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How would u feel if your wife or girl friend

sweetnes11

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How would you feel if your wife or girl friend danced with other guys at say a club ? let me know if you dance or not also ?
 
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At a clue? Do you man a club? Just dumped my gf for that if it answers your question.
 
I would'nt care if he's paying for her drinks! I know who she's going home with! I dance also, but only to music that I like.
 
jubei said:
At a clue? Do you man a club? Just dumped my gf for that if it answers your question.
Ya man, your ex also lied to you and said she did'nt dance with other guy's when she went out. That would piss me off!
 
if that ever happens i'll let you know, in my experiences, after a nice dinner out, they usually want to fuck me, so we skip the club
 
dave smith said:
Ya man, your ex also lied to you and said she did'nt dance with other guy's when she went out. That would piss me off!

Your right that is a lot different than dancing with a different guy when your there,


I just ask because I love to dance ,, but Hubby dosen't,, he has tried before, but he sucks at it ,really bad,, besides he told me he likes to watch me dance , He will slow dance with me , but anything else he would rather watch,, Is that wrong?

oh,, BTW,,,,, Jebei sorry about your ex,,,
 
You just got to dance like nobody's watching. You ever see the episode of friends where phoebe goes running? Just dance like that.
 
dancing is fine, if it goes to flirting, well then its over

if you gotta worry about your girl, then she isnt really your girl

also, if the other guy is hitting on her, i have an issue with him, but thats another story
 
just innocent dance,, okmaybe a little sexy somtimes,, but I am doing it for hubby somtimes just to turn him on, but sometimes it a turnon because you know others ar watching too
 
sweetnes11 said:


Your right that is a lot different than dancing with a different guy when your there,


I just ask because I love to dance ,, but Hubby dosen't,, he has tried before, but he sucks at it ,really bad,, besides he told me he likes to watch me dance , He will slow dance with me , but anything else he would rather watch,, Is that wrong?

oh,, BTW,,,,, Jebei sorry about your ex,,,

I think is not right if you dance with any guy...if you wanna dance go out witha group of friends so you dance with the other girls or with a good friend of both of you...but never with a strange guy...That is like when a man goes out looking for sex because he doesn't have it at home.
 
MY GIRL WOULDNT WANNA GO TO A CLUB OR BAR WITHOUT ME...

BUT IF I Saw her, id STOP IT..

BUT sheS so SENsitive.. SHW WOULDNT DO THAT, she gets mad when i play video gaMEs w/o her.. :confused:
 
If i was a sweet kind girl like i used to be, i would say no dont dance with anyone else...but since this is soklueles' life now....
bump and grind with as many man whores as you can because life is too short to spend it with one man.
 
Well I know I have a right one, and I know where he is, but hes not with me so i can do what i want, till he comes round to my way of thinkin
 
sweetnes11 said:


Your right that is a lot different than dancing with a different guy when your there,


I just ask because I love to dance ,, but Hubby dosen't,, he has tried before, but he sucks at it ,really bad,, besides he told me he likes to watch me dance , He will slow dance with me , but anything else he would rather watch,, Is that wrong?

oh,, BTW,,,,, Jebei sorry about your ex,,,

Mutually consentual, what could be the harm in that?

He is not a good dancer, but he enjoys the fact that you are.

Not the same scenario as a man/woman doing something behind their S/O's back.

Me, I am not the least bit jealous, actually get turned on at watching others trying to make moves on someone that is interested in me. I find this to be very arousing.
 
I can tell you this: If your friends saw your girl or wife dancing with another guy at a club (particularly your wife), then it is possible that nasty rumors can start that she might/maybe/perhaps fucked the guy which is not good in most people's books. Even if you don't care what other people say or think about you it can be damaging to your reputation.

Trust me I know the possibility exists, and it can get ugly...
 
personally, i wouldn't like it. unless the guy is gay, he's probably going to have ulterior motives for dancing with a girl aside from dancing for the sake of dancing.

ps - i dance as well.
 
I love it... my GF and I dance together... but I get turned on watching her dance with other men and women... especially women ... she gets so fucking nasty with em...

Im getting hard just thinking about it.
 
SoKlueles said:
Well I know I have a right one, and I know where he is, but hes not with me so i can do what i want, till he comes round to my way of thinkin

your way of thinking is not the way to get him back
 
I think it boils down to how secure the relationship is and whether the trust in one another is at the proper level.

If it's a new relationship, I'd say no way! But if it is a long-term relationship and there hasn't been any problems of trust, than typically, the issue of dancing with others has already been worked out.
 
If I am exclusive with a girl, than I'm the only guy aside from her father who puts his arms around her.
 
My husband dislikes clubs so he rarely goes. He doesn't mind if I go out with the girls for a night though. If I dance with a guy it's someone that I already know and he knows I'm just dancing for fun and nothing more. I do get annoyed if I'm dancing with a girl and a guy tries to cut in and after ignoring him, he still doesn't get the hint. A few weeks ago I was out with the girls, most of them are gay or bi and as usual our dancing is a little hot with eachother. Well, this one guy kept trying to get inbetween my friend and I and I wouldn't take my arm off her shoulder so he got my elbow a few times (accidentally at first but after repeated attempts to get in the middle I made sure he got the message). He had the nerve to say something like "Why don't you elbow me a little harder?" I just looked at him for a and then back at my friend. He stood there for about another 30 seconds and finally got the hint and moved on.

Back to the original question of the thread...I don't see a problem letting your s/o dance with others. All it is is dancing. If they were making out that would be a different story.
 
It depends on the person, and how they feel. It is perfectly fine if you discuss it and the two of you come to that conclusion.
 
My girl is too modest so I know she wouldn't do the booty grind with anyone at a club. I've been trying to get her to flash her tits at concerts and she says no way.
 
sweetnes11 said:
How would you feel if your wife or girl friend danced with other guys at say a club ? let me know if you dance or not also ?

If my wife went out dancing with other guys I'd be pissed. I don't dance with other girls out of respect for her, I expect the same.

Honestly though we never go to clubs anymore, we just crank the stereo and dance at home (usually after some wine). This almost always leads to sex on the floor or furniture, much better than dancing in public. ;)
 
I would let her dance with another man at the club and when we get home I would beat her ass.She would be lucky to walk again after I get through.
 
I like your style. Private beatings are the way to go. I like to put a phone book up against their body and then strike the book so you don't leave obvious bruises.
 
oranges wrapped in a towel works too; leaves big ugly bruises but doesn't do much real damage if you hit 'em right.
 
doesn't bother me at all,not the slightest..though emphasis has to be placed on "your girl"..if she's my girl it doesn't phase me to let em dance with other guys...I can dance moderately well myself,but sometimes I don't feel like it...plus there is a cool factor in being confidant enough to let your gal groove with other guys...
 
GoldenDelicious said:
if you gotta worry about your girl, then she isnt really your girl

also, if the other guy is hitting on her, i have an issue with him, but thats another story
I agree on the first note,but on the second note,ANY girl of mine is gonna be savvy enough to handle it..its kinda fun to watch them try..I'll even break for a leak while they are making they're move
 
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