I'm depressed....

[Gymgurl]

This sounds stupid BUT it is a very vaild point...they spelled my name right....most people spell it wrong...or they spell it the way a guy spells it...so that tells me that it is someone who knows me...had access to info....and that really creeps me out

 

[the-short-one]

This sounds stupid BUT it is a very vaild point...they spelled my name right....most people spell it wrong...or they spell it the way a guy spells it...so that tells me that it is someone who knows me...had access to info....and that really creeps me out

you don't have any idea? how about your friend - does he suspect anyone?

Vel is right - you can't let this influence how you live your life. especially since you didn't do anything wrong.

 

[Gymgurl]

I know...you guys are right...I just feel violated...I'm a super friendly person..(if I can say that lol) and talk to evryone...I just don't even want to talk to members employees or friends...I don't want someone getting in trouble due my name only. I think that sucks...

 

[nelmsjer]

Hey, GG. I can't picture you depressed. I think of Gymgurl and all I hear is "wakey, wakey!", and it always brings a smile to my face. So....we've got to get through this.

You know the truth. You know the facts. You haven't done anything. In fact, this wasn't even your fault! I think it's wonderful that you care about the guy's marriage (we need more people that care), but there is a difference between caring and assuming the responsibility for someone's else's jealousy/insecurity/(insert negative emotion based on anger/fear/greed here).

If you walk away, you leave friends, business, and a lot of happiness. The other prick wins. We're not going to allow that.

So...wakey, wakey...shakey, shakey...and get your happy hiney, hiney to the gym!

 

[que_66]

Does this help?

Pretend it's the jealous guy that sent the note. They probably did it as a sick joke or a dare.




for U:

 

[Sassy69]

Does this help?

Pretend it's the jealous guy that sent the note. They probably did it as a sick joke or a dare.




for U:

That made me spit out my supplements almost!

GG - people are so dumb. Especially when they have hang-ups or like to hurt people. That's weird that this would be in a letter format. Wonder if that could be pursued as some sort of USPS violation - threat thru the mail, etc.

 

[scorpiogirl]

What the HELL is WRONG with people? I mean....what's the freakin' point of doing something so increadibly stupid? So are there any women you know of that have issues with you? This sounds like a psycho chick to me.

Nelms is right. You need to get on with it. It is a little creapy, but I think someone is jealous of you. You have/had something (friendship) with someone they don't, and they (she) wanted to make sure it was taken away. Pretty sad.

I was always told "you know what the truth is, and no matter how it looks to someone NOT in the situation - it doesn't matter - nor does their opinion."

Get your ass back in that gym!!!!!!!

 

[Jamie Lynn]

Hey GG I am so sorry this happened to you. I know how you feel because I get accused of sleeping with any guy I talk to. People get jealous and do some stupid stuff. Don't let them get to you and as long as you and him know the truth you have nothing to worry about. Keep your head high!!!

 

[que_66]

If you don't go back to the gym - they get exactly what they want - they win.

Do you really want that cheap little panty sniffer to win? Hmmm?

 

[jenscats5]

I agree with a lot of the comments.......

You haven't done anything wrong & you can't give this person the satisfaction of not going to the gym or not talking to people as that's just not YOU.....

Plus, there are a LOT of people in this world who enjoy, live for & get off talking badly about others, trying to cut others down, etc.....Don't let them get you down!!