AAP I am very sorry to here that... I have no idea how someone could find something erotic in gasping for air. It is really a shame to hear a story like this.
Some people like to be choked during orgasm too. Rumor has it that's what happened to Michael Hutchence, ex-lead singer of INXS, although it was reported as suicide.
I always hate to hear about people dying from things that could have been prevented, or avoided. Things like this (although I hear it's usually covered up as a suicide?! I think that was the case with an 80s singer. I saw a clip on mtv a year or two ago) and overdoses on things like painkillers are happening more and more amoung young people.
It pains me to hear stories like this. I am sorry for your loss. If you need to talk or anything at all, I'm here.
First of all I'm really really sorry to hear of your loss AAP , and I don't mean that in the bullshit way people say "I'm sorry" nowadays , I just buried a friend this morning and there will be a thread later on.
Michael Hutchence hung himself from his hotel door with a leather belt while high on morphine. He was trapped by his gf Paula Yates who famously wore no underwear while interviewing Hutchence on her husband Bob Geldof's tv programme in front of 6m. early morning TV viewers. Hutchence's father was involve in an acrimonious spat with Yates after his son's death over custody of the child and the motives behind his death.
this really isn't that uncommon guys... like bwood says. It mostly goes unreported so that families don't have to know the grotesque nature in which their kin died.