My boyfriend would kill me if I did that. What you did was wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right. He will be pissed anyways that you caught his ass. Men can be such pigs sometimes! Once a cheater always a cheater! Dump his ass now!
The Ex -Shes kind of a crazy chick, not very good social skills. I've met her b4. Dumb as a rock never had a real relationship besides him and they were only together for a month.
YOU WERE RIGHT! I got caught listening to the VM's (ur right about it bein wrong) and i confronted him, thats how i eventually got caught. He admitted he hadn't been totally honest w me about her calling him. One of my biggest flaws is im a very jealous person. I seemed to acquire that trait after i was a cheater myself, and no i have never cheated on him and I just get wierded out by the thought of being cheated on (karma-what goes around comes around). He knows that so he says he tried to avoid conflict. He called the girl and told her no more calls that it was a mistake to think that they could be friends, before this incident she called him one night and they have kinda the same circle of friends so she said she didnt want things to be wierd and they should be friends. So it's settled, with him at least i swear if i catch her somewhere she will live to regret it I dunno girls thank you for the advise, always good to get more opinions.
I've had men invade my privacy and I know I'm the most faithful person on the planet. I've never had anything to hide and sometimes have trusted too much. Has usually turned out for me that they were the ones up to something. Go figure...
Trust is a biggie for me....Once I don't have that, it just gets pissy and goes downhill.