I may give up on the male of species forever! Help me!

[ade_uk]

Okay guys. I need some feedback here. I'm very curious.

Those of you that know me know that I'm turned on by my own kind. I have a weak spot for other fit ladies. Well, I am going to admit to you that I had some interest in a guy lately. He is very fit too, not huge, but nicely built and vascular. He treats me well, but I think he is a bit intimidated by the fact that I work out so hard in the gym. I don't think he thinks a lady should strain and sweat. Oh well, I'm going to do it anyway. I digress... The reason I'm writing this one is to question guys sexual drive in general. I certainly know that they want it all of the time. While in the act, it sure seems that I am enjoying it more that him. After about 10min, he's done his deed, and is finished. At that point, I'm just getting started. I asked him if he would just hump me for me and not for him. He says that he can't because it tickles too much and he can't stand it. Well, I know for a fact that when I have an orgasm, if I continue to go at it, I tickle too, but I push through it and have another and even BETTER orgasm for doing so!

So what is it with a guy? Can't you push through your little pansy tickling fit and get to another orgasm?

I had to proove it to the guy that I could do it. So, I handled myself for the next 30 minutes and climaxed three times. When I was done, I was exhausted and laying in my wet sweat soaked sheets. Basically, I can sex myself into exhaustion, while he (and most other guys) can be satisfied and hardly break a sweat!

Another thing. When I'm going at it and finally cum, I'm sucking air like mad, moaning, grunting, and flailing around like crazy! I do it because it is so good and I can't control myself. I've never experienced, or seen a guy, act like he likes it near as much as I do. So, does a guy not enjoy sex as much as a lady? For wanting it so often, it would seem like they would enjoy it more when they get it...

Please comment!! Guys, it is true?? Girls, am I just a freak??

Confused,

FG

Hey FG, Now im no cassanova but i can sometimes manage to break thru the tickles and go on to orgasm again my girlfriend really enjoys it when i can. But if all else fails get him drunk and he should last a lot longer because alcohol actually makes it less sensitive and most mem normally last a hell of a lot longer, I know i do!!

 

[Dekaxx]

im not happy until my wife is a a sweaty wet mess, legs shaking thighs quivering and that takes allot longer than 10 minutes...if he can only go for 10 minutes then why the hell can't he get down there and give the kitty a good tounge lashing and some finger action until he is ready to go again....

and as far as my wife having to get through the tickle stage after her first Orgasam she doesn't have a choice i keep going and make her take it until she is screaming for me to stop then for more ect ect

Think that maybe this guy just isn't your sexual match?

 

[Lumberg]

fitgirl there are guys out there for you. I love women who are strong in every way, including that they work their asses off in the gym.

HOT.

As far the the cumming, I try to use alternative methods to ensure satisfaction (tongue, fingers, etc) then enter with my penis for the "finale" if you will.

 

[Wulfgar]

@ all the bros who took the opportunity to turn this thread into a opportunity to boast about thier sexual prowess

 

[Tytan]

Just bring the guy along slowly, you gotta make him want more after he`s done....play with him, kiss him, bite, suck ,lick, grab....get him worked up again...If you lay there and play with yourself you might be making him feel like he didn`t satisfy you and no guy will respond to that...tell him that shit was good and work him up again and he`ll tap it....

 

[HiDnGoD]

Just bring the guy along slowly, you gotta make him want more after he`s done....play with him, kiss him, bite, suck ,lick, grab....get him worked up again...If you lay there and play with yourself you might be making him feel like he didn`t satisfy you and no guy will respond to that...tell him that shit was good and work him up again and he`ll tap it....

Guys run into trouble sometimes, when they assume that their new lover will want things done the way their old lover did. Sometimes women can be harsh that way saying, "He used his tongue too hard, he doesn't know how to eat pussy.", when his old lover beat it into him that his tongue had to be hard in order for her to come.
Give a guy a realistic chance & some instruction, & he should want to please you.

 

[megamania500]

So what is it with a guy? Can't you push through your little pansy tickling fit and get to another orgasm?

FG

Maybe I can shed some light on the subject from a different angle and you can understand what typically happens here. Sure, a guy loves sex, wants it, craves it, lusts it, everything that you think we do. And, yes, overall we walk around horny all the time. And when we get it, it is heaven, and we enjoy it immensely. If we walk around all day thinking about screwing our girlfriends, wife, or whoever and that night we are finally between their thighs it is exactly where we want to be. But the second that nut is blown the only thing that goes through our mind is....


awwwww.........SATISFACTION!!!!!!!!

At that moment our lusts, cravings, horniness, desires, and needs have been SATISFIED. All those feelings of desires have been quenched, and the interest in "gettin' some" disappear. For the time being, anyway.

At this point, if all a guy wanted was to get his rocks off, he will probably turn over and fall into a deep satisfying sleep, or go grab a sandwich, or whatever. But if he knows that you want more he can at least eat at the Y or something to keep you going until he is ready again. Like other's have mentioned in this thread, it is damn fun to keep going to see the woman get off wildly, despite being physically satisfied yourself. Sounds like your man doesn't want to go the extra mile for your desires, but is just interested in satisfying his own.

 

[Gymgurl]

^^^^ good answer^^^^

 

[needtogetaas]

dont give up.check this out.lol

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=493453

 

[Gymgurl]

LOLOLOLOL OMG you didn't just post a link did you? you bad