I usually fall asleep while she's putting the kids to bed then wake up when she comes in to brush her teeth. I pretend that I'm still asleep in the hopes of getting a wake-up BJ.
When I was married, it was almost every night unless i had a ton of cleaning... I do all my cleaning once the little ones are asleep.. but I'd wake him when I did go to bed
I get a pillow and blanket thrown at me while sitting on the couch as he walks around turning off the lights, told not to touch the thermostat, have his shake ready & cold & his supplements in size order on a saucer before he wakes up, and then he heads to the bedroom and locks the door.