe he realizes he made a terrible mistake and would like another chance to correct it. But obviously you would still have to have feelings for him to give another try. I hope I am not stepping out of line here. (I have always been kind of an idealist) You just seem real nice and you have four girls wouldn't it be great if you could salvage the marriage and even make it better?

 

[Trance]

Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!

True, very true.

Maybe I'll get my freak on tonight.

"Getcha freak on, getcha freak on..."

 

[Bikini Mod]

Man, bikini mom,

I hate to ask this but are you telling me he still has feelings for you? Cause you know how the ole saying goes you really don't know what you have until you lose it. So maybe he realizes he made a terrible mistake and would like another chance to correct it. But obviously you would still have to have feelings for him to give another try. I hope I am not stepping out of line here. (I have always been kind of an idealist) You just seem real nice and you have four girls wouldn't it be great if you could salvage the marriage and even make it better?

Curling, u r not out of line AT ALL. As a matter of fact, it was my SINCERE HOPE that after our divorce, he would REALIZE how much he took me for granted that we would eventually remarry... but ALL LOVE AND RESPECT I had for him were gone in the blink of an eye and not for what he has or is doing to me. I am sorry, but I can not say anymore.

You are a good man and I can see that you have only the most sincere and genuine hopes for me and my girls and I truly appreciate it. But TRUST ME when I say that I and my children ARE MUCH BETTER OFF DIVORCED FROM MY EX... not downing him, just stating a fact.

Perhaps he will have the strength one day to face his own issues as I have my own this past year and he will begin to heal so that he will be able to recognize and appreciate the next woman he meets who will love him and be good to my children.

 

[vixenbabe]

Originally posted by bikinimom
Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!
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AMEN SISTER!

I'm a wife, I'm a mother, I'm a friend, and damn it I can still be the best damn Ho around!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Originally posted by bikinimom
Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!
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AMEN SISTER!

I'm a wife, I'm a mother, I'm a friend, and damn it I can still be the best damn Ho around!

Can I get ANOTHER AMEN?! tee-hee

 

[curling]

Bikini mom I understand. It did sound like you did everything in your power and he was just not going to try. I do wish you and your girls an awesome man next time. Just make sure you date em a while and know him inside and out before you let him around your girls. I say this because I have two girls too. And one of my worries if I ever died or divorced that maybe my wifes new husband might mess with them. It is just a fear of mine. I have just heard to nightmare stepdad stories I guess.

 

[Bikini Mod]

My children will only meet ONE MAN... PERIOD.

No, I am in no hurry to bring ANY MEN around my girls... they already have a daddy. Though he may be hurt and acting in ways that he may regret some day, he loves them just the same.

No, the man that I will introduce to my children will be amazing in every way... a true friend who loves and supports me REGARDLESS of the notion of sex.

Sex will be THE LEAST of it... But by GOD - WILL IT ROCK! tee-hee

 

[curling]

Cool. It sounds like you have really thought it out and have a good plan and goal. May God bless you with an awesome spouse and partner.

 

[bigguns7]

Girlfriend of 4 years - I've inititated 9 out of the last 10 times. If I had to give a total, I'd say I initiate it about 98% of the time. This post is really sad, but it makes me feel better about my relationship.

 

[curling]

Girlfriend of 4 years - I've inititated 9 out of the last 10 times. If I had to give a total, I'd say I initiate it about 98% of the time. This post is really sad, but it makes me feel better about my relationship.

Man, bro I know exactly how you feel. It is sad and at the same time it makes feel better about my relationship too. But I would even feel better if she jump my bones soon as a walked through the door one day.