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Buddy_Christ
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Say in the 12-15 year old range.
If you knew your child was sexually active, what would you do?
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Buddy_Christ
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KillahBee said:
Ya know, I was going to post "And KillahSTD, no comments of how you'd fuck her too" because I KNEW you would say something like that.
Buddy_Christ
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nycgirl said:
I'd be against putting my daughter on birth control for a few reasons. I've heard a few horror stories from girls that went on birth control at a young age and when they came off and wanted to get pregnant, they had problems. While their bodies are still changing there could be a risk for perminet damage.
The other reason is that teenagers think they're invincible a lot of the time. He or she (or both) might think that just because she's on birth control, nothing bad will happen. What if he picks up an STD and passes it to her? What if her body chemistry changes or she forgets to take the pill and she gets pregnant? I know there's alternatives to the pill, but the birth control still might fail her. My gf was on the pill and I have a 4 1/2 year old son.
crak600 said:
That's why I said make sure she has the knowledge to protect herself. Being in denial and locking her in the house will not stop her from having sex. Be upfront and honest with her. Talk about sex with her. Trust me, if she wants to have sex she will do it, you are not with her 24/7.
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jenscats5
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*covering ears*
La-la-la-laaaaaaaaaaa *refusing to believe it*
Actually I told J once -- If you're gonna go in, always go in covered....always!
La-la-la-laaaaaaaaaaa *refusing to believe it*
Actually I told J once -- If you're gonna go in, always go in covered....always!
Eringobraugh
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Boy Id highfive him, Girl, ground her til she's 18 or send her to a kids boot camp
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Ulcasterdropout
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God, they fuck at 12 y/o now? 
There was an article on Joe Perry of Aerosmith in the new Men's Health, and he talked about the right time to talk to your kids about sex. His answer?
As soon as they are able to talk.
As soon as they are able to talk.
biteme said:
Sure, but just remember that when they feel restricted too much is when they start lashing out and getting into more serious trouble.
Buddy_Christ
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Golemnium said:
Something along the lines of this -
pintoca said:
this -
nycgirl said:
and this -
danielson said:if you gave her the condom tutorisl and brought in a banana I'm sure it would trouble her so much she wouldnt have sex for years
I dont think there is anything you can say to stop them doing it, as at that age im sure they would do it anyway and hide it more
Buy her condoms in bulk and say "if you need more, let me know." Tell her she's getting tested for STDs every 6 months and beg her to let you know if something seems "funny" down there so you can make an appointment to get her checked out. Encourage abstinence but not in a way that scars her for life, because, after all, you do hope to be a grandparent one day so you can laugh at your children and say, "and you were that bad too!"
And then, of course, come the "horror" stories. Our daughter will get told that the one time her mother had sex without a condom, she was concieved. She will also be told that her younger brother was concieved while mom was on the pill. Both children will hear those stories, not to tell them that they are unwanted, but to let them know just how easy it is to get pregnant.
Then comes the talk about what happens if they accidentily become a parent while they're still teenagers - we will not raise your child, YOU WILL. You will finish high school and you will apply for aid to help support your child. We are not here to "fix" this problem for you, you will "fix" it yourself. If you don't like that, then good luck surviving on your own while raising a child.
i think it would depend...i intend on giving all 3 of them the talk at about 11 maybe 12 years old..no older than that..my daughter will go on the pill at 13 reguardless..call me mean but i would love to enjoy watching my children graduate and be as good as they can be without having to fend for an infant also...i guess i will explain to me what i did when i was young and how i struggled to become who i am and all that great stuff...i cannot tell my kids what to do because they will do the opposite but i can be here to warn them of pregnancy and infections.so i guess the talk then help protect them......
tell them not to expect me to raise their kid for them if they get knocked up or vice versa (although in the case of a boy Id also kick the living crap out of him if he does the deadbeat dad thing)
Thats way too fucking young I honestly don't know how I would handle it without blowing up
Thats way too fucking young I honestly don't know how I would handle it without blowing up
actually after rereading it (depending on if I have the financial capability) the boot camp (all male or female including staff type) would prob work
I could share my own personal stories and what it feels like to lose a baby and how excruciating the guilt over abortion is even if its one of the "ok" reasons. Tell my son how hearing the words "I think Im pregnant" when your not prepared makes you want to stab yourself in the gut repeatedly and die. but then again at 12 I dunno if its cool for a parent to dump that kinda crap on a child, god I don't want a daughter unless she has a protective older brother to watch out for her first, thats all I know
I could share my own personal stories and what it feels like to lose a baby and how excruciating the guilt over abortion is even if its one of the "ok" reasons. Tell my son how hearing the words "I think Im pregnant" when your not prepared makes you want to stab yourself in the gut repeatedly and die. but then again at 12 I dunno if its cool for a parent to dump that kinda crap on a child, god I don't want a daughter unless she has a protective older brother to watch out for her first, thats all I know
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nutsnack
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I would have ure wife or her mother talk to her about it.. im sure a mother daughter talk would be better then a father daughter talk but i dont know ure relationship.. but id have rather talked to my dad about sex then my mom 
seizer
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When my mom was 18, she fucked up and got pregnant with me...my dad was 22 and fresh off the boat. She, hasnt really been able to lift off as much as she would have liked to, but my dad on the other hand is doing quite nicely for himself and the family.
I dunno, I dont feel like its my fault that I kind of contributed to my moms...i dunno, not so good life, for lack of a better word, so I'm pretty much making it my business to do well with university and school so I can help her out afterwards. I feel I owe it her...she did give me life after all.
I dunno, I dont feel like its my fault that I kind of contributed to my moms...i dunno, not so good life, for lack of a better word, so I'm pretty much making it my business to do well with university and school so I can help her out afterwards. I feel I owe it her...she did give me life after all.
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KillahBee said:
why not join em for a threesome?
ceasar989 said:
THat's very considerate of you and you will probably do whatever you can because she's you mom, but you don't owe it to her. She made her bed and has to lie in it. As a parent, I only want for my child to have the best life possible and I hope that she becomes a Christian and does it God's way. (No comments please) I certainly don't want her to have to pay for my mistakes and I want her to have a better life than me. Some parents are lousy people though. Not saying that your mother is one of them.
The Angry Mule
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12 years old,I'd be kicking someones ass.
Eringobraugh
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Just arrange it so she discovers her parents having real loud kinky sex and walks in, she'll be scarred from sexual relations for years to come
guy...give him a high five and buy him some condoms, make sure he knows hes a pimp but needs to stay safe.
girl- knock her teeth out and every guy shes ever touched.
scold her, never let her out.
-jk, id get mad at her and tell her im ashamed of her and that her body is sacred and then try and scare the shit out of her boyfriends, (just to try and play badcop and scare her) but then when shes all depressed and goes to mommy for some support id get my wife to counsel her on being safe, what the implications and expectations are etc etc, and buy her a box of condoms and make her teach her how to put em on guys
girl- knock her teeth out and every guy shes ever touched.
scold her, never let her out.
-jk, id get mad at her and tell her im ashamed of her and that her body is sacred and then try and scare the shit out of her boyfriends, (just to try and play badcop and scare her) but then when shes all depressed and goes to mommy for some support id get my wife to counsel her on being safe, what the implications and expectations are etc etc, and buy her a box of condoms and make her teach her how to put em on guys
Eringobraugh
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Just raise her on the typical american diet of sugared pop, high carb and fat fare, lots of pizza and tacobell so that she's a porker so there's no chance of getting any.
squatpuke
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I have 3 kids...5 y/o girl, 2 y/o boy and 3 week y/o girl....
One person told me it was better to have boys since they leave their problems OUT of the house...girls on the other hand, bring them INTO the house.
12-15 seems REAL young....I'm currently living in a dream world, because I know my daughters won't have sex until they're married.
Good Luck man.
One person told me it was better to have boys since they leave their problems OUT of the house...girls on the other hand, bring them INTO the house.
12-15 seems REAL young....I'm currently living in a dream world, because I know my daughters won't have sex until they're married.
Good Luck man.
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squatpuke said:
Ohhhhhhhhh, man are you in for it then!! With girls -- when they turn 13-15 -- it's like the "master computer" turns on & they turn from a little girl into a boy-hungry beast. It's bizarre to watch & seemingly happens overnight. They go from no makeup, playing, etc to skimpy clothes, madeup, women -- overnight. Scary.
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EnderJE said:
Are you being sarcastic??
Mr. dB said:
THere's no way I would if I were agnostic or athiest. No way. Why bring a child into the world if you know the end result is pain, death, suffering and loss. Let's not delude ourselves. Life is pain. I didn't want to have children for this reason. My ex wanted to have a child so I didn't want to deny her that. I had taken steroids and been told that I was sterile so I really didn't think I could get her pregnant anyway. She got pregnant as soon as she got off of the bc pill. The child is mine. Looks like me, acts like me (unfortunately). I named her Hope because I said, "Oh God, if you exist, I'm gonna need you now because now I love someone else more than myself and I hope that you show up and prove that you exist."
KillzwithPillz
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Id lock her in her room and push food under door but im over protective... good luck
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nutsnack
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tell her that if she has sex you will kill herself and that oughta put a guilt trip on her from hell and if she does it anyways kill ureself and she'll live the rest of her life in misery knowing she cased her father to kill himself.. priceless!!
