Help! My Girlfriends Has Given Me An STD!

[fsupat70]

if you make her feel guilty enough about it im sure you can get some anal sex out of this mess

 

[Deleted member 33117]

SoKlueles, actually I think he is every woman's dream. I'm going to start acting more like him... I think it would help me get laid more often.

 

[SoKlueles]

I think i love FSUPAT hes my kind of dream boat

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

she is no doubt feeling guilty, take it easy and do not "shame" her. Shame is bad, and can hurt how good she feels when she is with you.

 

[gingersnap]

she is no doubt feeling guilty, take it easy and do not "shame" her. Shame is bad, and can hurt how good she feels when she is with you.

Yeah, shame=low self esteem=shitty sex

 

[RugbyNut]

Thanks for the replies bros, it's a tough one ain't it?

I'm not really that pissed about her givin me the clap, but the fact she did a one-nighter with some other dude.

It happened like this, we meet, do the normal things: movie, drinks, night in video etc then one night after my 21st b'day (when I was shitfaced drunk) she starts getting heavy "where is this going?" "what do I mean to you?"......I thought she was getting too serious too soon (this is like a month into it) so I told her I really liked her but I didn't want to get so serious.

Anyways, she takes this as a blow-off, like a week later I lose my mobile phone and all the numbers on it, so I have no way of contacting her. She doesn't hear from me and assumes things are over, goes out, fucks dude etc.

Then I see her in a club and explain what happened with my phone and that I didn't blow her off, just scared of committing etc after that things are more or less fine.

Sorry for goin on bros......I don't wanna turn this into an agony aunt page etc but she swore me to secrecy so you are the only people I can discuss it with.

I don't wanna lose her but I still don't know what to do.

Thanks, RugbyNut

 

[Mandinka2]

Thanks for the replies bros, it's a tough one ain't it?

I'm not really that pissed about her givin me the clap, but the fact she did a one-nighter with some other dude.



Anyways, she takes this as a blow-off, like a week later I lose my mobile phone and all the numbers on it, so I have no way of contacting her. She doesn't hear from me and assumes things are over, goes out, fucks dude etc.


I don't wanna lose her but I still don't know what to do.

Thanks, RugbyNut

She sounds like a real sweet heart , you're 21 , if this is the kinda chic u want around , get ready for a life of misery. What's gonna happen when u guys argue and ur not speakin for a little while? Do urself a favour Bub (and btw I notice the ladies here given the opposite kind of advice they give to their female friends in a similar situation).

 

[Mandinka2]

I agree with the last post. it could have happend the other way around and you could have given it to her. So it really doesn't make her a"slut". I think we can all learn something from this tread!!

Huh? Then HE'd be the slut , I can just picture the women of this board sayin "Oh yeh ,she didnt call for a week so it's ok that u went and screwed some other chic , met up with ur regular thing , boned her and now she's infected , don't feel bad about it , you're really not a bad guy"
Oh yeh , I nearly forgot the best bit "She should understand!"
WTF!!!???
Women - so fair and so impartial.

 

[RugbyNut]

Huh I see your point Mandinka......

It was a bit different though, it was more like a month that we didn't speak for, but I don't like the fact that she could just go out and fuck another guy, even when we weren't together.

I haven't slept with anyone since I started seeing her and I KNOW that I didn't give her chlamydia.

She's not like you made out though Mandinka, if she was I would've binned her long ago.

RugbyNut

 

[Mandinka2]

Huh I see your point Mandinka......

It was a bit different though, it was more like a month that we didn't speak for, but I don't like the fact that she could just go out and fuck another guy, even when we weren't together.

I haven't slept with anyone since I started seeing her and I KNOW that I didn't give her chlamydia.

She's not like you made out though Mandinka, if she was I would've binned her long ago.

RugbyNut

Bro , now listen to me carefully cos I played the game too (I'm talkin about rugby) and know the score...
This chic's morals suck ,ok a month is a lot different I agree but one night stands are a certain sign of nutso chics. STDs do not come outta nowhere which says sth about the quality of guys she's been with. Now here is what you should ask yourself: when all the tears on her face are dry , this chic has given you an infection that she says she got during a "one night stand" , now given all of that , and given the fact that you are not in an objective way to be making rational decisions think about why she FORBADE you to speak to people around you about this. Now if she's so fucking pure as the driven snow and only made one mistake then why is she concerned with secrecy?

You're a very young guy and believe me I had the wool pulled WAY down over my ears by a few chics in my time , and mostly cos I was emotionally involved. I'm lucky , I never caught anything but I have always avoided chics who I thought were likely to put me in that position. I'm sorry to tell you Bro but I can almost guarentee you this will end in tears , and they wont be yours. Believe me I only have your interests at heart and love women , but confine that to only those women that love men. This is about making a difficult emotional choice for yourself and getting through some pain , now I could be a bastard and tell you what a lot of chics (especially in your part of the world) tell their gfs in similar situations: Find another guy on the side - bone him , then get out. But I dont advise that - that is for scum. Good luck pal whatever you decide , its a very tough world out there - PM me anytime.