I have never had random sex and won't. I can't seperate sex and love. I have been with 5 people in my life. They were all solid relationships and people I cared very much about.
My friends bust on me too, that's okay, they have kids and crabs. There are too many consequences when it is just empty sex. Just not my thing. I have had girls jump on me and I immediately lost all respect for them, which makes it easy for me to tell them to go home. The funny thing is that everyone else thinks I am a man whore because I have a different physical appearance. I am with the girl I plan to marry and we are waiting. We have been with each other many times in the past, but decided to chill out on it.