Help Ulcaster get laid thread.

[biteme]

Ulcaster is the man.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

As you know I PMed you this morning, as well as Raina, to have the thread deleted. It was decided that it would be your choice whether or not to do so.

Yeah, I had to go...I see Raina put it back on the index. Prolly got tossed into the recycling bin. Then she put it back. If it was my choice, why'd you make the PM? I didn't go running to the mods. This thread hurts a little, but I've spent to much time in it to let it get shit-canned.
I don't how long I'll stay on this board, but when I go, I'll bring this thread with me, so I rather see it decay naturally.

The thread, as I wrote her, and in my PM, was not intended to be cruel. As I explained to you several times, a good deal of what you write comes across as joking, and not seriously something that is happening in your life. Your constant dead pan references to yourself looking like Shreck adds to this perception.

Nah, you seem like a nice guy Jersey....Who knows what'll fall out when you turn someone's marble jar upside down.
I know I come off as joking. Few exist like me that aren't behind a metal door, and my statements would seem hyperbolic.

When you explained it was not a sarcastic or joking matter, I immediately apologized and asked for the thread to be removes so as not to upset you further.

Too late . It's difficult to face some many things I've swept under the rug, and see them pulled out again in one instance, but I'll get over it...

Why do you wish to continue this discussion on this thread, since you are the one who has stated it is bothering you.

As I stated above, I didn't want this tread deleted at this juncture. I did want it deleted in the begining, but it's almost over now, so I want to let it slide...

If you want to take some swings at me go ahead. No doubt I have them coming.

Not much I can do from a computer screen. This being done in this way, it's best.
Well, it sucks cause I can't change the subject and threaten to kick your ass. I just have to take it.

I just hope you recognize that I would have never have started this thread had I known these were actual issues you were dealing with.

You don't know the half of it...
I can handle this, it is a anonymous chat board. If I appear angry towards you, it's just
that I've never discussed these matters with anyone, and I have a strong, knee-jerk response to
personal questions. It's not you being a jerk as just muchas me being a weirdo..

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Iv'e not read the thread a whole lot, but are you actively trying to get laid ulcaster?

No Tuc, I've never tried.


EDIT out jogging...

 

[awittyusername]

Bro, you are alot better w/human interaction than you think. Most people would not be able to discuss this inteligently and understand that no one is attacking you. Even though, this is just the internet it would still be nearly impossible for most to handle this as well as you have.

I know this sucks to have everyone know personal shit about you. But, try to use this as a step to possible get some therepy.

And, don't think therepy is for week losers. Because, it is not. In fact, one of the most charming, charismatic, and smartest people I know went to a counselor. (me)

 

[jerseyart]

Ulcaster,

There is no reason for you to leave. If anything the only negative perceptions drawn from this thread will be directed at me, and rightfully so. I dito what awitty wrote.

Half+ of the people on this board are full of shit. Try to arrange to get ten people from one area around for a get together and see how many would show. The rest have their own problems, been there done that, and understand more than you imagine. A few have even shared with you similar experiences of their own.

If anything this is the best place for you. If ever there was a group of self obsessed, neurotics , with over compensation issues....... You're one of the most normal bors here.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Ulcaster,

There is no reason for you to leave. If anything the only negative perceptions drawn from this thread will be directed at me, and rightfully so. I dito what awitty wrote.

Half+ of the people on this board are full of shit. Try to arrange to get ten people from one area around for a get together and see how many would show. The rest have their own problems, been there done that, and understand more than you imagine. A few have even shared with you similar experiences of their own.

If anything this is the best place for you. If ever there was a group of self obsessed, neurotics , with over compensation issues....... You're one of the most normal bors here.

Yup. Everyone has skeletons in their closet. I do, and i'm still not willing to talk about mine on EF with people. But at least online there is that aura of invincibility that comes from anonimity, and this aura can make it easier to address whats bothering you. Most people aren't nearly as superficial or shallow as they're made out to be once you get past the surface.