Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below i need some advice. i have been with a girl now for almost 2 years. we want to get engaged in a year (her mom wont let me ask her yet because shes in college still). things are going great, but now that we have been talking about those things i constantly worry that one day things will fade out and she will want someone else or there isnt enough "flare" in the relationship anymore that she'll cheat. i need to consistently try to come up with things to keep her wanting me. i spend a lot of money on her even though she doesnt ask for it (actually she says i spend too much on her and wants me to stop). I also go extremely out of my way most of the time, for example i drive an hour back and forth to her house most days of the week to see her and anything i can to make her happy. i want the relationship to stay alive and after not even 2 years im freaking out. is this normal? and i also need ideas to make her fall in love over and over. if anyone has anything interesting and thoughtful please let me know. HELP. she says it bothers her that im constantly trying to please her and i never do what I want. i need help on turning into that alpha male that i think she wants.
impressing a girlfriend of 2 years
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bottleneckblooz
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Sorry to break it to you but if your GF is college age 18-22, and so are you, the odds of you and her staying together for the rest of your lives are very slim. So my advice to you is forget about marriage, and enjoy it while it lasts. If you want to get marrried because you think this somehow guarantees that you will stay together forever, well sorry, in todays world it don't mean crap. So I really don't see why anyone would want to get married. But if you do decide to get married, start putting money aside now for the divorce.
BNG
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If you've been with her for two years and you're still trying to impress her you have some insecurities. You need to go to some kind of counseling or something bro. You don't even sound comfortable with who you are now, imagine how uncomfortable you'll feel about yourself when some time passes.
WAIT
Is this the girl/relationship I think it is?
Sigh.
Either she loves you or she doesn't.
She best love you for who you are - the good bad and the ugly (especially the bad) because if she only loves you for the person you think she want to love - I give you two years of marriage as best life expectancy.
Is this the girl/relationship I think it is?
Sigh.
Either she loves you or she doesn't.
She best love you for who you are - the good bad and the ugly (especially the bad) because if she only loves you for the person you think she want to love - I give you two years of marriage as best life expectancy.
testbaby25
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From what Ive seen theres nothing that ruins relationships faster than insecurity and the constant questions and questioning that come with it. For all I know you two are serious, but I would suggest just relaxing and having fun. Youre both young and should be enjoying each other and doing little, dumb stuff that you will both enjoy just because you get to be together. Sounds cheesy but thats what has always worked for me..obvioulsy you wanna do nicer, more expensive things but oftentimes what youll really remember are the small, simple things that can turn into some of the best times...good luck
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