I think I'm about to me single

[Mike LI]

Alright Bros, I looks like me and my girl may be splitting up after about 4years, we live togather and she is a great girl but we have been having some problems for a while now and the relationship just isn't work out as well as it should be and just not progressing. I have just been kinda freaked out about being so committed at only 24 and have had a desire to kinda be on my own and do my own thing for a little while now which results in me not treating her like I should. It is a pretty shitty situation because she really is a phemnomial girl and it's not easy to let her go but it isn't fair to just keep her around either and not treat her right. I have mixed feelings about the whole situation but I'm pretty excited about being single and also kinda nervous about it too because it's been a long time since I've been single. It sucks because I am hurting her either way which I don't want to do. Has anyone else been in this situation? How did it work out for you?

 

[PatBateman3]

Alright Bros, I looks like me and my girl may be splitting up after about 4years, we live togather and she is a great girl but we have been having some problems for a while now and the relationship just isn't work out as well as it should be and just not progressing. I have just been kinda freaked out about being so committed at only 24 and have had a desire to kinda be on my own and do my own thing for a little while now which results in me not treating her like I should. It is a pretty shitty situation because she really is a phemnomial girl and it's not easy to let her go but it isn't fair to just keep her around either and not treat her right. I have mixed feelings about the whole situation but I'm pretty excited about being single and also kinda nervous about it too because it's been a long time since I've been single. It sucks because I am hurting her either way which I don't want to do. Has anyone else been in this situation? How did it work out for you?

2 years older than you and went through the exact same situation (or still going through it). PM me if you wanna talk, just make sure you know what you want out of everything, as the grass always looks greener on the other side.

 

[jnevin]

That just about summed up my marriage. Two good people that weren't that good together and it just went down hill from there. Single life's ok, girls are nuts. If she's important to you maybe try counseling and put all you can into it. I sometimes wish I had tried harder.

 

[*MissFit*]

always seems easier cutting someone's elses grass then you own.. but ... like they said In the end u gotta wonder if it's worth it

 

[marshallmadman]

Alright Bros, I looks like me and my girl may be splitting up after about 4years, we live togather and she is a great girl but we have been having some problems for a while now and the relationship just isn't work out as well as it should be and just not progressing. I have just been kinda freaked out about being so committed at only 24 and have had a desire to kinda be on my own and do my own thing for a little while now which results in me not treating her like I should. It is a pretty shitty situation because she really is a phemnomial girl and it's not easy to let her go but it isn't fair to just keep her around either and not treat her right. I have mixed feelings about the whole situation but I'm pretty excited about being single and also kinda nervous about it too because it's been a long time since I've been single. It sucks because I am hurting her either way which I don't want to do. Has anyone else been in this situation? How did it work out for you?

Show me a beautiful girl and I'll show you a guy who's sick and tired of her bullshit. Dude, you're 24. There is no way you should be committed to one woman at this point in your life.

 

[Mike LI]

I appreiciate the responses. I have struggled this for quite some time know, between wanting to be single and do my own this for a while, we started dating when we were in college so I have never know what it is like to be single as a adult(out of college) and I don't want to end up regretting never giving myself this time know later on in life. But at the same time she is a woman that I truely respect and could really end up kicking myself later for letting her go ontop of the fact that I don't ever want to cause her to be upset. I guess it is the kind of situation where you kind of lose either way. I'm not really sure how this is going to unfold, we'll see.

 

[theoak01]

ok bro here is this from someone who lives with a decision exactly like this everyday.

we were dating for 3 and a half years,I hadnt been single as a adult,I loved her but wanted the same independance you speak of,I wanted to see if all these other hotties were as fun and appealing as they looked, well I was fucking wrong,I should have never let that girl go,and now Ive lost her and there isnt a god damn thing I can do about it except slowly make myself move on. I was self medicating for a while and withdrawn from everyone and everything except work,I didnt eat right or lift for a few months and it shows,I look like shit now.

so really think here bro,if you think this girl could be someone you could marry dont let her go ,you gotta be 100% before you do anything because regrett is a mother fucker and it will effect you in alot of ways,I got into booze and drugs when Im not that kind of person at all.

pm me if ya need any more advice bro,this situation was me to a T,even down to the treating her bad shit

 

[*MissFit*]

Well i dated the same guy from 16-24.. was engaged at 21.. by 24 i decided it wasn't for me.. it's not a decision that sohuld be taken litely.. i don't regret it.. but i know alot of ppl that do

 

[Marauder79]

Somone once said......

"Love Comes Again" - Dj Tiesto

check it out....

 

[Dekaxx]

You have already made up your mind what you want to do just time to go through with it.