It depends on the women, if we both are in tune with each other emotional and physical. Then I will think about having sex with her at least 5 to 6 times a day and be so excited to see here...then that would be at least every day or make up for it on the weekends so it averages about 9 times a week. But if I reach a point were emotional or something physical about her gets me turned off. Then 2 or three times and I don't what her touching me anymore....being hot will not do it for me (the first couple times yes) she has to know how to treat a man.