I just don't understand why women don't like to see naked men

[Tatyana]

Women don't necessarily like 'porn' (although I know a lot that do), but seem to prefer erotica.

I think some of you should check out the trashy romance novels, a lot of them are very highly sexual.

Most nudes of men are for men, not women, so that is why they don't appeal to many women.

Or when men take pics they think women will like, it is almost always one of those down the body pics of their willies, they are really clueless, they are so not sexy.

The gesture is sweet if it a lover, (been there, done that sort of thing), but the visual imagery, ehhh.

It is even worse when you get those random 'bird's eye view' pics here from someone with one or two posts.

 

[Tatyana]

True story:

The night of my 21st birthday it just so happened that the local nightclub was doing their weekly male revue. That meant that they didn't let the dewds into the club till after 10PM. I had no clue what my brother was doing taking me there and when I figured it out I WAS MORTIFIED. I sat down at one of the backbars (with the only other relatively attractive young girl) and couldn't wait for the ridiculous display to be over. Lo and behold some dude who (I swear to God) thought he was a "wild and crazy guy", more hair on his chest than on the top of his head, button down shirt opened to his navel and multiple gold chains comes up to me (and the other girl after I shot him down) and said, "I'm not gay. I come here for all the hot chick."

That is THE ONLY time I had ever been to a male review.

I will be 41 years old soon.

You can always tell the way a lad dances if he has been a stripper or worked for a male reviews/Chippendales.

Gay or straight.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You can always tell the way a lad dances if he has been a stripper or worked for a male reviews/Chippendales.

Gay or straight.

Yup...

Honestly? I prefer to waltz. I know a lot of men who can "shake their hips". But I only know a very small number of men who can waltz.

I'd like to learn country dancing more proficiently. I find that activity to be most enjoyable both to participate and to watch.

The whole Chippendale thing is ridiculous and I can't believe that ANY woman would hoot and woot woot woot over some dude that is getting his ego fed by lonely fat overthehill divorcees stuffing dollar bills down his gold lamme banana hammock while trying to grab his package.

GOOD GOD.

 

[KD1]

I guess this is just one of those differences between men and women that I will never understand. Men will spend all day looking at hot naked women while women just don't seem to care about looking at naked men. I used to think that women secretly liked to look at cocks but wouldn't admit it because they were afraid of being labelled a "slut". Now I think they really just aren't interested in male bodies. A decent looking woman can make a lot of money by taking her clothes off. Too bad there aren't job opportunities like that for men.

My girl is always checking me out when Im in the shower or getting ready.

So I dont know where you get that from - maybe the girls you date are like that.

 

[Tatyana]

My girl is always checking me out when Im in the shower or getting ready.

So I dont know where you get that from - maybe the girls you date are like that.

I don't think he was referring to personal relationships, so the personal attack was unnecessary and really, a bit odd.

What had you feel the need to make a comment like that?

It was a generalisation that women don't have/use the same amount of erotic/pornographic images that men do.

 

[pappad]

My wife thinks male strippers are gross but she LOVES to see me naked!! Male strippers look like goofs!!!

 

[squatmonkey]

Thats an easy one! The majority of guys are fat and hairy.

 

[KD1]

I don't think he was referring to personal relationships, so the personal attack was unnecessary and really, a bit odd.

What had you feel the need to make a comment like that?

It was a generalisation that women don't have/use the same amount of erotic/pornographic images that men do.

What personal attack? You are reading too much into my post.

Just saying Ive never experienced a girl Im with not wanting to see me neked so I think he is either wrong ( Im allowed to disagree arent I? ), or he is dating some girls with issues.

Either way, let the man speak for himself if he didnt like my post - I would have cleared it up, he doesent need a fan club following him around.

 

[Bikini Mod]

What personal attack? You are reading too much into my post.

Just saying Ive never experienced a girl Im with not wanting to see me neked so I think he is either wrong ( Im allowed to disagree arent I? ), or he is dating some girls with issues.

Either way, let the man speak for himself if he didnt like my post - I would have cleared it up, he doesent need a fan club following him around.

The words could be construed either way...

Tatyana is a moderator - not "a fan club" so let's be clear... shall we?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Thats an easy one! The majority of guys are fat and hairy.

Not so... women view men differently then men view women. PERIOD.

Women have a hard time understanding how it is that MANY men will leave hundreds of thousands of dollars in strip clubs for nothing more than a peep show. when they could get TONS OF REAL SEX for less money hiring a prostitute or getting massages with "happy endings."

So if a dude wants to make a ton a dough stripping then he should have at it dancing for other men. Gay men have the most expendable income of any segment of society. And because the dancer only cares about the money (NOBPODY does it because it *is fun*) what difference does it make WHO is at the other end of that dollar bill?

Trust me gentlemen, when I tell you that NEVER is a dancer remotely turned on by ANY man that she dances for REGARDLESS of what she is saying before she gets paid.