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[Dakotah]

Nah experiences.. are never a waste.. seriously you can't think like that..

I have gained something from each relationship i have had. Even though some wasn't easy.. I have gone away with knowledge i didn't have before... Whether it be deciding Someone wasn't for me after close to 8 yrs, or leaving an abusive boyfriend, or walking away from someone I loved with all my heart. They all helped me to become who i am..

Time is not wasted. When you think like that.. it causes more negative emotion - You don't need that hun

Is there an age gap?

just a few years im 23 and he is 27

 

[Miss24k]

just a few years im 23 and he is 27

That's not a big difference at all..... You need to have a talk with him hun.

 

[*MissFit*]

That's not too big of a deal..

Seriously though.. if you feel he will be a wall in your quest for whats going on. write it down and don't back down.

Don't bull doze him either, but make sure he knows that things are not right from you persepctive and you want to talk things out.

Writing it down might also help you to sort through thing. It is something i do often, particularily when im confused or I'm not sure about something

 

[Dakotah]

Thanks ladies some things are in better perspective right now and I really appreciate the guidance ladies - young pup here

 

[Dakotah]

writing things down does help and i fully plan to do that and slowly tell him whats on my mind

 

[Miss24k]

writing things down does help and i fully plan to do that and slowly tell him whats on my mind

Good girl... if you ever want to chat just pm me hun.

 

[Gymgurl]

hey Dakota...you can always pm me if you want to talk. I have been married for almost 14 yrs

 

[Dakotah]

Wow I never realized the support i have on this board till today. Thank you all im in tears as i wrote this. If i can ever put my head up i would do it with all of you standing behind me. I cherish all of your opinions and advice. Hugs to you all for helping me and if i need more help i will pm you all.