Oak, y'all seem to need to have a serious conversation because it sounds like she's not so nuts about things, either, seriously. I know you're a giver god and all, but if she's going, "well, it was alright," that's not a glowing report card honey.
If you can't TALK about sex then you don't need to be HAVING sex, that's like the oldest rule in the book. But the thing is, you don't talk about sex IN the bedroom, EVER. I'll tell ya the best place, IMO, to have a frank conversation about sex. Long car ride. Kind of a neutral location, captive audience, assurance of no interruptions and complete privacy.
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