He Sucks In Bed!!!

[Gymgurl]

Right..help him out...or try new things...rent some movies...do something but DON'T walk on his self-esteem..You will affect him forever....ever think...he might think that you suck in bed lol

 

[treilin]

why I refuse to date a man that is not a "pleaser" by nature. A selfish person makes for a HORRIBLE lover.

AMEN sista!!!

 

[velvett]

Now as to a man lacking skill in bed. This is one of the reasons why I do not date younger men... and another reason why I refuse to date a man that is not a "pleaser" by nature. A selfish person makes for a HORRIBLE lover.

OMG!

So true.

I briefly dated an older Jewish guy many years ago and while we never reached "the bed" or any such nookies - MY GOD - I never met anyone that took the time to make me happy and didn't come across like a "daddy" or "girly" in doing so.

I don't believe mommas raise boys like this anymore and I don't believe many husbands set as great of an example as they did a few generations ago.

I would not want to be in my teens or twenty's right now.

 

[treilin]

OMG!

So true.

I briefly dated an older Jewish guy many years ago and while we never reached "the bed" or any such nookies - MY GOD - I never met anyone that took the time to make me happy and didn't come across like a "daddy" or "girly" in doing so.

I don't believe mommas raise boys like this anymore and I don't believe many husbands set as great of an example as they did a few generations ago.

I would not want to be in my teens or twenty's right now.

Yeah welll I would say women are just as much to blame for the way some men are too. I mean the clothes they wear and the way they flaunt themselves no wonder they are treated like a whore half the time. I think sexy is showing enough but not revealing it all. It's a lot in how someone presents themself. It seems like everyone is out to take.. but noone is out to give. I refuse to settle with the takers... Men or women, relationship or no relationship.
I would rather give until taken for granted, then take and be left with guilt and emptiness.

 

[velvett]

Yeah welll I would say women are just as much to blame for the way some men are too. I mean the clothes they wear and the way they flaunt themselves no wonder they are treated like a whore half the time. I think sexy is showing enough but not revealing it all. It's a lot in how someone presents themself. It seems like everyone is out to take.. but noone is out to give. I refuse to settle with the takers... Men or women, relationship or no relationship.

Oh you're right and that's a whole other thread.
Don't even get me started - it's a big pet peeve of mine.

I would rather give until taken for granted, then take and be left with guilt and emptiness.

Very nice.
I may have to quote you ....

 

[treilin]

Oh you're right and that's a whole other thread.
Don't even get me started - it's a big pet peeve of mine.



Very nice.
I may have to quote you ....

Be my guest
Yeah another thread.. another movie, another book series is right...

 

[Bikini Mod]

OMG!

So true.

I briefly dated an older Jewish guy many years ago and while we never reached "the bed" or any such nookies - MY GOD - I never met anyone that took the time to make me happy and didn't come across like a "daddy" or "girly" in doing so.

I don't believe mommas raise boys like this anymore and I don't believe many husbands set as great of an example as they did a few generations ago.

I would not want to be in my teens or twenty's right now.

And you all wonder why I prefer to date older Jewish men nearly exclusively.

 

[treilin]

Damnit I passed up a older Jewish millionaire... We were even roomates and I used to help him spend his money, on himself of course... They are tight with their money, lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

Damnit I passed up a older Jewish millionaire... We were even roomates and I used to help him spend his money, on himself of course... They are tight with their money, lol

Not all men of means are cheap. They are like their less afluent counterparts in many regards. A few may be keepers, but most just plain aren't. ...and money has the least to do with their "keepability" or lack thereof.

 

[treilin]

Not all men of means are cheap. They are like their less afluent counterparts in many regards. A few may be keepers, but most just plain aren't. ...and money has the least to do with their "keepability" or lack thereof.

Totally true... If I was a gold digger I could be sitting at home and getting spa treatments all day long. Nicest guy in the world, and was a really good friend, till I dressed him up, decorated his house, picked him out a new vehicle to drive, and showed him some style, and some ho bag came by snatched him up and wouldn't let him talk to me any more , WOMEN!!!