Im going to be a Father

[Austin316]

Ummm found out tonight, a condom broke about two months ago, but she had a period, but then started getting sick lately, and the period only lasted a day. She went to the gyno today, and yea bout two months along. Ummmmm Im fine with it, I dunno why Im posting something so personal however I dunno, lots of stuff is going through my head at the moment. A part of me feels really strongly that this is my chance to redeem what was done before, the abortion, I mean how can you go through that then one time a condom breaks and this happens? Maybe it was just fate. I gotta tell my parents tomorrow, I told them all about the other thing this weekend, hardest thing I ever did in my life and I hurt them by assuming they would be mad at me when they would really be ultra supportive, they are aware she was going to get checked, and I think Ill have their full support. Im scared lol, I really am, but I dunno a part of me feels good about it, Ive been with her a year, I love her tremendously, and yea I dunno so thats my story.

 

[Paulos]

Good luck with that homie.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Dude, sorry to say it, but maybe it's not yours. But, if it is then would you mind naming the baby fistfullofsteel? That's if the baby is a boy.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

You know if I supposedly got a woman pregnant and it turned out that it wasn't mine, I think that might bother me more. I know some guys might think, "O good, it's not mine so the baby is not my responsibility." I would be thinking, "That fucking whore, I don't believe this shit" and then go get tested for Std's. You know, becoming a monk doesn't sound that bad right now.

 

[Razorguns]

Well good and bad news.

Good news - you're having a baby!

Bad news - are you planning on being with her the rest of your life? If not -- be prepared for some nasty child custody battles and legal fees coming up. If so -- start shopping for that ring for that shotgun marraige!!!

 

[Austin316]

lol you guys sure know how to cheer a dude up oye

 

[Austin316]

oh yea, ummm K if you see this tomorrow, call me, I think hearing from my big sister might help lift my spirits, I mean Im fine, Im just very overcome with a lot of emotions right now and kinda speechless, typing seems to work though. Yea

 

[Gymgurl]

It's not a bad thing....I have three kids that I wouldn't trade for anything. I have heard of women "spoting" and still being pregnant. Good luck and follow your heart....

 

[-SD-]

If you dont see a long term future with this girl than all of this is going to be hard to deal with. Marry her if you can, otherwise good luck.

 

[Lady Viking]

Good luck