How Too??

[salemlot]

How do I keep a woman interested in me? Its over the interent right now, but I always turn them off and end up just being friends. I am tired of just being friends. And I hate chasing females...so for all you players out here give me some advice on how I can make them chase me. I am not good with mind games

 

[gonelifting]

Talk about one or a couple of your hobbies that you know a lot about that they MAY be interested in. This advice is for someone who does`nt "have anything to say".

Have them talk about themselves. Girls like that they can talk to someone, and TRY to understand their situation and/or problems they might be having.

Be cool, don`t always say "I`m bored, I have nothing to do, I have no friends..."


Are you asking them out at any given time after you start talking to them? Maybe because you`re not making a move, they think you`re not interested and become "friends". Y

You have the friends thing to fall back on, at least they WANT to keep speaking with you. SAo, you just gotta make them WANT you as something other than just friends.

Good luck.

 

[salemlot]

Thanks gonelifting,

I was starting to think no one would answer my question...I think I am too nice to girls. I had many of them tell me It nice talking to me because its like talking with another female! So I turn into a pervert to show them I am not a female nor gay. And that never works. I will try what you told me man, I am tired of being alone. I am 29 I should be married by now.

 

[gonelifting]

Thanks gonelifting,

I was starting to think no one would answer my question...I think I am too nice to girls. I had many of them tell me It nice talking to me because its like talking with another female! So I turn into a pervert to show them I am not a female nor gay. And that never works. I will try what you told me man, I am tired of being alone. I am 29 I should be married by now.

damn bro.... good luck man. Go to the Chat forum and hang out a while. You`ll learn a few things from there and also what types of people are out there. Post up over there and have fun bro.

PS I would probably fight you.

thanks

 

[FknKnuckleHd]

It all depends on the kind of chic she is? If she parties and is open minded and seem to be adventurous I can reel'm in everytime by just being myself and not holding back too much but, as males we must have some restraint after all we are the male species...and some of our thoughts are best left between our ears. Unless of course she's a pornstar or was recently released from prison.

If she is the kinda chic you would bring home to ma'ma then now is the time we all must recall all the polite and curtious mannerisms our moms tought us. Holding the door and pulling out/tucking in her chair at the dinner table wouldn't come into play over the internet but remembering her likes and dislikes is HUGE, it shows you care enough about her to actually listen, pay attention and recall it. This a woman I would let do a lot of the talking...find out what she likes, loves and what her interests are, take a mentle note of what brings a smile to her face and ask her questions that allow her to express to you what she is passionate about. Most women like to talk once they open up and the best thing for us is to smile, seem intersted and sincere and always look into her eyes(buy a web-cam lol). This type of woman is butter in my hands if she in front me. Women love to talk about their feelings but in order to do so they have to trust you enough to open up. I'm not having sex with the first night with this woman...trust is being established but by the end of the second date she's attacking me...GUARANTEED! These are the women I love because to put fourth the work it takes she gotta be perfect in my eyes because I'm not listening to a shit pig or dim witted freak all night ramble in my ear and seem interested at the same time. The only problem I have is I too a lot of times become attached to them...I love to make'm smile...my ego feeds off of it....they are my crutch!

My advice to you is don't focus on yourself try putting more of the spot light on them...make her feel special but by all means mantain your dignity at all times and for God sakes be cool and look good doing it!

I know, I kind rambled on but I hope it helped..later

 

[salemlot]

thanks for your reply. I think I should save this thread. I group all chics in one catergory, they all are marrying material. So I try to romance them even if they are just a party girls. Mostly i just end up being just friend's with them and down the road I have to hear about there sex life with some other guy. For me its so hard to get a woman to talk about herself, I TRIED. I don't care what she looks like I honestly like getting to know her, but I met so many females with just yes or no answer's. Which make me try even harder to make them open up, So i end up acting like a pervert to try to make them laugh. The only time they open up to me is when they are telling me there problems with they're new boyfriend.

I don't know if this post makes sense...I am still waking up. And at this point I have no more dignity. HA. I would date Janet Reno

 

[gonelifting]

Seriously bro, you may be a good candidate for the book offered here. I forget the name..."How to get laid in seven days" or whatever. You may be doing the wrong things. you`re 29 and still striking out that`s not good bro. I wish you well. Like I said before, go to the Chat forum on this site. They`re tough there but you WILL learn some things. It may even help you with your personality talking with some of those guys. Just be careful of that Jerseyart dude, he`ll try to hit on you. You`re not gay, right? lol jk he`s cool we always bust each other. He`s just very fat and out of shape but he`s still cool.

In Chat, you`ll get more responses. good luck

 

[oresama]

Heres my advice "DRINK, DRINK then DRINK SOMEMORE" lol you'll be amazed by what a small amount of alcohol can do to your personality, sounds like it might be worth a try from what your saying. Who cares even if it's over the internet lol! g'luck -Ore