I know to a sense what i am doing, but i am also still listening to everyone on here. I have learned quite a bit from this site, and i am still learning important information. Thats a harsh judgement.
im not trying to be harsh or rude. read through your statements. regardless of what you do consider this. if you dont know what proper form is and you know gyms are flooded with morons. what would be the more wize choice? going with the gym trainer? or going with the world famus guys? you can watch detailed videos and read countless tips from them. how about the worlds top power lifters? you can view them also. then for reasurance you can video yourself using what you learned and compare. im sorry if i offended you, im only trying to help you avoid what is probably a mistake.