If you had one homosexual experience

[bluetwistedsteel67]

I gotta say bullshit to this. Gay is gay, you are right. I have no problem with what people do behind closed doors. But, it's not the same with 2 women as with 2 men. You can't call a guy a hypocrite for thinking 2 girls together is cool and 2 guys together is gross. I'll put it this way. If I had a roommate and I came home to him getting buttfucked by another guy in the living room I'd be grossed out. If I had a female roommate and I came home and she was eating the puss of some hot college girl in the living room I'd be begging to join the party. Does this make me bigoted toward gay men or a hypocrite? I think it just makes me normal.

I'll be the first to say this with caution to some criticism:

I think its fucking stupid when guys will be disgusted with gay men kissing or holding hands or whatever and then be turned on by two women.

gay is gay. man or woman. gay is gay. either you dont mind gays, or you do.

and dont give me this bullshit about, "Women are so much softer and beautiful so its sexy" bullshit.

its two women. just like its two men.

gay is gay.

either you're down with it or not. either be accepting on both or neither.

tards.

 

[Alpine]

OMG!! Yes. That's why I NEVER date anyone from (born & raised) our area. NEVER.

Well, don't count us all out on account of a few deviants! That's a little unfair don't ya think? You just gotta watch out for the brothas "on the down low." LOL It's comical some of the things I see take place in that type of community. And for the record, I am 100% straight.

 

[nycgirl]

Well, don't count us all out on account of a few deviants! That's a little unfair don't ya think? You just gotta watch out for the brothas "on the down low." LOL It's comical some of the things I see take place in that type of community. And for the record, I am 100% straight.

Yes, you are right. That's not fair. When I moved down here (almost 5 years ago), there was an article in the Washington Post about "down low" clubs in D.C. That sort of changed my attitude about dating in this area.

 

[Freak Nasty]

I gotta say bullshit to this. Gay is gay, you are right. I have no problem with what people do behind closed doors. But, it's not the same with 2 women as with 2 men. You can't call a guy a hypocrite for thinking 2 girls together is cool and 2 guys together is gross. I'll put it this way. If I had a roommate and I came home to him getting buttfucked by another guy in the living room I'd be grossed out. If I had a female roommate and I came home and she was eating the puss of some hot college girl in the living room I'd be begging to join the party. Does this make me bigoted toward gay men or a hypocrite? I think it just makes me normal.

I don't usually say negative things, but this post is just dumb. Im not going to even try to get into a deep argument, but look at what you said. Two people of the same sex having sex is not the same depending on what sex they are. Its gross to you, because you are a guy and apparently thats not your thing. It is still homosexual activity regardless on who is doing what.
I just love when people are willing to bet the farm on the non-gayness or difference of two women verses two men. You would think that by the time people reached adulthood that they can see that 3+1=4 just like 1+3=4. No difference. The answer is the same; both are homosexual (not saying it's bad) acts and the same. Get with the program.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

I don't usually say negative things, but this post is just dumb. Im not going to even try to get into a deep argument, but look at what you said. Two people of the same sex having sex is gay in one example and not in the other. The only difference is their sex. Its gross to you, because you are a guy and apparently thats not your thing. It is still homosexual activity regardless on who is doing what.
I just love when people are willing to bet the farm on the non-gayness of two women verses the gayness of two men. You would think that by the time people reached adulthood that they can see that 3+1=4 just like 1+3=4. No difference. The answer is the same; both are homosexual (not saying it's bad) acts. Get with the program.

I never said one was gay and one wasn't. I said I found one gross and the other hot. It's just my opinion. I was responding to a prior post that a person should see both exactly the same or they are basically hypocritical. I personally get turned on by 2 women and not by 2 men. That was my point.

 

[Freak Nasty]

I never said one was gay and one wasn't. I said I found one gross and the other hot. It's just my opinion. I was responding to a prior post that a person should see both exactly the same or they are basically hypocritical. I personally get turned on by 2 women and not by 2 men. That was my point.

But, it's not the same with 2 women as with 2 men. Does this make me bigoted toward gay men or a hypocrite? I think it just makes me normal.

You specifically said it was not the same. To say you were a bigot means that you are one way in person, but talk shit behind the subjects back. I would say you are prejudice against gay men. Before you blow up, chill. Everybody is prejudice against something. That does not mean you go around gay bashing, that just means you don't find that pleasing. I can't stand to watch two men kiss. At the same time if I find two people (regardless of sex) fucking each other and its intense then I'd watch it. I'm a voyeur and thats my thing. Ive seen (not in person) two dudes go at it and it was intense and it turned me on. The same with women. On the other hand I have seen two separate same sex individuals going at it and was like blah...barf. So....

I was just pointing out that you said they were different when in fact they are not;They are just different to you.

BTW. what is normal? I can find millions of people who say having wanting to be with two women at the same time is not normal. Hell there are people that think bodybuilders are not normal, but people with body appearance disorders. So when it comes to normalcy, there is no such thing.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

I'll agree completey with the fact that normal is very ambiguous. I am normal "to me" but I am totally not normal to others. Which actually goes along with the point I was trying to make. The poster I was responding to was basically saying that if you don't see both genders homosexuality the same there is something wrong with you. Different people are turned on by different scenerios. You can get turned on by the intensity of sex regardless of gender I can't/don't. That means you see the 2 acts as the same or at least similar while I just "see" them differently. I think are beleifs are similar even though are tastes are different.

 

[Freak Nasty]

I'll agree completey with the fact that normal is very ambiguous. I am normal "to me" but I am totally not normal to others. Which actually goes along with the point I was trying to make. The poster I was responding to was basically saying that if you don't see both genders homosexuality the same there is something wrong with you. Different people are turned on by different scenerios. You can get turned on by the intensity of sex regardless of gender I can't/don't. That means you see the 2 acts as the same or at least similar while I just "see" them differently. I think are beleifs are similar even though are tastes are different.

True

 

[Hiatussin]

if you enjoyed it I guess that makes one bisexual

its all a continuum

 

[manny78]

does that make you gay?

Is your answer the same for a man and a woman?

I dont think so. Some people just try it as a curiosity. I know a guy who's straight like an iron pole who had sex once with a gay dude. He didnt like it at all but felt like it was something to try just to have a clear picture.