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I broke up with bf/ I'm back

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GoldenDelicious said:
theres only one thing i hate more than guys that hit women...

fat chicks
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god knows you need help if you have to hit a fat womens
 
4everhung said:
I laughed so hard I farted
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I farted during sex and tried to cover the sound up by howling like a coyote.
 
jackangel said:
well shit. :( fuck that. i hope you're ok and wish you the best of luck. you may not want to bring this back onto EF...i can see this becoming a multi-pager really fast. unless you want to go over this with strangers on the net for attention/perspective/comfort, it might be better to delete it.
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helllooooooo page 11























go UCLA
 
biteme said:
I farted during sex and tried to cover the sound up by howling like a coyote.
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nice
but it's not the sound but the smell that's nauseating
 
why post this shit on a fitness board like wtf???
 
Hey Heather...sorry for your pain
You did not screw up anything. We've all made mistakes. Learning from this is all you can do. You were right, no reason in wishing bad to him. Use your energy to get yourself strong again. Stay single and just enjoy learning who you are.
Love you and so happy you're ok.
 
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the thread was startin' to stall
heatherare be got those bandages to tend to
 
but the "make fun of anything brigade" is here
we was wondering if woots was gonna show
 
4everhung said:
nice
but it's not the sound but the smell that's nauseating
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Excellent point.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
i hope the piece of shit gets hit by a fucking car and dies. time to bail fast.
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lol we havent even heard his explanation she couldve did that for christs sake
 
Youre a lawyer and supposed to be smart. Dont get involved and move in with psycho guys (i.e. wait a sufficient amount of time to get to know each other)
 
superdave said:
Youre a lawyer and supposed to be smart. Dont get involved and move in with psycho guys (i.e. wait a sufficient amount of time to get to know each other)
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hahahahaahahahah

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that's the pic I meant to post
kind of a perspective sort of thing
 
he don't have enough tissue to even bleed
let alone start a thread
 
I know that whenever I have gotten into fight (in the far PAST) it could have been avoided only if I have kept my mouth shut and not make it worse in any other way so it would come to that.

But, on the other hand, there is crazy people out there that are gonna attack you regardless. We dont know good either HR or her boyfriend, so we cant really judge either or.

HR, good luck and put this all behind you.
 
foreigngirl said:
I know that whenever I have gotten into fight (in the far PAST) it could have been avoided only if I have kept my mouth shut and not make it worse in any other way so it would come to that.

But, on the other hand, there is crazy people out there that are gonna attack you regardless. We dont know good either HR or her boyfriend, so we cant really judge either or.

HR, good luck and put this all behind you.
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damn your husband beat you because you wouldnt shut your pie hole>? that's rough.
 
foreigngirl said:
I know that whenever I have gotten into fight (in the far PAST) it could have been avoided only if I have kept my mouth shut and not make it worse in any other way so it would come to that.
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that's right. know your role.


just messin.
 
foreigngirl said:
lol


twist my words, twist my words and I will be on the forst plane to DC
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it just looks like you blame yourself for when your man beat you. like its your fault. not his. is this true? i attribute this to cultural differences. men and women have different roles in different cultures ya know.
 
patsfan1379 said:
keto diet?
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That's terribly sad and in no way funny.
 
Smurfy said:
it just looks like you blame yourself for when your man beat you. like its your fault. not his. is this true? i attribute this to cultural differences. men and women have different roles in different cultures ya know.
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I know what you are saying. No, I dont blame myself. I never have. Now that all that crap is in the history books, I go over all that stuff and try to analize what have I done personally to fuel the argument and maybe make it boil over - me jabbing at his weaknesses, jabbing at his mom and sister, talkin shit that I dont mean in general is not really helping when someone is already upset.
 
foreigngirl said:
I know what you are saying. No, I dont blame myself. I never have. Now that all that crap is in the history books, I go over all that stuff and try to analize what have I done personally to fuel the argument and maybe make it boil over - me jabbing at his weaknesses, jabbing at his mom and sister, talkin shit that I dont mean in general is not really helping when someone is already upset.
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agreed. Ive done that in the past when I was in unhealthy relationships. Me being malicious, him being malicious = recipe for disaster. But no way in hell is it everr justified for someone to lay their hands on another and cause physical harm or injury or pain.
 
Smurfy said:
agreed. Ive done that in the past when I was in unhealthy relationships. Me being malicious, him being malicious = recipe for disaster. But no way in hell is it everr justified for someone to lay their hands on another and cause physical harm or injury or pain.
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Never have I seen it justified someone hurting someone else just because they cant take the heat of the argument. I have seen women jumping on their bf/husband first too. That is wrong as well. Fight with words if you have to do it that bad, but dont raise a hand. Kick the pillow or the couch or something if you cant control yourself - but never ever raise a hand on another human being
 
heatherrae said:
Well, I filled out the affidavit and just told my story. I wouldn't have called 911, but I thought he was really going to hurt me badly. At this point, is up to the prosecutor. I don't have any choice what charges are brought, but the cop that came said that he viewed it as pretty a pretty violent attack. I won't lie for him, though, no matter what. I take sworn oaths very seriously, and I'm not going to be one of those wimpy women who recants what they clearly know is the truth.
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I'm sorry, but I don't think that people like this can be rehabilitated. If they change it's because they were made to, & hide their flaws, until they excape again. He needs to be not breathing.
 
A guy at work was getting a divorce, years ago. He graciously(stupidly) agreed to drive his ex to the courthouse, several hrs drive. Halfway there she started cursing him, saying how much she was gonna screw him for, then started punching him in the face, while they're driving 120km/h down the highway.
Some people ought to be deleted.
 
needtogetas said:
dame bro even i dont know what the fuck you're saying.go to bed man.lol
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yeah him memory will be retarded
he'll have to start at the beginiing of the thread
what punishment
 
heather rea's wounds will heal
that's why she sought comfort in us
tough girl
 
superdave said:
and i cam stil think better than hetather rae when it comes to relatiosnships.
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heahtrwe knows that
she knew it going in
I feel bad she had to find out in such a bad way
but we're her safety net
 
heatherrae said:
Thanks guys. (sniffle). I really missed you guys. He kept the phones pulled out of the walls 90% of the time, broke computers, doors, walls. He didn't let me have any friends or people around. He's totally crazy and blaming me for bringing a beating on myself and that he is now in trouble with child protective services, as a result.
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Holy shit! Just seen this thread, wtf? He's a fuckin pshyco. Hope your ok. He needs his ass kicked....BAD
 
Sorry this happened to you HR, and welcome back. Glad you're not hurt even worse.
Stay totally away from his ass.
If you had been married you could take him to the cleaners.
At least you can make a totally clean break, kids are his as I recall.
 
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foreigngirl said:
Kick the pillow or the couch or something if you cant control yourself - but never ever raise a hand on another human being
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...unless you are HR's pop, brother, etc. In which case you should be kicking some ass Sonny Corleone style.
 
he walked in on her being the center piece of a circle jerk. a veritable monsoon of semen being flung about.
 
SHit, im glad you are ok Heather.
I was wondering why you were never around anymore.
Glad to have you back. ALthough i wish it could be under better circumstances.
 
KillahBee said:
Sorry to hear, but it is as much your fault as his.

Take responsibility for your part of it and you will never experience it again.
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are you a fucking retard? I take it you enjoy controlling people. Obviously the guy is a control and power freak. Slavery was abolished long ago. She doesn't have a title like a car does, no one owns her. She can do how she wants, when she wants. He can choose not to put up with the bullshit and kick her out, but he can't kick her ass. Pretty simple. Fuckin degenerate
 
Smurfy said:
I'm curious about what you've said here. I see where you're coming from but, if this were say, your sister or maybe a female friend of yours, would you say the same thing? Would you feel this way regardless of who it was?
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OF course he wouldn't. He's the typical butt fuck who think men own woman and when they do something that he doesn't like, its ok to smack them around.
 
TC2 said:
I think I know where's KB is coming from though.

I used to come unglued and beat down any guy that put their hands on any woman in my life.

But I've realized more and more that alot of times the woman does do things to antagonize the man I.E push his buttons stuff like that(my mother is included in this bunch).

Not that I'm saying HR did anything to provoke this...I like everybody else on EF dont knot shit about what really happened.


Oh and Bikini mom in 5..4..3..2..1..
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beat down a guy, not your woman. totally different. If a guy puts his hands on your chic, he probably has it coming. If she likes him touching her, then leave her ass. easy
 
cboogsrun said:
are you a fucking retard? I take it you enjoy controlling people. Obviously the guy is a control and power freak. Slavery was abolished long ago. She doesn't have a title like a car does, no one owns her. She can do how she wants, when she wants. He can choose not to put up with the bullshit and kick her out, but he can't kick her ass. Pretty simple. Fuckin degenerate
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I believe his point is, that she, like every woman in an abusive relationship, has to take control & leave. Her part in it was allowing it to happen. It was a build up to this incident & she should have left before this happened.
 
I'm very sorry for what you experienced. Thankfully you are out of that situation and I wish you the best for the future.
 
heatherrae,
I am sorry to hear about this. :( I am glad you are okay, and I hope that you can get your life back where you want it and put this behind you.

We were wondering where you were, I guess this explains it.
 
cboogsrun said:
OF course he wouldn't. He's the typical butt fuck who think men own woman and when they do something that he doesn't like, its ok to smack them around.
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I wonder if KB ever raised his hand to a female.
 
heatherrae said:
God, thanks so much guys! I feel like this huge weight has been lifted off of me. I have been kept under this weird isolation and secrecy for so long. As embarassed as I am, I feel so much better to have gotten it out in the open.

You are really a great group of people.
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Nah, i'm a total dick in real life...I'm just e-empathetic.. :) :)
 
Smurfy said:
I wonder if KB ever raised his hand to a female.
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I'm fairly knowledgable on the subject, so I would say his dad has. His attitude that woman are property isn't natural, its something learned from whomever. Most likely the father figure. My father has landed himself a life sentence for murdering his wife. Shortyly after her death, I read as much as I possibly could so I didn't end up being a peice of shit like him. Being raised in that environment, it took tons of energy to change the way I thought. People will minimize their actions so they don't sound so bad. Such as, I didn't close fist punch her, I opened hand slapped her. They will also blatantly deny their actions. Such as she fell down. Then they will use intimidation so the woman will vouch for him. Finally they blame the other person. Such as, if she hadn't cheated on me, my knife would have stabbed her 50 times in the back. We as people have many choices in life. The choice to leave is the most overlooked. Check out the duluth domestic abuse wheel. It puts things into better perspective.
 
HiDnGoD said:
I believe his point is, that she, like every woman in an abusive relationship, has to take control & leave. Her part in it was allowing it to happen. It was a build up to this incident & she should have left before this happened.
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IF he meant she should have left, then I'm wrong about his remarks. I just don't think thats what he meant. I could be wrong. Woman don't "allow" anything to happen, they are often intimidated or threatened to stay. So there's not much validity to that point either.
 
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cboogsrun said:
IF he meant she should have left, then I'm wrong about his remarks. I just don't think thats what he meant. I could be wrong. Woman don't allow anything to happen, they are often intimidated or threatened to stay. So there's not much validity to that point either.
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I've known 3 women in this type of situation & each one said the man had many wonderfull qualities. Except occasionally the guys like to beat them. The one guy had a chronic abuse problem, psychological, physical & sexual. Each woman stayed until she couldn't take it any more. They should have left at the first slap, the first demeaning insult, or the first coerced sexual incident. But they stayed because they thought they could keep the guy calm, or they thought they could change the guy with their love.
In any case people should not suffer any kind of abuse from the one that supposedly loves them.
 
holy shit hon. just stumbled on this thread.

be safe. use the cops. and for gods sakes, don't be the dumb chick that goes 'but he loves me! i want him back'. for them you deserve what u get.

if things turn bad - there's always life in la, and i'll help you as much as i can here. I'm sure others here would do the same if u moved to their locale.

be strong.
 
cboogsrun said:
Woman don't allow anything to happen, they are often intimidated or threatened to stay. So there's not much validity to that point either.
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bullshit, we always have a choice to stay or leave. we're not powerless beings, we have a choice at all times. hit once, then left, so don't go on about 'how do you know and all that do you have experience bs'.
 
imystify said:
bullshit, we always have a choice to stay or leave. we're not powerless beings, we have a choice at all times. hit once, then left, so don't go on about 'how do you know and all that do you have experience bs'.
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agreed on all accounts.
 
heatherrae said:
Well, I haven't been on here for a while, because my ex-bf always said I was on here flirting and emailing pictures. I've been called every name in the book by that guy. So, I agreed not to come on here. However, he started getting so jealous that I couldn't even leave the house to go to the gym, or anywhere else, for that matter, and last night, he did this:

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Yep, that is my blood and what used to be a pretty nice dress and purse. =-(

Had to call 911, etc. He is out of the house for a few days so that I can leave.

This is probably the most embarassing, Jerry Springer type situation I have ever been in. Wow, I can't believe I let him tell me to not talk to my friends. Screw him.
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holy shit i told you that you were crossing all sorts of lines and that it would drive a man crazy with what u were doing..

is this the exhusband with the daughter you mrs piggyfied with makeup?

either way, spousal abuse is fucked up, and even though id be joking, i cant say you deserve it.

best of luck in getting ur shit straightened out and i hope ur ok
 
cboogsrun said:
IF he meant she should have left, then I'm wrong about his remarks. I just don't think thats what he meant. I could be wrong. Woman don't allow anything to happen, they are often intimidated or threatened to stay. So there's not much validity to that point either.
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a lot of women are not intimitated or threatened to stay. Some of them stay hoping its gonna get better and all that eventually will be in the past
 
KillahBee said:
Sorry to hear, but it is as much your fault as his.

Take responsibility for your part of it and you will never experience it again.
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did u cheat on him?

he is a weak man for acting in such a way in response to it, but if it makes u feel slightly empowered, like KB said, you "drove him to it"
 
imystify said:
bullshit, we always have a choice to stay or leave. we're not powerless beings, we have a choice at all times. hit once, then left, so don't go on about 'how do you know and all that do you have experience bs'.
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lol@owned
 
HiDnGoD said:
I've known 3 women in this type of situation & each one said the man had many wonderfull qualities. Except occasionally the guys like to beat them. The one guy had a chronic abuse problem, psychological, physical & sexual. Each woman stayed until she couldn't take it any more. They should have left at the first slap, the first demeaning insult, or the first coerced sexual incident. But they stayed because they thought they could keep the guy calm, or they thought they could change the guy with their love.
In any case people should not suffer any kind of abuse from the one that supposedly loves them.
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That theory would last about 10 posts with the ef crowd.
 
HiDnGoD said:
I've known 3 women in this type of situation & each one said the man had many wonderfull qualities. Except occasionally the guys like to beat them. The one guy had a chronic abuse problem, psychological, physical & sexual. Each woman stayed until she couldn't take it any more. They should have left at the first slap, the first demeaning insult, or the first coerced sexual incident. But they stayed because they thought they could keep the guy calm, or they thought they could change the guy with their love.
In any case people should not suffer any kind of abuse from the one that supposedly loves them.
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or change the guy with their posting of tit pics and flirtations on a bodybuilding forum
 
imystify said:
bullshit, we always have a choice to stay or leave. we're not powerless beings, we have a choice at all times. hit once, then left, so don't go on about 'how do you know and all that do you have experience bs'.
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how many kids do you have with the batterer? A lot of woman stay because they have children with the abuser. Not all abuse is physical. So just because you left after you were hit doesn't mean you werent abused for a prolonged period of time. There are way worse types of abuse than physical. You were probably abused way before being hit, it just took physical abuse before you realized it was time to dip. Do a search and look at the statistics. Your upbringing might also have helped you. Most girls are attracted to men who have simular personalities of their fathers. If daddy is an abuser, sometimes the daughters boyfriend is also an abuser. Obviously their are exceptions to the rule. You had the strength that a lot of woman don't have.
 
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