I'm over thinking this shit, no clue if I should do it, during dinner, after dinner, on the walk to my car. Apparently as per the interwebs restaurant/dinner is a poor choice, because the other person can get upset over sitting through dinner while you KNEW you were gonna dump them.... seems like bars is where it's at, you order a beer, take a few sips while you pull the plug, throw a $10 in the table and walk out.... damn it, I should have chosen a bar....