If you had one homosexual experience

[obiwan9962]

IMO, a person is gay if they call themselves gay, otherwise they're straight or bi ... maybe they've experimented, maybe they like swinging both ways, but it's not for anyone else to define.

I knew a woman who had been with almost as many men as she had women, she called herself gay though. I tried to argue this point with her and said, "THAT makes you bi," she said she wasn't, her reasoning, the guys were just flings, she had relationships with women. For a lot of gay people the defining factor is where they feel an emotional connection or bond. Plenty of gay people have married and had children out of cultural or societal obligations.

i agree
the fact of the matter it is all a bunch of labels
emotional ties define the actual person

 

[nycgirl]

IMO, a person is gay if they call themselves gay, otherwise they're straight or bi ... maybe they've experimented, maybe they like swinging both ways, but it's not for anyone else to define.

I knew a woman who had been with almost as many men as she had women, she called herself gay though. I tried to argue this point with her and said, "THAT makes you bi," she said she wasn't, her reasoning, the guys were just flings, she had relationships with women. For a lot of gay people the defining factor is where they feel an emotional connection or bond. Plenty of gay people have married and had children out of cultural or societal obligations.

Well said.

 

[PICK3]

IMO, a person is gay if they call themselves gay, otherwise they're straight or bi ... maybe they've experimented, maybe they like swinging both ways, but it's not for anyone else to define.

If you're a dude and you enjoy having your fudge packed while you chew on the edge of your pillow I define you as geigh.

 

[obiwan9962]

If you're a dude and you enjoy having your fudge packed while you chew on the edge of your pillow I define you as geigh.

i don't and have never had this happen
all though i have in my younger drunken years played
but that was many years ago
my gf knows and stands by me as long as all that is in the past which it is
i am emotionally attracted to women and could never with men
if you would like to label me as gay go for it
it is your opinion and everyone has one just as everyone has an assholllllle
i live my life
you live yours
cheers

 

[starfish]

No....I slept with another girl when I was younger. It was ok..no big deal. Did nothing for me. I prefer men.

 

[Alpine]

You mean like that one dick you sucked in college.......because you needed the money.......to pay for food......YES YOUR GAY!

 

[Alpine]

I'll suck your cock for a thousand dollars.

Sheesh! He went from straight to gay prostitute within a few posts! lol

That reminds me of that movie Kingpin......."I'll give you 1 million dollars if you have sex with your friend...." then you see Woody Harrelson throwing piles of money all over the place! lol

 

[Alpine]

that still makes them gat bro.there is no half gay.if you like sucken dick youre gay.just cuz you like women dont negate the fact that you suck dick.

the fact is men dont go fucken other men unless there gay.

btw bro wtf is youre problem you cant have a normal convo with out getting all made and crying like a bitch.what a fucken baby you are.

Ever heard of "undercover brothas?" Apparently it's a DC phenomenon. Straight guys with full on families going out having gay sex on the side. I've actually heard a guy talking about fucking another man and then pulling an AAP.....talkin' shit about how he isn't gay. I guess I just don't get it.

 

[nycgirl]

Ever heard of "undercover brothas?" Apparently it's a DC phenomenon. Straight guys with full on families going out having gay sex on the side. I've actually heard a guy talking about fucking another man and then pulling an AAP.....talkin' shit about how he isn't gay. I guess I just don't get it.

OMG!! Yes. That's why I NEVER date anyone from (born & raised) our area. NEVER.

 

[EnderJE]

Ever heard of "undercover brothas?" Apparently it's a DC phenomenon. Straight guys with full on families going out having gay sex on the side. I've actually heard a guy talking about fucking another man and then pulling an AAP.....talkin' shit about how he isn't gay. I guess I just don't get it.

Actually, the first time I've heard of that is on Law And Order : SUV. It was called "on the down lo".