Strange, I was just thinking about this the other day. When I was married I was getting laid practically daily for 7 years straight, usually more than once per day, but I never masturbated more during my life than during those 7 years. Since she's moved out and I haven't been getting any, I've kind of lost interest in even masturbating more than a few times per week.
i know what you're saying. the more sex i get the hornier i get. it's got to be a consistant thing though, not just a few times in a week and i'm instantly horny 24/7 again. it's got to go on for a while.
of course, during long dry spells i was :wackit: daily just to keep my sanity. it was just manditory.
As you all know my GF & I have decided to take time apart & I suggested seeing other ppl.
What gets me is that she was very upset that I suggested this when it was just a couple of days ago that she said she wanted out of the relationship b/c she couldn't take all the fighting & that we're getting along better not seeing eachother as we'd already started taking a break.
& the past month or so she's been stressing the fact that she does not see a real future for the 2 of us so why is she soooo upset & surprised I suggested to see other ppl?
Not too mention the fact that she's totally lost her drive & we haven't had sex in 7 months. Prior to these 7 months we'd only have sex once every 2-3 months no matter what I did.
No interest as you know. It could be medical b/c of her stomach problems & the medication she's on, or as one of the ladies suggested maybe for some reason she doesn't feel good about herself.
But all I can say is I have been feeling dead inside for quite some time.
If you can't even talk about your relationship w/o fighting over it, than maybe it's time for both parties to move on.
I am having someone I met over for a couple of hours this evening. I bought a nice bottle of wine will make a nice chicken dinner.
Hopefully by 9pm she will be re-freshing my memory on what sex is really like.
I'm simply a human being with human needs just like the rest of us.