Help Ulcaster get laid thread.

[Burning_Inside]

i think ulcaster has a slight "i hate people cause they're all stupid and therefore i'm slightly better than the average joe" kind of complex. On top of this he has a huge fear of rejection. If ulcaster sees himself as better than the average joe, than why should any woman reject him? Well what if they do? Ego goes crazy. Depression sets in. Or maybe it's not a fear but a hate, a hate for a person who would reject someone who is purportedly better then they are but they won't take the time to see...Stupid people.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

i think ulcaster has a slight "i hate people cause they're all stupid and therefore i'm slightly better than the average joe" kind of complex.

That's Robert Jan, 7 threads over (J/K RJ)
All seriousness, I'm a very low person with no contempt for anyone but myself. I'm no better then anyone. I'm on the plankton rung of the human, social/sexual food chain.

On top of this he has a huge fear of rejection. If ulcaster sees himself as better than the average joe, than why should any woman reject him? Well what if they do? Ego goes crazy. Depression sets in. Or maybe it's not a fear but a hate, a hate for a person who would reject someone who is purportedly better then they are but they won't take the time to see...Stupid people.

Fear of rejection is in chapter 8. I'm still in the prologue. I'm not capable of any relationship, let alone, one with a female of a romantic capacity.

 

[jerseyart]

Bro,

I have to admit, when I firts wrote this I thought you were kidding, or at minimum exxagerating incredibly. It wasn't intended to embarass you, nor do I think there is any reason you should feel embarassed. We all have our issues.

Even now I'm uncertain. You have me, then write something like "lumerjacking accident", and I think he has got to be kidding. I mean, what are the chances?

What I am certain of is that you are an intelligent and witty young man. That much is evident in your posts, and couldn't be faked. If all of the rest of what you say is true Ulcaster, then don't let it continue one bro. We can't always control the problems life hand us, just how we react and deal with them.

What is troubling you sounds like it requires more help than anyone here can reasonably offer. You need professional advice and help. There is no shame in that. The only shame would be in allowing yourself to continue suffering without at least attempting to turn things around.

In your mind somehow you've convinced yourself that people are far less accessible and desirous of meeting other people than is the case. You have turned an obstacle whihc should be a foot high to step over into the great wall by perceiving things out of proportion to what they really are. I hope things work out for you bro, and I hope you don't change your screen name. I have always enjoyed your posts and your contributions to the site.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

lol Jerseyart so Ulcaster is your alter

nice angle mate, but i reckon posting it in bts would have worked anyway

 

[tuc biscuit]

Iv'e not read the thread a whole lot, but are you actively trying to get laid ulcaster?

If so just got to a meat market bar a few times and it will happen.

If not, good for you, lots of sexual partners and one night stands just devalue sex and make it meaningless when you actually come to have it with someone you care for.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I have to admit, when I firts wrote this I thought you were kidding, or at minimum exxagerating incredibly. It wasn't intended to embarass you, nor do I think there is any reason you should feel embarassed. We all have our issues.

I've been 100% honest from the get go with this....

Even now I'm uncertain. You have me, then write something like "lumerjacking accident", and I think he has got to be kidding. I mean, what are the chances?

I don't know what to call it, my buddy Joel worked for a tree service, tree un-rooted, he got ripped in half.

What I am certain of is that you are an intelligent and witty young man. That much is evident in your posts, and couldn't be faked. If all of the rest of what you say is true Ulcaster, then don't let it continue one bro. We can't always control the problems life hand us, just how we react and deal with them.

Wise words, but wasted...

What is troubling you sounds like it requires more help than anyone here can reasonably offer.

I made that clear in my second post in this thread. Told you I was FUBAR.

You need professional advice and help

This has been the case for some time, I can't deny this ....

There is no shame in that.

There would be much shame for me. Got to remember Jersey, where I come from, men are judged differently, and from observation, you judge yourself the same by proxy.

The only shame would be in allowing yourself to continue suffering without at least attempting to turn things around.

I'm a waste of carbon, nothing to add there...Anyways, I'm not suffering to bad. Just around Christmas is a little kick in the teeth. If I make it, I do, if I don't, I don't. I have systems in place.

In your mind somehow you've convinced yourself that people are far less accessible and desirous of meeting other people than is the case.

I haven't convinced myself of much. My personality idiosyncrasies fell into place the way they did, like anybody's, throughout my life time-line. It's a complicated algorithm, how people form. Someone will become a painter, a socialite, or a serial killer. People form as a person. I formed badly and removed. I'm not the only one like this. You remember my post in the +18 virgins thread? I have lots of aunts and uncles like this. We/I are not very human. Cold people, where only 1 in 4 reproduces. I'm an evolutionary dead-end...

You have turned an obstacle which should be a foot high to step over into the great wall by perceiving things out of proportion to what they really are.

Somewhat. Again Jersey, growing up in the middle of nowhere, people form social bonds conducive to their environment. My family was not friendly with anyone, including each other. I come from the same tree. In a city, where there's 8 million people, your prolly gonna be more social then a fella from a neighborhood of 7 people.

I hope things work out for you bro,

I think you'll forget this thread fairly quckly, atleast not long after the thrill and entertainment value has diminished
and It's still echoing in my mother fucking head! I should have shut you down, but I played along.....So be it.

and I hope you don't change your screen name. I have always enjoyed your posts and your contributions to the site.

Ok and thanks....
I'm dead tired and haven't had my coffee yet. I hope this made since. I'll edit or whatever when I get home...

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

So Jersey, is that it?

This shoulda been left on the dex.....

 

[tiger88]

jersey bro post up some bitches u have drained for us to talk about

 

[jerseyart]

Ulcaster,

As you know I PMed you this morning, as well as Raina, to have the thread deleted. It was decided that it would be your choice whether or not to do so.

The thread, as I wrote her, and in my PM, was not intended to be cruel. As I explained to you several times, a good deal of what you write comes across as joking, and not seriously something that is happening in your life. Your constant dead pan references to yourself looking like Shreck adds to this perception.

When you explained it was not a sarcastic or joking matter, I immediately apologized and asked for the thread to be removes so as not to upset you further. Why do you wish to continue this discussion on this thread, since you are the one who has stated it is bothering you. If you want to take some swings at me go ahead. No doubt I have them coming. I just hope you recognize that I would have never have started this thread had I known these were actual issues you were dealing with.

 

[jerseyart]

Tiger88

Ask your girl yourself for a picture of her. Why go through me?