How many problems would a perfect sex life solve?

[curvymommy]

Anyone here who is married or in a loving committed relationship (read: you bone the same person all the time ) how much does sex have to do with the other problems in your relationship?

My husband thinks that with the right frequecy and quality of super hot sex almost all of your other problems in life are really diminished.

Anyone know about this?

When our sex is really great we aren't at each other's throat (in a bad way, lol) so I know he might be onto something.

 

[miplank]

I agree with your husband. Woman may feel differently though.

 

[curvymommy]

I think I'm gonna try an experiment where we DTD (that's do the deed to you noobs who don't know how dorky moms talk) everyday for a week and see if it solves any problems.

 

[miplank]

I think I'm gonna try an experiment where we DTD (that's do the deed to you noobs who don't know how dorky moms talk) everyday for a week and see if it solves any problems.

I don't think everyday would be necessary. While I myself wouldn't mind that. I think 3-4 is a pretty good number.

I think the quality of the sex is most important. Every guy wants a freak in the sheets, keeping it fresh and spicey. The same old shit 7 days a week every week would get old

 

[curvymommy]

I don't think everyday would be necessary. While I myself wouldn't mind that. I think 3-4 is a pretty good number.

I think the quality of the sex is most important. Every guy wants a freak in the sheets, keeping it fresh and spicey. The same old shit 7 days a week every week would get old

DH, is that you babe? LOL!

 

[miplank]

DH, is that you babe? LOL!

haha! great minds think a like.

 

[digimon7068]

I think I'm gonna try an experiment where we DTD (that's do the deed to you noobs who don't know how dorky moms talk) everyday for a week and see if it solves any problems.

he's right. . .but at 44 yoa (almost). . .everyday for a week might cause a whole new set of problems by about day 5 or 6. . .of course, i s'pose that's what the cialis in my briefcase is for. . .beats the hell out of popsicle sticks and duct tape

 

[swole]

Good sex makes a girl forgive my other flaws, like not putting the seat down. I notice they get more attached if the physical/emotional connection is strong while DTD (lol). For example after spending a good 30 minutes with my face in their peach, I'll come up for a nice long kiss...making sure I let them taste it on my lips. lol I've yet to meet a girl who doesn't like that.

While mind-blowing sex isn't the only key to a successful relationship, it naturally makes every day spent with your partner more enjoyable...even while it's purely innocent like going out to eat or watching a movie. I think it's because good sex means you have a good connection to begin with. It's pretty damn powerful and if you can actually get that on every dirty occasion, you hit the fuggin jackpot.

 

[musclemom]

Anyone here who is married or in a loving committed relationship (read: you bone the same person all the time ) how much does sex have to do with the other problems in your relationship?

My husband thinks that with the right frequecy and quality of super hot sex almost all of your other problems in life are really diminished.

Anyone know about this?

When our sex is really great we aren't at each other's throat (in a bad way, lol) so I know he might be onto something.

Well, my question would be, is it the sex is great and you aren't at each other's throats or are you not at each other's throats and having great sex as a result of feeling more overall positive towards each other? Which one triggers the other?

My husband and I set out an agreement from day one that we moved in together: 1) No Arguing about Sex; 2) No Arguing about Money; 3) No Going to Sleep Angry.

Consequently, since living together we have had less than 5 really severe disagreements (we have NEVER really screamed at each other) and most of those took place in the first year. We both dislike upsetting each other so much for various reasons that fighting is kind of repellent.

I will admit our sex life is impacted by the world around us, stress from work, life in general, health, etc., but how often is not a good barometer for the overall happiness of our relationship.

But then we're old so

 

[Smurfy]

Anyone here who is married or in a loving committed relationship (read: you bone the same person all the time ) how much does sex have to do with the other problems in your relationship?

My husband thinks that with the right frequecy and quality of super hot sex almost all of your other problems in life are really diminished.

Anyone know about this?

When our sex is really great we aren't at each other's throat (in a bad way, lol) so I know he might be onto something.

actually i think it tends to be the other way around.
when other problems are minimal and/or resolved, it usually results in a very active and healthy sex life.
and likewise, when there are relationship problems, the sex decreases