HELP! my gf is not sexy :(

[dutchman063]

Sounds like the two of you are not sexually compatible.

Can she cook?

It wouldnt matter if she could cook..what good is a nice steak dinner if you cant have hot rough monkey sex afterwards

 

[GG1234]

the first guy I had sex with, we dated for 3 years. It was probably the most boring sex ever. She's had no experience other than you, so she's going to be shy in bed. It took me a few years and a few partners to actually figure out what was going on, what I really liked, how I liked it, what guys liked, etc.

I NEVER even considered anal with my first. It was totally out of the question. doggy style seemed kinky at the time. lol She just has to be TOTALLY comfortable in bed to try anything new. Don't push it with her, take it slow, and talk to her about it. tell her it's something you REALLY want to try with her because it's just that more intimate, and you want that with her. Then tell her if she doesn't like it, then you won't bother her again about it.

Make it about her in bed, and you'll eventually get anything you want Make her feel special, that you love her, and that you don't just want a quick fuck out of her whenever you have the urge. The last thing she wants to feel, is cheap... you'll NEVER get anything else out of her if she does.

And when you do... invest in an economy size of lube, and make sure she's COMPLETELY comfortable, otherwise she'll tighten up, and it will hurt like a MOTHER FUCKER, and you may as well join the priesthood. haha

 

[mr. snakes]

sure she looks good, but in the sac she needs help...

shes bad with dirty talk, cant change positions gracefully, and is opposed to anal.

i can sneak a finger in once and a while, or a quick rim job, but no penis in the butt...

also she hate rough sex, this past weekend we did it for a long time, i was super drunk but nailing her at a consistant rate of HARDCORE... thje next morning she said it was 'ok'... im like wtf, other women would kill for that...

she said it was like jackrabbit sex, some kind of Sex in the City lingo...

please help, she needs a sexual make-over...

Either get a new chick or start screwing whores ..............................

 

[seizer]

Ask her if she'd like to start exploring other areas...

...like the ear canal.

It's pre-waxed, so that's a plus....

 

[Hard-Bitten]

sure she looks good, but in the sac she needs help...

shes bad with dirty talk, cant change positions gracefully, and is opposed to anal.

i can sneak a finger in once and a while, or a quick rim job, but no penis in the butt...

also she hate rough sex, this past weekend we did it for a long time, i was super drunk but nailing her at a consistant rate of HARDCORE... thje next morning she said it was 'ok'... im like wtf, other women would kill for that...

she said it was like jackrabbit sex, some kind of Sex in the City lingo...

please help, she needs a sexual make-over...

ROLE PLAY RAPIST

 

[Sassy69]

So I'm assuming she's sort of young? Seriously most girls either do everything under the sun because that's what they've come to "learn" that this is what "makes them popular w/ the guys", i.e. sluts who have sacrificed self-esteem to peer pressure, or are raised as "good girls' and even if they've seen stuff like anal & what not on the internet, probably consider it what hookers do.

And maybe the rough stuff is really uncomfortable for her. And maybe she's not comfortable w/ it. Or she may be responding relative to what is her ideal sex (the slow sensual stuff).

 

[heatherrae]

Well, I think that lots of women like the slow sensual stuff more. We sort of like to warm up slowly. For me, the grinding is much more stimulating than just being pumped really hard and fast. It's just hard to come that way. I think it would be just fine if sometimes you do it her way and sometimes she does it your way. This is what I try to do in my own relationship, because my guy likes it pretty rough, too.

 

[dicedgunz]

fuck her teeth out, that'll shut her up.....

 

[CrazyK]

All girl are like this if they're cold. You have to warm her up slowly, and then ramp it up to full bore as the sex goes on. You try some anal in the heat of it, not right when you come home "Hey honey can I put it in your ass tonight?"

 

[markshark]

Well, I think that lots of women like the slow sensual stuff more. We sort of like to warm up slowly. For me, the grinding is much more stimulating than just being pumped really hard and fast. It's just hard to come that way. I think it would be just fine if sometimes you do it her way and sometimes she does it your way. This is what I try to do in my own relationship, because my guy likes it pretty rough, too.

forgive me if i sound stupid, but id figure the best way to keep a female around is to do it how she likes it all the time. when they do what i like it makes me feel like they dont enjoy it and im annoying them. this is a serious statement here not bein an asshole.