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I broke up with bf/ I'm back

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heatherrae said:
Yeah, he blames 100% of this on me. He said that I am a cancer in the family that he was going to remove. Nevermind the fact that I found out that he has a history of domestic battery and abusing his kids! I guess they were all asking for it too. He even played the martyr the other day, and moaned about how the cops and CPS were ruining his life for years to come,now.

I've told you before how happy I am for you that things have turned around for you. You deserve the world. =-)
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Thank you and so shall it be for you when you get into your own head and realize that this isnt a poor reflection on YOU.

My ex STILL screams at my kids, "Your mother, that fucking whore cunt who destroyed this family...." Yea ok... I MADE him beat me up. :rolleyes:

Men like this are broken beyond repair. Prosecute to the fullest extent of the law and NEVER back down!!! I foolishly dropped a Final Order of Protection back in the day on the advice of MY OWN ATTORNEY!!! He said, that in order to settle the divorce I should drop it as "a sign of good faith"... me and my kids were fucked from that moment on. I will live with regret of that moment for the rest of my natural life....

Get yourself together dear. Get yourself together and fix your head and your heart. Seek out counseling and create yourself a wonderfull world filled with happiness and good things. When you fix yourself you will be amazed at what wonderful peeps will *magically* appear right before your eyes. :)
 
heatherrae said:
I realize that the thread could be used in evidence. However, I don't think I've said anything that is damaging to me. ???
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No you havent. But mark my words, he will print all this shit out and try to cloud the issues. It just makes things a bit more complicated.

But you are an attorney yourself well-versed in family law so I dont think it will be so easy for him. You have NO IDEA how all the nonsense that was typed on elite wreaked havoc in my REAL world back in the day... all superfluous inconsequential bullshit, but it gave me stress on a daily basis. Peeps used to say, "Why then do you post up?" My answer? "Oh so I should be afraid now to post on the internet because of my ex and what he may or may not do?" It is NOT illegal and doesnt hurt anyone!" It was just more control.

Luckily as you do not share children he wont be able to dominate and control you that way. However, I do have firsthand knowledge of how much havoc a nasty black-hearted individual can wreak in the life of someone they want to destroy.

DONT BACK DOWN EVER.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Thank you and so shall it be for you when you get into your own head and realize that this isnt a poor reflection on YOU.

My ex STILL screams at my kids, "Your mother, that fucking whore cunt who destroyed this family...." Yea ok... I MADE him beat me up. :rolleyes:

Men like this are broken beyond repair. Prosecute to the fullest extent of the law and NEVER back down!!! I foolishly dropped a Final Order of Protection back in the day on the advice of MY OWN ATTORNEY!!! He said, that in order to settle the divorce I should drop it as "a sign of good faith"... me and my kids were fucked from that moment on. I will live with regret of that moment for the rest of my natural life....

Get yourself together dear. Get yourself together and fix your head and your heart. Seek out counseling and create yourself a wonderfull world filled with happiness and good things. When you fix yourself you will be amazed at what wonderful peeps will *magically* appear right before your eyes. :)
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Thanks =-) I am working on it. The thing that I think that I feared more than the horrible fights was losing my sense of humor and perspective on life. I'm back! I can't save him or his kids, so I will just have to save myself.
 
heatherrae said:
Thanks =-) I am working on it. The thing that I think that I feared more than the horrible fights was losing my sense of humor and perspective on life. I'm back! I can't save him or his kids, so I will just have to save myself.
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OH!! - when I was with that crazy jealous woman - my friends, who had been friends my whole life - all hated me. I had become a bitter, jaded, mean, SOB... I was able to get back to who I was before. I am sure you will too.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Get yourself together dear. Get yourself together and fix your head and your heart. Seek out counseling and create yourself a wonderfull world filled with happiness and good things. When you fix yourself you will be amazed at what wonderful peeps will *magically* appear right before your eyes. :)
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The most sound pc of advice ever!
When I fixed me, all of a sudden I started to find wonderful people.
 
Thanks everyone! I really appreciate everyone's well wishes very much. My big challenges now are deciding whether to go home to Kentucky, where I am licensed to practice law or staying here and getting a different job. I have to get back up on my feet financially. I gave away most all of my belongings when I came down here. It's sort of an intimidating time for me right now, but I will be okay. =-)
 
heatherrae said:
Thanks everyone! I really appreciate everyone's well wishes very much. My big challenges now are deciding whether to go home to Kentucky, where I am licensed to practice law or staying here and getting a different job. I have to get back up on my feet financially. I gave away most all of my belongings when I came down here. It's sort of an intimidating time for me right now, but I will be okay. =-)
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PPPPPppppffffffffffffffffttttt

Intimidating, shmintimidating!!!

You gonna let ONE ASSHOLE decide your future for you? FUCK THAT.

Do you like FL? If so, then stay... but it will be harder because of your ex. You need to decide what is more important to you: You liking FL or getting away from your ex completely and making a fresh start. Regardless, you can always change your mind.

Best part?

YOU GET TO MAKE ALL YOUR OWN DECISIONS INDEPENDENT OF ANYONE!! HOW EXCITING IS THAT:!?!?!

Why not go someplace else altogether? Think about it.
 
im glad i have a good marriage hearing all this shit makes me sick
 
blueta2 said:
The most sound pc of advice ever!
When I fixed me, all of a sudden I started to find wonderful people.
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Same here. You attract what you feel you deserve and what you are used to. Once you change that the people you find change as well.
 
reno240 said:
I had a g/f like that. Just nuts. Look at the waitress to order my food - and here comes the accusations of what I was looking at! Crazy beotch. The dumbest thing I did - was I kept saying to myself - ok, stop doing this one thing and she'll calm down - then - ok, stop doing this other thing and she'll calm down. Guess what? She never calmed down.
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I'm in the same type of relationship!!!! :worried:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
PPPPPppppffffffffffffffffttttt

Intimidating, shmintimidating!!!

You gonna let ONE ASSHOLE decide your future for you? FUCK THAT.

Do you like FL? If so, then stay... but it will be harder because of your ex. You need to decide what is more important to you: You liking FL or getting away from your ex completely and making a fresh start. Regardless, you can always change your mind.

Best part?

YOU GET TO MAKE ALL YOUR OWN DECISIONS INDEPENDENT OF ANYONE!! HOW EXCITING IS THAT:!?!?!

Why not go someplace else altogether? Think about it.
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Holy shit, you are the coolest chickadee ever! :heart:
 
blueta2 said:
After all the heartache my ex put me through,
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musclemom said:
and then went and married myself a pathological liar/emotional manipulator and it took a decade before I would acknowlege the situation, could accept that he would never change and things would never get better.
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Frisky said:
I've been there done that once.
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heatherrae said:
My big challenges now are deciding whether to go home to Kentucky, where I am licensed to practice law or staying here and getting a different job.
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BIKINIMOM said:
I do have firsthand knowledge of how much havoc a nasty black-hearted individual can wreak in the life of someone
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Dang, some jilted womens up in here
 
wow heather im so sorry. i hope everything works out for you.... you so dont deserve to treated like that. you are a very kind and sweet woman. no man should ever lay a hand on any woman for ANY reason at all. need anything let me know.
 
Thank you Bigmann. You are a true gentleman.

Hey longhorn, how are you, my conservative, Republican bud? ;-)
 
stop. talking. to. him. he. won't. change. move. move. move. why would you not a) go practice law and get your lift tight or b) sit the bar elsewhere.. or something.
 
I'm not talking to him. He has a no contact order. Next time I talk around him will be at the trial. I just hadn't decided to move back up North (cold but my family is there) or stay down here where it is warm. I think I want to stay down here and will just work until I take the bar exam in June. =-)
 
4everhung said:
are my noodles ready?
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lol...your noodles?

You have a cute pussycat. She looks like my kitty, Ellie.
 
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heatherrae said:
I realize that the thread could be used in evidence. However, I don't think I've said anything that is damaging to me. ???
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You have consistently and frequently posted on a board that promotes the use of illegal substances.
I would rethink your position if I were you.
 
Longhorn85 said:
Dang, some jilted womens up in here
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Jilted means rebuffed (dumped) by a lover. Most of us left them.

Face it, you don't break up/get divorced because you were hitched up with Mr/Ms Wonderful. There's really only a few reasons marriages fail (I have to assume that most of us have eliminated people we don't have enough in common with during the dating stage).

You break up because:
1. Somebody screwed around.
2. You can't agree on kids/money/where to live/who will do the dishes/who will take out the garbage/who drives the cool car/etc/etc/etc.
3. You develop dramatically different interests that don't mesh.
4. You (or the person you're married to) is a fucking nut.

Usually it's some combination of those four. Nine times out of 10, if situation #4 is involved in the reason for the breakup, it's the sane one who initiates the breakup or files for the divorce. Crazy fuckers never want you to leave.
 
musclemom said:
Crazy fuckers never want you to leave.
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And THE CRAZIEST fuckers try to destroy your life (for one day growing the balls to actually leave/kick them out) because "if they can't have you then NO ONE will." <---- these are the motherfuckers that wont die EVER.
 
Hi guys.

I'm not sure how far Palm Harbour is from me. I would have to look that up.

In response to the comment about illegal substances, I don't think anyone would accuse me of being a proponent of steroids. Nevertheless, it wouldn't be relevant, and, thus, inadmissable in the case even if I did encourage their use. ;-)

No, he hasn't posted on here. He has been web stalking me, though. He doesnt realize that I can tell. lol.

MM, he was #4, without a doubt...lol. I enjoyed that post. It made me chuckle.
 
heatherrae said:
Hi guys.

I'm not sure how far Palm Harbour is from me. I would have to look that up.

In response to the comment about illegal substances, I don't think anyone would accuse me of being a proponent of steroids. Nevertheless, it wouldn't be relevant, and, thus, inadmissable in the case even if I did encourage their use. ;-)

No, he hasn't posted on here. He has been web stalking me, though. He doesnt realize that I can tell. lol.

MM, he was #4, without a doubt...lol. I enjoyed that post. It made me chuckle.
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1) Your a juicer
2) If he's web stalking you, here's one for him:finger:
 
LOL...If I'm a juicer, it must be an orange juicer, because I can hardly lift my gym towel. ;-)

He thought he nabbed my only computer today, so he will be pissed to find out I got another one...lol.
 
heatherrae said:
LOL...If I'm a juicer, it must be an orange juicer, because I can hardly lift my gym towel. ;-)

He thought he nabbed my only computer today, so he will be pissed to find out I got another one...lol.
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Wait, how did he "nab" your computer today? This clown is truely a fucking pshyco
 
heatherrae said:
LOL...If I'm a juicer, it must be an orange juicer, because I can hardly lift my gym towel. ;-)

He thought he nabbed my only computer today, so he will be pissed to find out I got another one...lol.
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Now you got your lesson: dont ever date another old fart. Go with the young crowd :)
 
scratch my back
I was watching TV and one of my couch cushions didn't have any fabric
 
bw1 said:
Wait, how did he "nab" your computer today? This clown is truely a fucking pshyco
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He has a court order to stay away from this house, so he sends some friends every damn day to get something or another. So he waited until I was gone and had someone come in and take the computer. :lmao: of all damn things. I think he is truly that concerned about me posting on here, or he wanted to grab it in case I had pics of what happened on that computer. He far underestimates me if he thinks I didn't have those stored in a safe place...lol. It was his computer, though. I gave mine to my dad when I moved here. I don't care if he has someone to get stuff, but I would appreciate if they would call and let me know that they are coming. They just walk in here like they own the place and scare the crap out of me.
 
manny78 said:
Now you got your lesson: dont ever date another old fart. Go with the young crowd :)
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hehehehe...next bf is going to have to pass a mental exam by a psychologist first...lol.
 
heatherrae said:
He has a court order to stay away from this house, so he sends some friends every damn day to get something or another. So he waited until I was gone and had someone come in and take the computer. :lmao: of all damn things. I think he is truly that concerned about me posting on here, or he wanted to grab it in case I had pics of what happened on that computer. He far underestimates me if he thinks I didn't have those stored in a safe place...lol. It was his computer, though. I gave mine to my dad when I moved here. I don't care if he has someone to get stuff, but I would appreciate if they would call and let me know that they are coming. They just walk in here like they own the place and scare the crap out of me.
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WHAT? They just walk in? You need to have that shit stopped...NOW.
 
I'm going to change the locks in the morning, I think. I mean, people could call and be polite about it. These strangers to me just walk in and are rude. I am being nice. I could require that he come with the sheriff he wants something, but I am not wanting to be a jerk. He could be just a little bit considerate and have the people call first before they come over, and I think it is out of line to have them come over when I am gone.
 
DieselGunz said:
when are you going to be out?
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By next week, I think. I don't really want to keep him out of here for any longer than necessary. I know it is hard on his kids. Despite what he thinks, I wasn't seeking to do him any harm when I called the police. I was just protecting myself from a situation that he created. I am waiting for this one place to get any opening for me to move into. I had to find a nice place that allows my pets. =-)
 
heatherrae said:
I'm going to change the locks in the morning, I think, DON'T THINK DO IT. I mean, people could call and be polite about it. These strangers to me just walk in and are rude.FUCK THEM I am being nice. STOP THIS I could require that he come with the sheriff he wants something,YES! but I am not wanting to be a jerk.DO YOU WANT TO BE DEAD?WHO KNOWS WHAT THIS FREAK IS CAPABLE OF He could be just a little bit considerate and have the people call first before they come over REMEMBER WHO YOUR DEALING WITH HERE, and I think it is out of line to have them come over when I am gone.BEYOND "OUT OF LINE" UNACCEPTABLE!
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He's trying to intimidate you. Put a stop to it.
 
Yeah, I think so too, bwl. At least he had the person who came over deliver the dog food, cat food and fish food with them. That part was nice. I had been asking him to pick it up for days before he was out of the house, and his St bernards eat about $10 a day. lol.
 
musclemom said:
Jilted means rebuffed (dumped) by a lover. Most of us left them.

Face it, you don't break up/get divorced because you were hitched up with Mr/Ms Wonderful. There's really only a few reasons marriages fail (I have to assume that most of us have eliminated people we don't have enough in common with during the dating stage).

You break up because:
1. Somebody screwed around.
2. You can't agree on kids/money/where to live/who will do the dishes/who will take out the garbage/who drives the cool car/etc/etc/etc.
3. You develop dramatically different interests that don't mesh.
4. You (or the person you're married to) is a fucking nut.

Usually it's some combination of those four. Nine times out of 10, if situation #4 is involved in the reason for the breakup, it's the sane one who initiates the breakup or files for the divorce. Crazy fuckers never want you to leave.
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#1 reason people get divorced: They married the wrong person.
 
Wulfgar said:
thats hawt
Ill be your rebound pretty eyes.. :evil: :p :horny:
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lol...I have no booty call in Florida. Damn, too bad I was so faithful to him. Now, if I were in Kentucky, I could get out my little black book for some rebound snuggling.
 
girl its going to get much worse before it gets better. dont ever feel pitty on him no matter what. he will use it against you. als i hope you changed your passwords on all your emails, ef account, etc. i wish there were more i could do. but it sounds like your heading in the right path. be safe. and also those people walking in the house uninvited are not allowed to be there by law. its breaking and entering even if they have a key. if they dont have mail coming there they cant be there even if the asshole sent them. he has no authority there right now. id call the police that are handling the case and see what can be done.
 
You seem to think this whole situation is getting better, but he is still manipulating you, keeping you uncomfortable. :worried:
Call a locksmith & get them changed now. If it's money, pm me a secure email addy & I'll email you some. Leave him the old locks when you leave.
He may be crazy, but crazy doesn't preclude clever.
 
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stilleto said:
its HIS house.
HR, how did you get him to leave his own house and kids and leave you in there?
have you been with him long?
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It wasn't my idea. A judge ordered him to leave and ordered his kids somewhere else (I think they're at their grandparents). The judge ordered him to leave not contact me in any way. None of it was my idea. I wasn't even present in court at that hearing. He isn't allowed to contact me, so he still keeps tabs through other people. I would give him anything that he wanted out of here and make any accomodations that he needed. He just is scaring me because I don't know when I come in if someone is going to be in the house. Then, every day there are drive bys to see if I'm here. There are all sorts of people I haven't met just walking in and taking stuff or demanding me to go get things. They are sort of frightening. I can't imagine he needs to send people every day. He could get it all at once. I could just put a stop to it, but I'm trying to not be petty. Life is too short for pettiness. On the other hand, when I see 2 truck and 4 people out in the driveway every day, it gets a bit ridiculous.
 
[yoda] Not long to go, must complete your training, only then will you be a bikinimom-jedi [yoda/]
 
heatherrae said:
:lmao:
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To be a BM anything you must first attend the BM GOM school for fucked up relationships and how to keep from going crazy as you give away shit you will
want/need later UofBM. The worst part of all this would be letting people violate your space AND you allow it....
:santa:
 
Grumpy Old Man said:
To be a BM anything you must first attend the BM GOM school for fucked up relationships and how to keep from going crazy as you give away shit you will
want/need later UofBM. The worst part of all this would be letting people violate your space AND you allow it....
:santa:
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Is this him HR?
 
hehehe... no one came today, so far as i know. Maybe he will be good now. I really don't want to be one of those crazy bitches calling in every minor violation. I had to deal with so many of those types of people when I was in family law.

I just want to get out of here, attend the trial date, and then forget he ever existed. ;-)

I got asked out by a gorgeous surgeon who is BUFF today. I actually sort of looked at him and thought, "you are out of my league" ...lol. I will get over this guy really fast if this dude becomes my new bf. HA!
 
heatherrae said:
hehehe... no one came today, so far as i know. Maybe he will be good now. I really don't want to be one of those crazy bitches calling in every minor violation. I had to deal with so many of those types of people when I was in family law.

I just want to get out of here, attend the trial date, and then forget he ever existed. ;-)

I got asked out by a gorgeous surgeon who is BUFF today. I actually sort of looked at him and thought, "you are out of my league" ...lol. I will get over this guy really fast if this dude becomes my new bf. HA!
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Hes cheating on you.
 
heatherrae said:
hehehe... no one came today, so far as i know. Maybe he will be good now. I really don't want to be one of those crazy bitches calling in every minor violation. I had to deal with so many of those types of people when I was in family law.

I just want to get out of here, attend the trial date, and then forget he ever existed. ;-)

I got asked out by a gorgeous surgeon who is BUFF today. I actually sort of looked at him and thought, "you are out of my league" ...lol. I will get over this guy really fast if this dude becomes my new bf. HA!
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Im sexier than the sturgeon
and more muscular
 
Wulfgar said:
Im sexier than the sturgeon
and more muscular
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Yeah, but if the surgeon breaks my spine while getting lovey dovey, he can fix it.

Anyway, you could never limit yourself to just one gal, and my biological clock is ticking so fast that I use it as a window fan.
 
heatherrae said:
Yeah, but if the surgeon breaks my spine while getting lovey dovey, he can fix it.

Anyway, you could never limit yourself to just one gal, and my biological clock is ticking so fast that I use it as a window fan.
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Most men hate biological clocks. It smacks of "I just want you for a sperm donor"
 
heatherrae said:
Yeah, but if the surgeon breaks my spine while getting lovey dovey, he can fix it.

Anyway, you could never limit yourself to just one gal, and my biological clock is ticking so fast that I use it as a window fan.
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true
I am actually having a orgy with 4 girls this weekend
Im gonna try to weasel a camera into it
2 white girls(1 blonde, 1 brunette) 1 asian and a portugese

oh and a partridge in a pair tree
 
Wulfgar said:
true
I am actually having a orgy with 4 girls this weekend
Im gonna try to weasel a camera into it
2 white girls(1 blonde, 1 brunette) 1 asian and a portugese

oh and a partridge in a pair tree
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pear
 
superdave said:
Tell that to your next date over dinner and see if you get a second date.
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:lmao:

or just carry one in my purse and put it out on the table at dinner and say, "would you mind going in the men's room and filling this up?"

:evil:
 
heatherrae said:
:lmao:

or just carry one in my purse and put it out on the table at dinner and say, "would you mind going in the men's room and filling this up?"

:evil:
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i seriously dont know what id do at that point. id probably be in such shock that id go and do it and not even realize. :worried:
 
heatherrae said:
It wasn't my idea. A judge ordered him to leave and ordered his kids somewhere else (I think they're at their grandparents). The judge ordered him to leave not contact me in any way.
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I'm struggling to understand why you're still living in the house of a man who beat you up. You guys weren't even married. You are not working. You have no ties. Why not get the fuck out of there?
 
holy shit look at this huge motherfucker. i'm assuming there was some serious drama to keep this shit going so long?
 
jackangel said:
holy shit look at this huge motherfucker. i'm assuming there was some serious drama to keep this shit going so long?
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When you are caught in an EF drama chick blackhole supplemented by a bikinimom vortex, theres no limit to the gravitational power.
 
Longhorn85 said:
I'm struggling to understand why you're still living in the house of a man who beat you up. You guys weren't even married. You are not working. You have no ties. Why not get the fuck out of there?
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It's complicated, but is getting worked out this week. He is out of the house by court order, and I am waiting for this apt to become vacant that accepts my dog.
 
heatherrae said:
It's complicated, but is getting worked out this week. He is out of the house by court order, and I am waiting for this apt to become vacant that accepts my dog.
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WOW..what did I miss? I havent read a post yet....anything worthy?
 
jackangel said:
holy shit look at this huge motherfucker. i'm assuming there was some serious drama to keep this shit going so long?
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Not really. Things seem to be calming down now. Stuff is getting ironed out, at least I think.
 
heatherrae said:
It wasn't my idea. A judge ordered him to leave and ordered his kids somewhere else (I think they're at their grandparents). The judge ordered him to leave not contact me in any way. None of it was my idea. I wasn't even present in court at that hearing. He isn't allowed to contact me, so he still keeps tabs through other people. I would give him anything that he wanted out of here and make any accomodations that he needed. He just is scaring me because I don't know when I come in if someone is going to be in the house. Then, every day there are drive bys to see if I'm here. There are all sorts of people I haven't met just walking in and taking stuff or demanding me to go get things. They are sort of frightening. I can't imagine he needs to send people every day. He could get it all at once. I could just put a stop to it, but I'm trying to not be petty. Life is too short for pettiness. On the other hand, when I see 2 truck and 4 people out in the driveway every day, it gets a bit ridiculous.
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I'll bring a truck over and load some shit up later. (since there is no documentation of who is coming when!) Just say you thought he sent me.
 
heatherrae said:
It's complicated, but is getting worked out this week. He is out of the house by court order, and I am waiting for this apt to become vacant that accepts my dog.
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If you were my sister or friend I would have grabbed you and your dog and thrown you on a Greyhound bus long ago
 
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