help with my girl sitation

[B0ARDIN087]

i broke upw tih my girlfriend yesterday. and was planning on being with this girl i work with. well this girl has a bf of a year and a half. she is going to break up with her bf so we can be together till i go away. well......... this girl begged me the other night to kiss her, but i couldn't cheat on my gf. and today i am "single" and she has told her bf several times she wants a break. but he doesn't seem to be listening. but me and the girl went out tonight and we hooked up. so i dont know if that counts a cheating and everything but we were both raelly really happy after we did hook up. i mean i can only speak from waht she told me about how she was feeling but i was really happy.

anyway here comes the problem. her bf isnt going away. she tells him they are broken up and he really doens't listen..... hes taking her to work tomorrow and its really messed up. i know this girl doesn't want to be with her bf, but how am i supposed to help her get rid of him when she doens't want to be too mean to him......

 

[Mammoth2500]

Theres no way you can help and theres no way of dumping someone easily. Shes gotta be straight to the point and blunt about it if he hasn't gotten the picture this far.
Well i guess there is a way for you to help and thats by telling her this info

 

[B0ARDIN087]

ya im a tell her that but she keeps waivering back and forth. like i know she wnot ditch me but she is waivering back and forth about how seriously she is taking breaking up with him.

 

[UA_Iron]

she needs to cut off all contact with this guy. He'll get the hint.

 

[Mammoth2500]

give her the bang of her life then tell her soon after that its gotta be either him or you cause you feel as though it is wrong what your doing and can not keep going on like that..
Hopefully shes gonna want more of you cause you gave her the screw of her lifetime... I would also try and minimize contact with her so she can tell that she does miss you and get herself figured out.

 

[H_T_]

you guys were being idealistic and not considering the concept of other people. if she could do that to the guy she was with, she'll do it to you. maybe you don't care. lol@ being with chicks you work with. you must not like that job.

 

[Sub-Zero]

i broke upw tih my girlfriend yesterday. and was planning on being with this girl i work with. well this girl has a bf of a year and a half. she is going to break up with her bf so we can be together till i go away. well......... this girl begged me the other night to kiss her, but i couldn't cheat on my gf. and today i am "single" and she has told her bf several times she wants a break. but he doesn't seem to be listening. but me and the girl went out tonight and we hooked up. so i dont know if that counts a cheating and everything but we were both raelly really happy after we did hook up. i mean i can only speak from waht she told me about how she was feeling but i was really happy.

anyway here comes the problem. her bf isnt going away. she tells him they are broken up and he really doens't listen..... hes taking her to work tomorrow and its really messed up. i know this girl doesn't want to be with her bf, but how am i supposed to help her get rid of him when she doens't want to be too mean to him......

if she 100% doesnt want to be with him, she wont be. she doesnt have to go to work with him, and lol@ you fro believing that.

just because signfeld addresses alot of things that happen in life, it doesnt mean how it unfolds is always true.

it doesnt take 2 people to end a relationship.

fuck her in her holes (cause thats all shes good for), and then leave for college with ur head held high.

 

[UA_Iron]

you guys were being idealistic and not considering the concept of other people. if she could do that to the guy she was with, she'll do it to you. maybe you don't care. lol@ being with chicks you work with. you must not like that job.

"she is going to break up with her bf so we can be together till i go away."

its a short lived thing

 

[GoldenDelicious]

yuk

your relationships are both doomed, your first because you dumped her for someone else (plus its likely that she is as young as you are) which is a betrayal, so that one has unravelled, and your new ...'thing'...is also headed that way because 1.5 years is a LOT of baggage, plus she is wavering between you and her ex, plus you have a boyfriend who is stuck in a rut with this girl and things are primed to explode when he finds out that she hooked up with you (i get the impression he doesnt know), plus youre leaving to college putting a time limit on things in any event....

sooooo imo you dont need help with this. you need to realise that the best case scenario for you is to enjoy what little time you have with this girl in a one dimensional way without it blowing up in your face, with an angry (violent?) boyfriend, an awkward workplace, and a lost friend in your ex...though the last one is probably a given anyway.

personally ill bet a thousand karma that you lose both of them from your life, for the sake of a bit of sex...though you might be happy with that deal.

whatever you do, be considerate of your exes feelings

cheerios

 

[Sub-Zero]

personally ill bet a thousand karma that you lose both of them from your life, for the sake of a bit of sex...though you might be happy with that deal.

whatever you do, be considerate of your exes feelings

cheerios

hes going to college at the end of the summer. hes young...i dont think marraige is what hes looking for.

fuck her brains out bro, and walka way like nothing happened