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I don't have ANY problems that sex could rectify.
How many problems would a perfect sex life solve?
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ricco561
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If I had the woman in your avatar, I'd be living on love.Anyone here who is married or in a loving committed relationship (read: you bone the same person all the time) how much does sex have to do with the other problems in your relationship?
My husband thinks that with the right frequecy and quality of super hot sex almost all of your other problems in life are really diminished.
Anyone know about this?
When our sex is really great we aren't at each other's throat (in a bad way, lol) so I know he might be onto something.
All the rest is just details.
mrplunkey
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How can you have good sex if you're banging every day?I'm totally serious. IDK, I've just found that having sex too often (talking within the confines of a long term relationship, not newly dating/married) it loses quality. You may as well masturbate, less work (and I consider masturbation the Chinese food of sexual contact, it sort of mimics the real thing but inherently leaves you unsatisfied and empty).
Mix it up!
Variation is the key regardless. While men are innately programmed to "spread our seed" (hence all the jokes about "old pussy" and "new pussy"), mixing things up confuses our old brains so we don't realize its with the same mate.
Meaning do it in different rooms, different positions and roleplay?
We do the different rooms and different positions already. I fucking refuse to roleplay/play dress up, that shit is just fucking stupid.
Besides, husband isn't interested in fucking every day, either. Our sex life keeps us quite happy, it's the other shit in the world that gets us down.
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Different rooms
Different positions (duh!)
Different combinations of oral/vaginal (but I don't PIITB)
Different build-ups (i.e. shower together, slowly build vs. jump each other)
And then there is always the "ninja" option. Its an open-ended deal that says if either one of us wakes up frisky in the middle of the night, we can "steal" sex with no refusal and no questions asked.
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who wants to have the same tired sex all the time?
When there are several young kids in the house and the wife is overwhelmed with taking care of the kids, the house and her man (non-sexually) in a woman's list of priorities sex is waaaaaaaaaaaaay down there. This is where the man has to get creative and has to find ways to court his wife non-sexually during the day. It could be something as simple as leaving a little sticky where only she will find it with a short message about how he loves what a great job she is doing with the kids and him and the house, how lucky he is to have her. Dollars to donuts that wife will be ready willing AND ABLE to show her appreciation for HIM going out of his way to tell her that he appreciates her. He can tell her (sincerely) while she is all frazzled trying to get the kids off to school and she looks a mess, He can stop EVERYTHING and look at her and say sincerely, "You are SUCH a great mother to my children. My god but you are stunning! You glow when you show our children your love."
you know... simple sincere shit like that that doesn't cost a penny...
And the wife can try the whole non-sexual cue to let her man know she would like it if she initiated sex.
Good sex does not have to be all about merry-widows and 9" platformed red leather lace-up thigh high stilettos and bullwhips .... does it?
When there are several young kids in the house and the wife is overwhelmed with taking care of the kids, the house and her man (non-sexually) in a woman's list of priorities sex is waaaaaaaaaaaaay down there. This is where the man has to get creative and has to find ways to court his wife non-sexually during the day. It could be something as simple as leaving a little sticky where only she will find it with a short message about how he loves what a great job she is doing with the kids and him and the house, how lucky he is to have her. Dollars to donuts that wife will be ready willing AND ABLE to show her appreciation for HIM going out of his way to tell her that he appreciates her. He can tell her (sincerely) while she is all frazzled trying to get the kids off to school and she looks a mess, He can stop EVERYTHING and look at her and say sincerely, "You are SUCH a great mother to my children. My god but you are stunning! You glow when you show our children your love."
you know... simple sincere shit like that that doesn't cost a penny...
And the wife can try the whole non-sexual cue to let her man know she would like it if she initiated sex.
Good sex does not have to be all about merry-widows and 9" platformed red leather lace-up thigh high stilettos and bullwhips .... does it?
seaking420
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lmao with the chinese food analogy.....lolol
I agree with the frequency, everyday would be very difficult to maintain very good and intense sex. I would say everyother day or 3-4x's a week....plus most of those times when you have sex you should be buzzed....sex is much better when your stoned or a little buzzed off of some alcohol.
What's wrong with butt? Granted, I don't consider it a staple on the menu but as an occasional specialty ...
Anyway, I do all that stuff (usually several in one session) I can't imagine NOT doing any of that stuff ...
Jeez, either I have a really healthy sex life, or some people have some really sorry ones ...
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How can you have good sex if you're banging every day?
Too much of anything is not a good thing.
I'm getting sick of Chinese but I bet I have it again tonight.
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