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I broke up with bf/ I'm back

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Well, I haven't been on here for a while, because my ex-bf always said I was on here flirting and emailing pictures. I've been called every name in the book by that guy. So, I agreed not to come on here. However, he started getting so jealous that I couldn't even leave the house to go to the gym, or anywhere else, for that matter, and last night, he did this:

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Yep, that is my blood and what used to be a pretty nice dress and purse. =-(

Had to call 911, etc. He is out of the house for a few days so that I can leave.

This is probably the most embarassing, Jerry Springer type situation I have ever been in. Wow, I can't believe I let him tell me to not talk to my friends. Screw him.
 
heatherrae said:
Well, I haven't been on here for a while, because my ex-bf always said I was on here flirting and emailing pictures. I've been called every name in the book by that guy. So, I agreed not to come on here. However, he started getting so jealous that I couldn't even leave the house to go to the gym, or anywhere else, for that matter, and last night, he did this:

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Yep, that is my blood and what used to be a pretty nice dress and purse. =-(

Had to call 911, etc. He is out of the house for a few days so that I can leave.

This is probably the most embarassing, Jerry Springer type situation I have ever been in. Wow, I can't believe I let him tell me to not talk to my friends. Screw him.
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Wow, Heather. I admit I wondered where you were, and in the back of my mind I was sort of wondering if you were OK. That's just horrible. Totally horrible. I dont even know what to say. Please escape that madman. Get out of Florida. Go back home. Be safe.
 
I'm actually sort of injured. =-(

Damn, I know. I really liked that dress.

I missed you, you big goof!
 
What about the kids? Are the kids ok? They werent there were they? Are you sure youre safe? Are you worried about him trying to come back while youre packing? I hope youre safe.
 
well shit. :( fuck that. i hope you're ok and wish you the best of luck. you may not want to bring this back onto EF...i can see this becoming a multi-pager really fast. unless you want to go over this with strangers on the net for attention/perspective/comfort, it might be better to delete it.
 
Thanks guys. (sniffle). I really missed you guys. He kept the phones pulled out of the walls 90% of the time, broke computers, doors, walls. He didn't let me have any friends or people around. He's totally crazy and blaming me for bringing a beating on myself and that he is now in trouble with child protective services, as a result.
 
heatherrae said:
Thanks guys. (sniffle). I really missed you guys. He kept the phones pulled out of the walls 90% of the time, broke computers, doors, walls. He didn't let me have any friends or people around. He's totally crazy and blaming me for bringing a beating on myself and that he is now in trouble with child protective services, as a result.
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omg so he doesnt even think he did anything wrong? he's justifying his actions? yowza.
 
a. i'm glad you're reasonably ok
b. i'm sorry you're hurting, physically and emotionally.
c. i was wondering where you were too, and I had a feeling your boyfriend didn't like you here when you changed your avi/gallery.

d. what sparked this fight??
 
Why I was black?

I'm safe now. He is all lawyered up and they have correctly warned him not to touch me or get near me again.

Damn, never thought this would happen to me.

My right arm is really sore and my shoulder and neck. I can't turn my head very much. He tried to pull me through a broken window. OUCH.

Gotta let the daughter use the phone guys.

I'll be back on in a few minutes.

Agape!
 
heatherrae said:
Why I was black?

I'm safe now. He is all lawyered up and they have correctly warned him not to touch me or get near me again.

Damn, never thought this would happen to me.

My right arm is really sore and my shoulder and neck. I can't turn my head very much. He tried to pull me through a broken window. OUCH.

Gotta let the daughter use the phone guys.

I'll be back on in a few minutes.

Agape!
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how old is the daughter ?? and is she hott
 
hotzie said:
stupid fuckin old prick.

im glad you are ok.
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agreed. . .wtf is up with a guy that would lay his hands on a woman in anger? never understood that shit. . .take care of yourself. . .
 
KillahBee said:
Sorry to hear, but it is as much your fault as his.

Take responsibility for your part of it and you will never experience it again.
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I'm curious about what you've said here. I see where you're coming from but, if this were say, your sister or maybe a female friend of yours, would you say the same thing? Would you feel this way regardless of who it was?
 
heatherrae said:
Thanks guys. (sniffle). I really missed you guys. He kept the phones pulled out of the walls 90% of the time, broke computers, doors, walls. He didn't let me have any friends or people around. He's totally crazy and blaming me for bringing a beating on myself and that he is now in trouble with child protective services, as a result.
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buy a glock. . .model 22 (.40 cal.). . .and learn how to use it. . .i'm NOT joking around :worried:
 
Smurfy said:
I'm curious about what you've said here. I see where you're coming from but, if this were say, your sister or maybe a female friend of yours, would you say the same thing? Would you feel this way regardless of who it was?
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he's in love with himself,not her
she was a possession
 
Smurfy said:
I'm curious about what you've said here. I see where you're coming from but, if this were say, your sister or maybe a female friend of yours, would you say the same thing? Would you feel this way regardless of who it was?
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I'm sure my initial reaction would be much more emotional, but I would also know more of the story and eventually I would want the best for my sister/mother, which would require them taking personal responsiboility and learning from the situation so it never happens again.

Also, if you recall, there have been other people here on EF who have told similar stories and we have found out later that they were either lies or were only a portion of the real story.
 
gjohnson5 said:
Heather , you are so much better looking and younger then he is. I think the whole board was wondering why you were with him
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no , we knew

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
 
gjohnson5 said:
Heather , you are so much better looking and younger then he is. I think the whole board was wondering why you were with him
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damn heather, stay strong
but seriously, you were waaaay better looking than him
 
gjohnson5 said:
Heather , you are so much better looking and younger then he is. I think the whole board was wondering why you were with him
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uh, cuz she was a gold-diggin' hooker, maybe? btw, HR, how is the $$$ situation now? could you jump back into practice?
 
KillahBee said:
I'm sure my initial reaction would be much more emotional, but I would also know more of the story and eventually I would want the best for my sister/mother, which would require them taking personal responsiboility and learning from the situation so it never happens again.

Also, if you recall, there have been other people here on EF who have told similar stories and we have found out later that they were either lies or were only a portion of the real story.
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I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
From my perspective, no person deserves to suffer physical harm or abuse. To me, there's nothing that justifies that behavior. Well, except self-defense.
 
nomatter what anyone feels- if she was flirty or provocative, or what... he doesn't have the right to hurt her, and he obviously did.

the relationship may have spiraled down due to HR, or not, who knows.
obviously things weren't 100% perfect already, but its too bad they have to end like this.
 
gjohnson5 said:
I wouldn't

A man who has such a large character flaw to hit a woman in anger will not unlearn such behavior. It will just happen again
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how did she not spot this before? they were engaged, i do believe.
 
Smurfy said:
I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
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awesome.
 
stilleto said:
nomatter what anyone feels- if she was flirty or provocative, or what... he doesn't have the right to hurt her, and he obviously did.

the relationship may have spiraled down due to HR, or not, who knows.
obviously things weren't 100% perfect already, but its too bad they have to end like this.
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care to bet your life on that?
 
hotzie said:
i meant to put a lol in there.

but sure.
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lol's make the world go round. and soften harsh sounding posts. now someone go photoshop some pics of them.
 
Cmon, you cannot know all someone character traits unless you have been with them through thick and thin. I have always said that you really understand a person after they go through hell. When you see them at thier lowest point is when you really know them.

HumanTarget said:
how did she not spot this before? they were engaged, i do believe.
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gjohnson5 said:
Cmon, you cannot know all someone character traits unless you have been with them through thick and thin. I have always said that you really understand a person after they go through hell. When you see them at thier lowest point is when you really know them.
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i honestly thought they had been together for some time, and if so, a glimmer of that behavior would've shown thru, revealing a psycho/sociopath. but some folks are real good at hiding shit....
 
HumanTarget said:
lol's make the world go round. and soften harsh sounding posts. now someone go photoshop some pics of them.
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you always know how to make my heart melt. :heart:
 
My goodness! Thank god you're OK! Hope you got a few kicks, knees, elbows in..

At least you found out how he really is before marrying the bastard..

T-Matt
 
WTF Heatherae??? I hope you have somewhere safe to go where he can try nd get himself under control.

That is F'd up. GJohnson hit it on the head that was pretty violent. And like Stilleto said I dont care if she is the Biggest Bitch on the face of the planet he has the option to walk away. I highly doubt she had a gun to his head mad or not its domestic violence and he needs to be prosecuted so the next person hopefully has a chance and if it happens again and they eventually find a pattern they can put him away and protect the rest of society from his anger.

Btw heatherae I am still single and availlable but I will save the hitting on you for later. Go get safe for now
 
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Smurfy said:
I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
From my perspective, no person deserves to suffer physical harm or abuse. To me, there's nothing that justifies that behavior. Well, except self-defense.
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you can hurt far worse with words
when "they" frustrate me I give them the silent treatment
even worse if they love you
 
You guys really raised some good points. As far as seeing it earlier, yes I got glimmers. We have been together for a year now. I made a BIG mistake by overlooking lots and handing over my life to let some guy take care of me. DUMB life lesson #1. I met him the same month that my mom died, and I was sort of emotionally exhausted from taking care of lots of things. It's hard to explain in short order, but he promised me the world and delivered it for several months. Then, little cracks in the armor started showing (including a really bad alcohol problem). It began with emotional abuse, then isolation, then pushing, shoving, and finally to an all out attack. It is difficult to explain, but when you live with someone like that, you sometimes just try to follow behind them and make everything perfect so that everything is calm.

Anyway, it was the first time in my life that I handed the reigns of my life over to someone else to take care of me. It was dumb. I'm trying to fix it now.

Hey, HT, how you doing, Priscilla? ;-)
 
gotmilk said:
did you get stitches?
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No, the wound that bled so much was a puncture wound on my right thumb. It bled like crazy, but doesn't look like much of a wound at all and didn't require stitches. I pulled away from him when he was pulling me through the window.
 
gotmilk said:
Why was he pulling you thru the window? I personally prefer to use my doors
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he locked me out and i was trying to get in. So he threw a full length mirror through it and then grabbed my wrists and was pulling on me. I thought my face was going to go in.
 
Smurfy said:
I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
From my perspective, no person deserves to suffer physical harm or abuse. To me, there's nothing that justifies that behavior. Well, except self-defense.
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I think I know where's KB is coming from though.

I used to come unglued and beat down any guy that put their hands on any woman in my life.

But I've realized more and more that alot of times the woman does do things to antagonize the man I.E push his buttons stuff like that(my mother is included in this bunch).

Not that I'm saying HR did anything to provoke this...I like everybody else on EF dont knot shit about what really happened.


Oh and Bikini mom in 5..4..3..2..1..
 
I haven't tried to provoke him. I always tried to calm things down because I'm afraid of him. Trust me.
 
heatherrae said:
You guys really raised some good points. As far as seeing it earlier, yes I got glimmers. We have been together for a year now. I made a BIG mistake by overlooking lots and handing over my life to let some guy take care of me. DUMB life lesson #1. I met him the same month that my mom died, and I was sort of emotionally exhausted from taking care of lots of things. It's hard to explain in short order, but he promised me the world and delivered it for several months. Then, little cracks in the armor started showing (including a really bad alcohol problem). It began with emotional abuse, then isolation, then pushing, shoving, and finally to an all out attack. It is difficult to explain, but when you live with someone like that, you sometimes just try to follow behind them and make everything perfect so that everything is calm.

Anyway, it was the first time in my life that I handed the reigns of my life over to someone else to take care of me. It was dumb. I'm trying to fix it now.

Hey, HT, how you doing, Priscilla? ;-)
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i have explosive diarrhea & other than me getting the flu from some asshole who doesn't know how to wipe properly, i'm great....
 
HumanTarget said:
i have explosive diarrhea & other than me getting the flu from some asshole who doesn't know how to wipe properly, i'm great....
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thanks for sharing
 
heatherrae said:
he locked me out and i was trying to get in. So he threw a full length mirror through it and then grabbed my wrists and was pulling on me. I thought my face was going to go in.
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the level of violence that you are describing should not be taken lightly. . .i know that you're not taking it lightly. . .but, i can't stress it enough. . .i've seen shit like this continue to escalate. . .he thinks that you belong to him (as others above have indicated). . .if you don't have something to protect yourself, i'd seriously consider purchasing something. . .as much as people are anti-gun, sometimes it CAN save your life when the police aren't there to save it for you. . .if you don't already have one, consider it. . .and if you get one, get trained. . .the NRA and other organizations offer excellent courses. . .be safe.
 
I just want to get out. I actually feel sorry that it escalated so far. He just can't control his drinking. When Child protective services came today, he was gone. She pulled me aside and said, "honey, he has a history with us. Get out of this house or he WILL hurt you." Scared the shit out of me. I have no idea what he has done before. Evidently, he has been violent with either his ex-wife or his children before. !!! I have never had a bf hit me before. This is freaking me out.
 
heatherrae said:
Well, I haven't been on here for a while, because my ex-bf always said I was on here flirting and emailing pictures. I've been called every name in the book by that guy. So, I agreed not to come on here. However, he started getting so jealous that I couldn't even leave the house to go to the gym, or anywhere else, for that matter, and last night, he did this:

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IM000632.jpg


Yep, that is my blood and what used to be a pretty nice dress and purse. =-(

Had to call 911, etc. He is out of the house for a few days so that I can leave.

This is probably the most embarassing, Jerry Springer type situation I have ever been in. Wow, I can't believe I let him tell me to not talk to my friends. Screw him.
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I'm sorry to hear it.... What is the situation in your County? In mine he would be up for a felony but they presecute heavy for dv here. Did you see any signs beforehand he would do this?
 
heatherrae said:
I just want to get out. I actually feel sorry that it escalated so far. He just can't control his drinking. When Child protective services came today, he was gone. She pulled me aside and said, "honey, he has a history with us. Get out of this house or he WILL hurt you." Scared the shit out of me. I have no idea what he has done before. Evidently, he has been violent with either his ex-wife or his children before. !!! I have never had a bf hit me before. This is freaking me out.
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i'm tellin ya. . .http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=6843116&postcount=85
 
Motel 6. we'll keep the light on for ya......i actually prefer places that have multiple porn channels. and complimentary ice....
 
holy shit.glad you are ok.so now that he is not around post up everything girl.then send him a link.lol

no really its good to have you back.
 
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