Wow, sorry Babe, I'm in something alike, I dated my ex-gf for about 4 years, then we broke up for a year, and start dating again, about 4 or 5 months, and its been 1 1/2 month since she broke me.
So very weird, but we always had great sex, in quality and quantity, before braking me the second time we used to hang out some times and sex was still great, and as I got closer to her it decreased, to the point that since we dated again we only had two quickys, and that is all, so I am on CELIBACY right now, and during a test cycle, I ve been like crazy, but this must end, I must return to the regular sex as soons as possible. It is great with love, but without it, is also very good, and a healthy body and mind need sex.