How many problems would a perfect sex life solve?

[EnderJE]

actually i think it tends to be the other way around.
When other problems are minimal and/or resolved, it usually results in a very active and healthy sex life.
And likewise, when there are relationship problems, the sex decreases

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[MichaelScott]

lots of sex threads from curvy today, i like it

 

[curvymommy]

lots of sex threads from curvy today, i like it

Yeah, I never even hardly ever visit this forum but it's very nice to see that there are caring people here who are so helpful.

Not that I doubted this but it is a mildly embarrasing problem but I knew if I created an alter to ask the questions everyone would know it was me anyway, lol

How are you Michael Scott?

 

[MichaelScott]

I am well, and you my lady?

 

[captainahole]

Anyone here who is married or in a loving committed relationship (read: you bone the same person all the time ) how much does sex have to do with the other problems in your relationship?

My husband thinks that with the right frequecy and quality of super hot sex almost all of your other problems in life are really diminished.

Anyone know about this?

When our sex is really great we aren't at each other's throat (in a bad way, lol) so I know he might be onto something.

I find it's a huge difference with frequency of sex in our relationship. If sex get's ignore tension seems to be higher(my focus seems to drift in that direction and it becomes a major issue)
. Also with sex more often problems in the relationship are easier to handle, I find you are more apted to talk to each 0other about issues.

 

[EarthRider]

I think I'm gonna try an experiment where we DTD (that's do the deed to you noobs who don't know how dorky moms talk) everyday for a week and see if it solves any problems.

There was a Pastor who gave his church a month challenge, to have sex every day for a month. My wife and I tried it, but only made it like 4-5 days. I love sex, but every day for a month would be tough. If I didn't have to work, and just laid around the house every day I think it could happen.

 

[miplank]

There was a Pastor who gave his church a month challenge, to have sex every day for a month. My wife and I tried it, but only made it like 4-5 days. I love sex, but every day for a month would be tough. If I didn't have to work, and just laid around the house every day I think it could happen.

I wish my pastor would give a sermon like that....

 

[curvymommy]

There was a Pastor who gave his church a month challenge, to have sex every day for a month. My wife and I tried it, but only made it like 4-5 days. I love sex, but every day for a month would be tough. If I didn't have to work, and just laid around the house every day I think it could happen.

LOL! That is awesome! Too funny. God gave us sex so I'm so glad he wants us to DTD a lot.

Hehehe!! Look at me bringing religion into the sex forum. Marriage is awesome (that's right SuperDave, real fun!)

 

[mrplunkey]

There was a Pastor who gave his church a month challenge, to have sex every day for a month. My wife and I tried it, but only made it like 4-5 days. I love sex, but every day for a month would be tough. If I didn't have to work, and just laid around the house every day I think it could happen.

A good friend of mine is a Christian counselor. When get gets a couple that's fundamentally sound (no drug problems, no marital infidelity, etc. etc.), he just tells them to have sex every day. Many times, that alone fixes it. It's reaaaaaally hard for little things to annoy you when you've just had great sex.

 

[musclemom]

A good friend of mine is a Christian counselor. When get gets a couple that's fundamentally sound (no drug problems, no marital infidelity, etc. etc.), he just tells them to have sex every day. Many times, that alone fixes it. It's reaaaaaally hard for little things to annoy you when you've just had great sex.

How can you have good sex if you're banging every day? I'm totally serious. IDK, I've just found that having sex too often (talking within the confines of a long term relationship, not newly dating/married) it loses quality. You may as well masturbate, less work (and I consider masturbation the Chinese food of sexual contact, it sort of mimics the real thing but inherently leaves you unsatisfied and empty).