HELP! my gf is not sexy :(

[Hard-Bitten]

forgive me if i sound stupid, but id figure the best way to keep a female around is to do it how she likes it all the time. when they do what i like it makes me feel like they dont enjoy it and im annoying them. this is a serious statement here not bein an asshole.

So, you rarely get to do what you like?

 

[markshark]

So, you rarely get to do what you like?

yea because i dont ask...i have some need to want to keep them around so i do whatever i can to try and please them but it usually never works in my favor too often...i dont know how guys can just take a girl, fuck her 80 different ways in one night while she rolls her eyes the entire time and acts bored, and then walk around actin like theyre the shit. id feel fucking embarassed. if i just do what they want i dont have to worry about embarassment or them not liking me.

 

[Hard-Bitten]

yea because i dont ask...i have some need to want to keep them around so i do whatever i can to try and please them but it usually never works in my favor too often...i dont know how guys can just take a girl, fuck her 80 different ways in one night while she rolls her eyes the entire time and acts bored, and then walk around actin like theyre the shit. id feel fucking embarassed. if i just do what they want i dont have to worry about embarassment or them not liking me.

You shouldn't ask.
You gotta have a smooth transition...
and sex is about what BOTH of you and your partners want.

I just hope the girls you fuck are ' adventures ' or some of the ' needs' you want. :/ because majority of the girls just wanna do the old fashion missionary or maybe Strap-On Sex Positions

 

[Sassy69]

I don't think it hurts to talk about what each of you likes either. If my guy is just so damn turned on that he just wants go at it hard & heavy, maybe there is a time for that. Hey I dunno, how about you go to some quality strip place, get mega turned on & horny and can barely make it in the door to close the deal? Hard & heavy on the stairs doesn't sound so bad all of a sudden (make sure your stairs are carpeted people!)

The thing about sex is that when you are both on the same page, it is fuckign fantastic. If you aren't sure the guy / girl likes what you are doing, then that feelign of "us" degradign to "you" & "me" sort of messes up the vibe. That's where communication helps fill in the gap.

 

[immortalis]

sounds like you need a new girlfriend

 

[heatherrae]

forgive me if i sound stupid, but id figure the best way to keep a female around is to do it how she likes it all the time. when they do what i like it makes me feel like they dont enjoy it and im annoying them. this is a serious statement here not bein an asshole.

Well, Mark, if your girl cares about you, she will enjoy doing the things that you like too. Just because it isn't the most stimulating position, etc for us does not mean we are annoyed or not having a good time. For example, going down on a guy is sexy because you know he is really loving it, not because it particularly feels good to us. Both people should get their needs met or what is the point?

 

[Wulfgar]

well just haul that lil pssy back to us while your givin us head and we can make it a very pleasurable experience for you.
I 71

 

[heatherrae]

lol...you really need to back away from the test...lol.

 

[Wulfgar]

jeez this is me off cycle and not having touched a weight/drug/cardio anything 4 3 weeks
scary

 

[musclemom]

Oak, y'all seem to need to have a serious conversation because it sounds like she's not so nuts about things, either, seriously. I know you're a giver god and all, but if she's going, "well, it was alright," that's not a glowing report card honey.

If you can't TALK about sex then you don't need to be HAVING sex, that's like the oldest rule in the book. But the thing is, you don't talk about sex IN the bedroom, EVER. I'll tell ya the best place, IMO, to have a frank conversation about sex. Long car ride. Kind of a neutral location, captive audience, assurance of no interruptions and complete privacy.