Just my two cents!! If your wife has mentioned that she is not receiving enough help she may be getting ticked with you. Working plus having children, including a new one, is alot to deal with. It becomes extra stressfull when a perfectly capable person chooses not to help. Frustrating!!!!!
Not to say this is you, but we are talking about your wifes perception of the situation, not the reality. This leads me to the low sex drive. Most women, unlike most men, cannot be sexual with someone they have outstanding issues with. If your wife is ticked with you the last thing on her mind is getting close, unless shes thinking of hitting!
I know how difficult this situation can get. But realize that if everything isn't good between you this could cause problems in bed.
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