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How to effectively debate proponents on moral grounds of same-sex marriage

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People seem inclined to argue in favor of same-sex marriage for a variety of reasons. Presently the argument of the proponent of same-sex marriage is popularly framed in the public arena as being equivalent to the issue of racial civil rights. It is suggested that our obligation to recognize same-sex marriage is a moral one, and that this obligation derives from an underlying moral principle similar to that moral principle from which it is suggested derives our moral obligation to recognize rights independently of race.

Anywhere from the Massachusetts Supreme Court to the comments of television pundits we see this moral principle rendered as being generally to the effect:

P1: "If recognition of type of marriage t does not fail to be rational, and further if recognition of t is desired by some in a partnership having the composition of t, then we have a moral obligation to recognize with marriage of type t that partnership so desiring."

Some opponents of same-sex marriage suggest that this will require us to recognize variously: pedophilia, bestiality, polygamy, and incest. However, proponents of same-sex marriage have recently developed and popularized a set of talking-point responses to each of these suggestions:

a) To polygamy they will respond that they are only immediately interested in the equal recognition of partnerships of consenting adults of male-male and female-female composition in the already existing institution of marriage between two consenting adults, because these partnerships of male-male and female-female composition are equally partnerships between two consenting adults.

b) To each pedophilia and bestiality they respond similarly that such partnerships are not between consenting adults, alluding to the suggestion that both partnerships involve at least one member who morally can not give his or her or its informed consent to such a partnership.

c) To incest they recount what has long been known that incestuous biological reproduction has a greater chance on the whole (and per capita) of producing offspring with genetic, hereditary defects or illnesses than on the whole does non-incestuous biological reproduction. Hence, suggests the proponent of same-sex marriage, we have a rational basis for the restriction of the recognition with marriage of incestuous partnerships.

The weakest of these points, and what I would suggest is on the average or best case indefensible, is case (c): recognition with marriage of incestuous partnerships between consenting adults. Not only is this point the most productive to attack because of its general indefensibility, but also because agreement in the public sphere is almost universal that incestuous marriage is wrong and also that we know we have no moral obligation to recognize an incestuous partnership with marriage, even if that marriage it is desired by an incestuous partnership of two consenting adults.

Now, before we begin, it is important to realize the limitations of our offensive. Most notably, attacking the point of incestuous marriage between consenting adults in private or on in relatively anonymous forum will not generally be successful, for not surprisingly at all given the courage granted by this perception of anonymity, certain committed individuals will discover an unnatural proclivity to "bitting the bullet", i.e. they will simply respond to you that so far as they are concerned, incestuous marriage between consenting adults is morally defensible or is somehow otherwise acceptable. While there are certain twisted individuals among us who no doubt have deluded themselves into genuinely holding such a position, it is in the overwhelming part the case that perceiving their relative anonymity, some individuals will offer this retort to inflate their pride and to obtain some illusion of power by thinking they have turned the weaker argument into the stronger.

Such individuals are not immediately your concern, and if addressed at all, should be addressed in the public sphere where they will cower and cringe in the light of their peers and superiors as the prideful and deviant creatures they are, ashamed of their inferior and false positions. Do not cast your pearls to swine.

While no doubt it may not have occurred to you due to the undesirable nature of the subject matter, it should become quite obvious that the genetic pool argument alluded to in (c), is completely impotent for those incestuous partnerships between consenting adults having any of the following compositions:
- Male-male incestuous partnerships.
- Female-female incestuous partnerships.
- Male-female incestuous partnerships where one or both members are past child-bearing age or otherwise sterile.
- Male-female incestuous partnerships which choose not to reproduce as presently do many heterosexual partnerships which we have as a society deemed is not reason to deny the recognition of marriage to such partnerships.
- Male-female incestuous partnerships which choose adoption or to use a surrogate mother as presently do many heterosexual partnerships which we as a society have deemed is not reason to deny the recognition of marriage to such partnerships, and also are the only means presently available to homosexual partnerships to have children.

On the terms of the proponents of same-sex marriage, there is no sufficient, defensible, rational basis on which to restrict the recognition of marriage for incestuous partnerships having any of the preceding compositions.

While this illustration alone is adequate for our following purposes, first we may optionally proceed to address the defensibility of the alleged rational basis for restriction of the recognition of marriage for male-female incestuous relationships capable of or interested in biological reproduction.

Now, to be sure, the mere possibility of defective biological reproduction is not alone sufficient to restrict the recognition with marriage of such partnerships, because we recognize with marriage heterosexual partnerships regardless of predisposition to genetic and hereditary diseases or deficiencies in any or both partners. To do otherwise, we realize, would – in however limited a capacity it may be – to implement a government enforced program of eugenics. But this is not the only appeal we may make. Incestuous biological reproduction is not intrinsically defective, deficient, or disease prone. In the case that there are hereditary defects or illnesses coded for in the genes of both partners, there is significant risk of these defects or diseases being passed to the offspring produced, but this is similarly the case with non-incestuous heterosexual partnerships in which both partners share the aforementioned genetic particularities. The possibility of hereditary defects or illnesses in a single-generation incestuous relationship are negligible by present standards and are not sufficient in the general case to constitute a rational basis for the restriction of the recognition of male-female incestuous partnerships between consenting adults, even in the case that such a partnerships chooses biological reproduction.

Recall moral principle (P1):
P1: "If recognition of type of marriage t does not fail to be rational, and further if recognition of t is desired by some in a partnership having the composition of t, then we have a moral obligation to recognize with marriage of type t that partnership so desiring."

That as we have demonstrated there is no rational basis for the restriction of the recognition with marriage of incestuous partnerships between consenting adults, satisfies part (1) of active moral principle (P1) – the principle appealed to popularly in the public sphere by proponents of same-sex marriage.

Part (2) of moral principle (P1) is also satisfied. It is the case that there are incestuous partnerships between consenting adults, who desire, or given the public forum for expressing such desire, do wish their relationships or partnerships to be recognized with marriage.

Of course, given how extensively we denigrate, ridicule, persecute, and expression the intention to persecute, prosecute, and jail those engaged in such loving and mutually affirmative partnerships, there should be no surprise that public expressions of such relationships are rare, or that under such tremendous negative social pressure, such relationships are often prone to difficulties, complications, abandonment, or failure. No doubt this situation has many similarities with struggles faced by same-sex relationships in times past. For all these reasons of which we are guilty – we might say – we have also (were their behave actually morally permissible) some moral obligation to give such individuals the benefit of the doubt.

Further, proponents of same-sex marriage are quick to remind us that popular opinion does not matter in the case of such a fundamental human right as that of two consenting adults in a loving and affirmative relationship to have their relationship recognized in marriage when they so desire.

It is clear then, that both part (1) and part (2) of moral principle (P1) are satisfied. That is to say, on the grounds of moral principle (P1) just as proponents of same-sex marriage argue we have a moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage, we similarly have a moral obligation to recognize with marriage at least those incestuous partnerships of best-case compositions, and arguable all incestuous partnerships between consenting adults.

However, as decent and right-thinking people know that we do not have a moral obligation to recognize incestuous partnerships with marriage. The public at large knows this too. Anyone who says otherwise, we know, is simply wrong. They have failed to properly ascertain the truth of the matter. They are abnormally defective in their epistemic and moral capacities (the same thing can be said in many ways).

Therefore, by proof by contradiction, we know that on the grounds of moral principle (P1) we do not in fact have a moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage, because if moral principle (P1) were not defective, then we would have a moral obligation to recognize incestuous partnerships with marriage, and we know that we have no such obligation.

Now, it may be that on some other grounds – not grounds (P1) – that we have a moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage, but no such alternative grounds has been presented, advanced, or popularized in the public sphere, and as such we may conclude, having proved that grounds (P1) is deficient, at least I suggest that we do not seem to have before us any pressing moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage.

And of course, anyone who chooses as they might think a potential refutation to suggest in the public arena that we have a moral obligation to recognize incestuous partnerships with marriage, we and the public know to be wrong and know to not be credible in moral matters.
 
Oh it's ridiculous.

So, they want to marry. I would imagine they respect the concept of marriage more than most of the straight people getting married then divorced and making babies that they are ill prepared to care for and raise for 18 years.

It would be interesting to me to compare ten years of straight and gay couples and see who lasts longer.

This is more about certain people concerned about their definition of marriage. Which is a joke to me as most people don't even understand what the "sanctity of marriage" means.
 
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:) Ok, then I think we should alter the laws that give special privaledges to strictly Male/Female unions so that they receive nothing special from them. Alter tax laws etc. Ok, so as a Male/female union that is specified by God in some way, you're just doing what God commanded. That deserves nothing special. You're doing what you SHOULD do.
 
velvett said:
Oh it's ridiculous.

So, they want to marry. I would imagine they respect the concept of marriage more than most of the straight people getting married then divorced and making babies that they are ill prepared to care for and raise for 18 years.

It would be interesting to me to compare ten years of straight and gay couples and see who lasts longer.

This is more about certain people concerned about their definition of marriage. Which is a joke to me as most people don't even understand what the "sanctity of marriage" means.

Those presenting the argument are poor at seeing the real reason why the priviledge of marriage (it is not a right..no licenses of state are rights) should remain as defined: union of man and woman. Those who state "Go ahead, why should they not marry?", if asked 5 years ago, would never question the concept of marriage as NOT being only the aforementioned definition; it was common knowledge. One cannot merely claim that this is nothing more than a word, for all things in this world are represented by words; they provide us with foundations on which to work with. So, the GLBT community has been very successful at corrupting (deconstructing), in the mind of the public, the very words by which we think.

For those who claim, "what does it matter, it is just a word", take a look at the current state of idiocy of our world. The very concept of "illegal alien" is being redefined; it is now "undocumented citizen". This is the nothing more than redefining reality to anything you want, it suits your purpose and so you obfuscate reality and your opponent by pulling the very foundation on which all knowledge rests: ideas. In doing so, you have altered the idea to change its context in order to sway the masses behind your agenda of usurping the law (the individuals who promote such nonsense openly argue that we should simply violate the law, because of "x" reason and "y" reason, etc...the rule of man, not that of law).

Marriage has been universally understood as man and woman. Civil unions have been offered as viable options with equal priviledges; it was denied, because the real drive is not marriage, but the deconstruction of America.
 
atlantabiolab said:
Marriage has been universally understood as man and woman. Civil unions have been offered as viable options with equal priviledges; it was denied, because the real drive is not marriage, but the deconstruction of America.


Huh, you really believe that?


Please elaborate on how you see the deconstruction of America happening because of same-sex amrriages?

(Not being a wise ass - I really want to hear what you have to say)
 
If everybody is so concerned about the "sanctity of marriage," why don't we just make divorce illegal? 50% of marriages in this country already end in divorce. For the same heterosexual population that so frequently divorces to lecture gays on the "sanctity of marriage" is total shit. If it's so great, how come so many of you take it for granted?
 
casualbb said:
If everybody is so concerned about the "sanctity of marriage," why don't we just make divorce illegal? 50% of marriages in this country already end in divorce. For the same heterosexual population that so frequently divorces to lecture gays on the "sanctity of marriage" is total shit. If it's so great, how come so many of you take it for granted?

That's what I was trying to say.

:supercool
 
I don't care what a bunch of homosexuals want to do. Marraige is treated like something to do on a Saturday Night when you're bored. If they want to get married, I won't stop them.

I fail to see how the deconstruction of America is a result of a bunch of guys who love to hob knob or a bunch of chicks who love to eat pussy wanting to get hitched.

The people who scream "sanctity of marraige" just want to get the holier than thou out there, and after the cameras turn off they go and fuck their mistresses.

I don't doubt that there are gay couples who want to get married just because they know it'll stir up something. People need to mind their own frigging business.
 
strongsmartsexy said:
Has he started his own church yet? I got to meet him in person once. I believe the last impression I was left with from him went along the lines of ASShole.


Check out the 'News" section of his website.

He rants & rants & rants......etc...etc...

Defintely, one angry man.
 
c-sharp minor said:
Check out the 'News" section of his website.

He rants & rants & rants......etc...etc...

Defintely, one angry man.

I used to read on his site. Until I realized that he's utterly self absorbed within his own realm, bought his own WWF hype. Then he just became plain boring. A bit like listening to a Cher album.
 
casualbb said:
If everybody is so concerned about the "sanctity of marriage," why don't we just make divorce illegal? 50% of marriages in this country already end in divorce. For the same heterosexual population that so frequently divorces to lecture gays on the "sanctity of marriage" is total shit. If it's so great, how come so many of you take it for granted?

better yet: let's get rid of marriage altogether and give single people the same tax advantages
 
yeah pretty much

Rex said:
I don't care what a bunch of homosexuals want to do. Marraige is treated like something to do on a Saturday Night when you're bored. If they want to get married, I won't stop them.

I fail to see how the deconstruction of America is a result of a bunch of guys who love to hob knob or a bunch of chicks who love to eat pussy wanting to get hitched.

The people who scream "sanctity of marraige" just want to get the holier than thou out there, and after the cameras turn off they go and fuck their mistresses.

I don't doubt that there are gay couples who want to get married just because they know it'll stir up something. People need to mind their own frigging business.
 
big_bad_buff said:
People seem inclined to argue in favor of same-sex marriage for a variety of reasons. Presently the argument of the proponent of same-sex marriage is popularly framed in the public arena as being equivalent to the issue of racial civil rights. It is suggested that our obligation to recognize same-sex marriage is a moral one, and that this obligation derives from an underlying moral principle similar to that moral principle from which it is suggested derives our moral obligation to recognize rights independently of race.

You didn't write this, did you? Where'd you take it from?
 
velvett said:
Huh, you really believe that?


Please elaborate on how you see the deconstruction of America happening because of same-sex amrriages?

(Not being a wise ass - I really want to hear what you have to say)

Come on Velvett, did you not read the rest of the post...I said it is part of a larger problem; not "because of", but it is merely an example of the larger problem. I mentioned the deconstructing of illegal aliens, into "undocumented citizens"; how about another example: "reproductive freedom". Do I need to elaborate of the stupidity of this phrase and the contradictory manner in which it is used? How about "ethnic cleansing"?
 
atlantabiolab said:
Those presenting the argument are poor at seeing the real reason why the priviledge of marriage (it is not a right..no licenses of state are rights) should remain as defined: union of man and woman. Those who state "Go ahead, why should they not marry?", if asked 5 years ago, would never question the concept of marriage as NOT being only the aforementioned definition; it was common knowledge. One cannot merely claim that this is nothing more than a word, for all things in this world are represented by words; they provide us with foundations on which to work with. So, the GLBT community has been very successful at corrupting (deconstructing), in the mind of the public, the very words by which we think.".

The meaning of words are subject to additions. Have you picked up a dictionary lately? Hmmm, it looks like marriage has been updated: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=marriage
And besides, most people that I've talked to that have been married find that divorce is by far the best privilege.

atlantabiolab said:
For those who claim, "what does it matter, it is just a word", take a look at the current state of idiocy of our world. ".

Idiocy has been around for years. I'm sure there isn't a current state to it - the cave men weren't all that smart either. I take that back, someone did figure out how to make a rock roll.

atlantabiolab said:
. . . the deconstruction of America.

Hmmmm . . . Where's the great debate about Ms. Spear's quick marriage and the deconstruction of the universe as we know it? Or even her same-sex kiss before the marriage? And oh my god, I guess witches weren't at one time considered bad to America either as they were burned to death? Or, oh shit, those black people that even dared to think of considering themselves good enough to sit with the whites? Hell, America must really be gonna blow up soon - with so much idiocy, redefining of roles, and other shit that's been happening since before we were born. And let's not even mention Janet exposing that symbol on her breast. The countdown to deconstruction begins now . . . 10 . . . 9 . . .
 
justyxxxx said:
The meaning of words are subject to additions. Have you picked up a dictionary lately? Hmmm, it looks like marriage has been updated: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=marriage
And besides, most people that I've talked to that have been married find that divorce is by far the best privilege.



Idiocy has been around for years. I'm sure there isn't a current state to it - the cave men weren't all that smart either. I take that back, someone did figure out how to make a rock roll.



Hmmmm . . . Where's the great debate about Ms. Spear's quick marriage and the deconstruction of the universe as we know it? Or even her same-sex kiss before the marriage? And oh my god, I guess witches weren't at one time considered bad to America either as they were burned to death? Or, oh shit, those black people that even dared to think of considering themselves good enough to sit with the whites? Hell, America must really be gonna blow up soon - with so much idiocy, redefining of roles, and other shit that's been happening since before we were born. And let's not even mention Janet exposing that symbol on her breast. The countdown to deconstruction begins now . . . 10 . . . 9 . . .

Your argument is concerning "additions to" a concept, such as the idea of "man" to include black people, women, etc. All knowledge is heirarchical, it builds upon the foundation of other truths, so expanding the limit of "man" to cover these additions is not completely re-interpreting the idea of "man" since you have not changed the essentials of this definition: man is a rational animal (Homo sapien = "knowing man"). If you wished to state that homo sapiens are dogs, would this be correct? Is there no truth to ideas, since words can be changed as you argue?

In terms of marriage, the common meaning of this idea has been the union of man and woman; in Roman days its meaning was derived from the "right" (a right we no longer accept in all of its manifestations) of males to take a bride. We have expanded its usage to that of willful voluntary matrimony, unlike its original meaning where fathers sold their daughters or men "took" women for brides, but its meaning has remained as essentially "man and woman".

The deconstruction of American thought has been occuring for decades now, and to deny it is to deny those who vocally advocate deconstruction. "Feminist" theory, "Gay" theory, "Gender" theory, "Racial" theory, etc. all derive much of their philosophy from Derrida's deconstructionism.
 
atlantabiolab said:
Your argument is concerning "additions to" a concept, such as the idea of "man" to include black people, women, etc. All knowledge is heirarchical, it builds upon the foundation of other truths, so expanding the limit of "man" to cover these additions is not completely re-interpreting the idea of "man" since you have not changed the essentials of this definition: man is a rational animal (Homo sapien = "knowing man"). If you wished to state that homo sapiens are dogs, would this be correct? Is there no truth to ideas, since words can be changed as you argue?

In terms of marriage, the common meaning of this idea has been the union of man and woman; in Roman days its meaning was derived from the "right" (a right we no longer accept in all of its manifestations) of males to take a bride. We have expanded its usage to that of willful voluntary matrimony, unlike its original meaning where fathers sold their daughters or men "took" women for brides, but its meaning has remained as essentially "man and woman".

The deconstruction of American thought has been occuring for decades now, and to deny it is to deny those who vocally advocate deconstruction. "Feminist" theory, "Gay" theory, "Gender" theory, "Racial" theory, etc. all derive much of their philosophy from Derrida's deconstructionism.


I'm reading to you the definition of marriage from the American Heritage dictionary by Houghton Mifflin, copyright 2000. You can choose to argue all that you want, but they know the meaning of words better than any of us and they've been doing it for decades. Of course there are truth to words, but things change - such as the meaning of gay from lighthearted, brightly colored to now mainly gay people or fag, from "to droop" to many meanings now. I don't see the difference of the changes of meanings to these things as any different from the current argument of the definition of marriage.

The deconstruction sounds like a good thing then, from everything that you mentioned . . . America has been removing the ignorance and/or stupidity and/or brutality that it has held for centuries. What is wrong with that?
 
justyxxxx said:
I'm reading to you the definition of marriage from the American Heritage dictionary by Houghton Mifflin, copyright 2000. You can choose to argue all that you want, but they know the meaning of words better than any of us and they've been doing it for decades. Of course there are truth to words, but things change - such as the meaning of gay from lighthearted, brightly colored to now mainly gay people or fag, from "to droop" to many meanings now. I don't see the difference of the changes of meanings to these things as any different from the current argument of the definition of marriage.

Please stick to the points of discussion, which is the redefining of a single idea, not, as your example shows, the use of a word for a totally new concept. We are not talking about using "marriage" in some euphemistic/metaphorical manner, but the complete changing of its essentials.

The deconstruction sounds like a good thing then, from everything that you mentioned . . . America has been removing the ignorance and/or stupidity and/or brutality that it has held for centuries. What is wrong with that?

If you knew anything about the philosophies which I mentioned, then you would know what is wrong with them. They do not correct past mistakes, they take pride in generating new ones.
 
atlantabiolab said:
Please stick to the points of discussion, which is the redefining of a single idea, not, as your example shows, the use of a word for a totally new concept. We are not talking about using "marriage" in some euphemistic/metaphorical manner, but the complete changing of its essentials.

Marriage and it's essential meaning to me is that of a very special love between two people who want to share a part of themselves with each other and no one else. That is the essential part of it to me. Historically, it has been viewed as between a man and a woman, but if everyone accepted current views then women wouldn't have the right to vote, blacks would still be shipped to America to work for free, and witches would be getting burnt at the stake. It's essentials haven't changed to me because gays have shared their love for thousands of years and now they are wishing to be viewed as a legitimate relationship instead of "a joke". I believe that it's fair and that it doesn't change the essentials of marriage.

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atlantabiolab said:
f you knew anything about the philosophies which I mentioned, then you would know what is wrong with them. They do not correct past mistakes, they take pride in generating new ones.
You can't take an eraser and change any past mistake, you can only hope that the decisions that you make today work toward improving life for all. I don't agree with your point of view on marriage. It's not changing the essentials, it's recognizing a special love that has existed for many, many years but that has gone unrecognized. That's it.
 
casualbb said:
So demanding equal rights is equivalent to deconstruction?

This is not an equal rights argument, since licenses are NOT rights. Are you going to tell me that EVERYONE has a right to government licenses or are they allocated only to those that meet certain criteria?? Can a ditch digger obtain a medical license? Can an electrician obtain a florist license? Can a twelve year old obtain a driver's license?

This is deconstruction, for the GBLT community has rejected all ideas to "civil unions, which would carry the same priviledges as marriage. If all you wanted was "equal protection", then why would you reject offers that grant equal protection, merely because it was not wrapped as nicely as you wish?
 
Why the FUCK would someone want the right to get married? Marraige is EVIL!

I can't wait ti the first gay coupel divorce, and one person gets 50% of the bread winner's earnings. Ouch is that gonna hurt! Hey, YOU wanted it baby!

Oh my god, i can't even imagine the drama of child custody battles. Does the other partner have the same rights to demand full custody as the biological parent? What about the biological father? Oooh it'll get nasty! Lawyers are gonna love this shit!

Gay people hav ealready gotten married this year. It's too late. It's inevitiable. I do'nt even know why people are fighting against it.

I already know what the gov't is gona do. What it's been doing for years. Just have it sit in courts for YEARS, so the next administration can worry about it. It's already ahppened. The surpreme court in CA stopped the practice, so it can hear arguments against the mayor, and let the lower courts decide on other provisions, hear briefs, blah blah blah blah. It'll be 10 years before it even decides ont he "constuttionality" of it.

It's a legal mess and that's how the gov't uses it to stop gay marraiges. Throw enough appeals and provisions and bounce from curt to court to state to state, so eventually they'll run out of money and give up. Let's face it. All those appeals cost money, and the gov't has more of it.
 
atlantabiolab said:
This is not an equal rights argument, since licenses are NOT rights. Are you going to tell me that EVERYONE has a right to government licenses or are they allocated only to those that meet certain criteria?? Can a ditch digger obtain a medical license? Can an electrician obtain a florist license? Can a twelve year old obtain a driver's license?

This is deconstruction, for the GBLT community has rejected all ideas to "civil unions, which would carry the same priviledges as marriage. If all you wanted was "equal protection", then why would you reject offers that grant equal protection, merely because it was not wrapped as nicely as you wish?

This IS a rights issue. The rights and protections given to straight married couples should be equally given to gay couples that have tied the knot. The following are the rights and protections that gay couples are excluded from:

http://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Sec...Management/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=16954

You try to make it out to NOT be a rights issue so that you can justify it within your own mind . . .
 
You said this,

atlantabiolab said:
The deconstruction of American thought has been occuring for decades now, and to deny it is to deny those who vocally advocate deconstruction. "Feminist" theory, "Gay" theory, "Gender" theory, "Racial" theory, etc. all derive much of their philosophy from Derrida's deconstructionism.

Then I said this,

casualbb said:
So demanding equal rights is equivalent to deconstruction?

All of those "theories" you mentioned are essentially movements in which said group demanded equal rights. If that's deconstruction, how is deconstruction bad?

Also, you claim that in allowing gay marriage, we're changing the definition of marriage. Well as a result of the women's suffrage movement, the definition of the franchise was changed. Would you like to roll back women's suffrage because it's forbidden to change a definition?
 
I don't know why they keep claiming most of america is against it. Almost everyone i talk to is more like "i don't give a shit, go ahead". Just grant them the right, and let them suffer like the rest of us. Like I care two ugly dykes wanna get married. They're gonna *eventually* get that right anyways -- no matter how long the gov't tries to stall it with legal wrangling in courts.
 
Y_Lifter said:
My main question is when they adopt children, who's last name does the kid take...

The top.
 
Ahhh... I so enjoy naturalistic observation of human nature. This board is a source of great amusement for me. Don't mind me, please continue your silly arguement.
 
big_bad_buff said:
People seem inclined to argue in favor of same-sex marriage for a variety of reasons. Presently the argument of the proponent of same-sex marriage is popularly framed in the public arena as being equivalent to the issue of racial civil rights. It is suggested that our obligation to recognize same-sex marriage is a moral one, and that this obligation derives from an underlying moral principle similar to that moral principle from which it is suggested derives our moral obligation to recognize rights independently of race.

Anywhere from the Massachusetts Supreme Court to the comments of television pundits we see this moral principle rendered as being generally to the effect:

P1: "If recognition of type of marriage t does not fail to be rational, and further if recognition of t is desired by some in a partnership having the composition of t, then we have a moral obligation to recognize with marriage of type t that partnership so desiring."

Some opponents of same-sex marriage suggest that this will require us to recognize variously: pedophilia, bestiality, polygamy, and incest. However, proponents of same-sex marriage have recently developed and popularized a set of talking-point responses to each of these suggestions:

a) To polygamy they will respond that they are only immediately interested in the equal recognition of partnerships of consenting adults of male-male and female-female composition in the already existing institution of marriage between two consenting adults, because these partnerships of male-male and female-female composition are equally partnerships between two consenting adults.

b) To each pedophilia and bestiality they respond similarly that such partnerships are not between consenting adults, alluding to the suggestion that both partnerships involve at least one member who morally can not give his or her or its informed consent to such a partnership.

c) To incest they recount what has long been known that incestuous biological reproduction has a greater chance on the whole (and per capita) of producing offspring with genetic, hereditary defects or illnesses than on the whole does non-incestuous biological reproduction. Hence, suggests the proponent of same-sex marriage, we have a rational basis for the restriction of the recognition with marriage of incestuous partnerships.

The weakest of these points, and what I would suggest is on the average or best case indefensible, is case (c): recognition with marriage of incestuous partnerships between consenting adults. Not only is this point the most productive to attack because of its general indefensibility, but also because agreement in the public sphere is almost universal that incestuous marriage is wrong and also that we know we have no moral obligation to recognize an incestuous partnership with marriage, even if that marriage it is desired by an incestuous partnership of two consenting adults.

Now, before we begin, it is important to realize the limitations of our offensive. Most notably, attacking the point of incestuous marriage between consenting adults in private or on in relatively anonymous forum will not generally be successful, for not surprisingly at all given the courage granted by this perception of anonymity, certain committed individuals will discover an unnatural proclivity to "bitting the bullet", i.e. they will simply respond to you that so far as they are concerned, incestuous marriage between consenting adults is morally defensible or is somehow otherwise acceptable. While there are certain twisted individuals among us who no doubt have deluded themselves into genuinely holding such a position, it is in the overwhelming part the case that perceiving their relative anonymity, some individuals will offer this retort to inflate their pride and to obtain some illusion of power by thinking they have turned the weaker argument into the stronger.

Such individuals are not immediately your concern, and if addressed at all, should be addressed in the public sphere where they will cower and cringe in the light of their peers and superiors as the prideful and deviant creatures they are, ashamed of their inferior and false positions. Do not cast your pearls to swine.

While no doubt it may not have occurred to you due to the undesirable nature of the subject matter, it should become quite obvious that the genetic pool argument alluded to in (c), is completely impotent for those incestuous partnerships between consenting adults having any of the following compositions:
- Male-male incestuous partnerships.
- Female-female incestuous partnerships.
- Male-female incestuous partnerships where one or both members are past child-bearing age or otherwise sterile.
- Male-female incestuous partnerships which choose not to reproduce as presently do many heterosexual partnerships which we have as a society deemed is not reason to deny the recognition of marriage to such partnerships.
- Male-female incestuous partnerships which choose adoption or to use a surrogate mother as presently do many heterosexual partnerships which we as a society have deemed is not reason to deny the recognition of marriage to such partnerships, and also are the only means presently available to homosexual partnerships to have children.

On the terms of the proponents of same-sex marriage, there is no sufficient, defensible, rational basis on which to restrict the recognition of marriage for incestuous partnerships having any of the preceding compositions.

While this illustration alone is adequate for our following purposes, first we may optionally proceed to address the defensibility of the alleged rational basis for restriction of the recognition of marriage for male-female incestuous relationships capable of or interested in biological reproduction.

Now, to be sure, the mere possibility of defective biological reproduction is not alone sufficient to restrict the recognition with marriage of such partnerships, because we recognize with marriage heterosexual partnerships regardless of predisposition to genetic and hereditary diseases or deficiencies in any or both partners. To do otherwise, we realize, would – in however limited a capacity it may be – to implement a government enforced program of eugenics. But this is not the only appeal we may make. Incestuous biological reproduction is not intrinsically defective, deficient, or disease prone. In the case that there are hereditary defects or illnesses coded for in the genes of both partners, there is significant risk of these defects or diseases being passed to the offspring produced, but this is similarly the case with non-incestuous heterosexual partnerships in which both partners share the aforementioned genetic particularities. The possibility of hereditary defects or illnesses in a single-generation incestuous relationship are negligible by present standards and are not sufficient in the general case to constitute a rational basis for the restriction of the recognition of male-female incestuous partnerships between consenting adults, even in the case that such a partnerships chooses biological reproduction.

Recall moral principle (P1):
P1: "If recognition of type of marriage t does not fail to be rational, and further if recognition of t is desired by some in a partnership having the composition of t, then we have a moral obligation to recognize with marriage of type t that partnership so desiring."

That as we have demonstrated there is no rational basis for the restriction of the recognition with marriage of incestuous partnerships between consenting adults, satisfies part (1) of active moral principle (P1) – the principle appealed to popularly in the public sphere by proponents of same-sex marriage.

Part (2) of moral principle (P1) is also satisfied. It is the case that there are incestuous partnerships between consenting adults, who desire, or given the public forum for expressing such desire, do wish their relationships or partnerships to be recognized with marriage.

Of course, given how extensively we denigrate, ridicule, persecute, and expression the intention to persecute, prosecute, and jail those engaged in such loving and mutually affirmative partnerships, there should be no surprise that public expressions of such relationships are rare, or that under such tremendous negative social pressure, such relationships are often prone to difficulties, complications, abandonment, or failure. No doubt this situation has many similarities with struggles faced by same-sex relationships in times past. For all these reasons of which we are guilty – we might say – we have also (were their behave actually morally permissible) some moral obligation to give such individuals the benefit of the doubt.

Further, proponents of same-sex marriage are quick to remind us that popular opinion does not matter in the case of such a fundamental human right as that of two consenting adults in a loving and affirmative relationship to have their relationship recognized in marriage when they so desire.

It is clear then, that both part (1) and part (2) of moral principle (P1) are satisfied. That is to say, on the grounds of moral principle (P1) just as proponents of same-sex marriage argue we have a moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage, we similarly have a moral obligation to recognize with marriage at least those incestuous partnerships of best-case compositions, and arguable all incestuous partnerships between consenting adults.

However, as decent and right-thinking people know that we do not have a moral obligation to recognize incestuous partnerships with marriage. The public at large knows this too. Anyone who says otherwise, we know, is simply wrong. They have failed to properly ascertain the truth of the matter. They are abnormally defective in their epistemic and moral capacities (the same thing can be said in many ways).

Therefore, by proof by contradiction, we know that on the grounds of moral principle (P1) we do not in fact have a moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage, because if moral principle (P1) were not defective, then we would have a moral obligation to recognize incestuous partnerships with marriage, and we know that we have no such obligation.

Now, it may be that on some other grounds – not grounds (P1) – that we have a moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage, but no such alternative grounds has been presented, advanced, or popularized in the public sphere, and as such we may conclude, having proved that grounds (P1) is deficient, at least I suggest that we do not seem to have before us any pressing moral obligation to recognize same-sex partnerships with marriage.

And of course, anyone who chooses as they might think a potential refutation to suggest in the public arena that we have a moral obligation to recognize incestuous partnerships with marriage, we and the public know to be wrong and know to not be credible in moral matters.

if you didn't write this, at least so the author a service and include his or her name. i have read your posts, and this does not appear to share your writing style.
 
casualbb said:
All of those "theories" you mentioned are essentially movements in which said group demanded equal rights. If that's deconstruction, how is deconstruction bad?

If you believe that all they demanded was equal rights, then you have no knowledge of the philosophies of which I speak. To get into the idiocy that has been and currently is being promoted by such followers, many in college academia, would take too long.

In summary, deconstructionism promotes the irrational ideas of subjectivism and skepticism.

Also, you claim that in allowing gay marriage, we're changing the definition of marriage. Well as a result of the women's suffrage movement, the definition of the franchise was changed. Would you like to roll back women's suffrage because it's forbidden to change a definition?

I cannot make anyone believe what I believe, I cannot make anyone see what is blatantly obvious, so please believe that marriage has never really been accepted as union of man and woman, everyone knows that all words are merely whatever you wish them to be. When Big Bad Bush comes and tells you that "freedom" means "the power of government to do as it wishes", then be consistant and accept that words and ideas have no meaning, and that the government's idea of freedom is equivalent to yours. Who are you to state that words have meaning?
 
atlantabiolab said:
I cannot make anyone believe what I believe, I cannot make anyone see what is blatantly obvious, so please believe that marriage has never really been accepted as union of man and woman, everyone knows that all words are merely whatever you wish them to be. When Big Bad Bush comes and tells you that "freedom" means "the power of government to do as it wishes", then be consistant and accept that words and ideas have no meaning, and that the government's idea of freedom is equivalent to yours. Who are you to state that words have meaning?

Huh? You didn't answer my question.
 
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