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How can i get my girl to be ok with me going to the gym?
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kx250rider
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This screams of a controlling woman. Be careful, Bro! It won't stop with your training... It will worm it's way into other parts of your life, until you no longer own your own life. Been there/done that. At age 44, I smell those things miles away; even over the internet.
Charles
Charles
Damn right on that one.. at 50 divorced and remarried i can state that as a fact.. now after 12 yrs when she starts to complain about something i always say "I was like that when we met and you married me right?? why would i change now?"
women are taught by many a mother that they can change a man, that if they are good enough, or loved enough the man will change and do whatever the woman wants.. if she's "important enough" .. (sorry ladies) point being you need to treat her as she is important, but you have to be you too..
the secret to a great relationship if you both try to outgive the other one.. give more than she can give you and she gives more than you can give her..
that's the secret to a great relationship..
Ditto I'm only 25 and had a child with her she didn't wanna let me have guys night out cuz she said I already spent enough time with my boys in the gym lmfao
Sounds like she's either insecure with herself and jealous you are so committed to something, or looking to control you. I'd keep training and eating all your meals, but stop talking about it around her and see if that helps. The other point I can make is she's very young yet. Women are crazy until at least 25. I wouldn't take it too seriously.
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EarthRider
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GUys he is working out 6 days a week in the evening. If I were single and met a girl of every night she wanted to do something stupid that I wasn't into, we wouldn't keep dating. I would want to hang with her, and do things together. If she was into working out and you guys did it together I could see that working. Most couples I know of work out early in the morning, that way in the evening they are free. SO get your lazy ass out of bed in the morning and stop complaining, haha, wait til you have kids.
Try taking her to the gym and letting her work out with you. If she works out with you 2-3 days a week then that counts as couple time and you get to work out. Then you can have a couple of days where you work out by yourself or with the guys. I started working out with my husband over 10 years ago and fell in love with it. I ditched the aerobics and started lifting weights. Some of our best quality time is when we are in the gym together.
Rebecca D
Rebecca D
