Guys, no need to fight. As the original poster, I was not offended by anything said. The women that I've dated liked me naked. However, even if I have a girlfriend that I love dearly, if I see a hot lady naked, I still get sprung even if I've never spoken to her before in my life. That seems to be the distinction. Women seem to have a need to really get to know a man on an emotional level before they're interested in his cock and buns.
Bikinimom, I disagree with your comment that nobody strips for fun. Personally I would gladly strip for fun in front of a FEMALE audience. I probably could make some money stripping for gay men but I wouldn't find that enjoyable since I'm straight. Also, I'm certain that there are women who strip for BOTH fun and money. Having an audience of people who are admiring your body can be a sexually exciting situation for men or women. I'm sure there are plenty of female exhibitionists. That guy that started the "Girls Gone Wild" videos showed that. Those girls weren't getting paid but they were receiving plenty of attention.