He cheated with fairly good intention?

[blueta2]

This sounds so crazy, he cheated because he wanted to cheat, not because you were not there. Even if you would have been there that certain someone would have still caught his eye, and he would have still cheated...point blank. Sorry, to have to say it like that.Move on!!

Cheating is not as black and white as you seem to think it is!

Not all cheaters are pigs! Some are lonely!

 

[Hard-Bitten]

Not true! People can I do change! I am a good example. I cheated on my ex of 11yrs. Why? B/c he was NEVER around and neglected me. We are humans, we need food, shelter, love, water etc....so when you are lacking this, you go find it. I am not saying what I did was correct. It was wrong, stupid and immature, but I did it! I learned a hard lesson which I will never do again!
Now for taking him back. He may have changed, BUT you will never trust him again. Mistrust is the WORST torture on the planet. You will live in the "crazies" and always wonder where he is when you can't find him.
We do not know you or your boyfriend at all, so tough call, but even if you did take him back, even if he was very sorry and would never do it again, you will always have an element of mistrust!

Good luck

I agree.
That's was the reason why I don't blame him because i was not around and I neglected him totally.

Thank you!

 

[krissy]

Just take care of you and let go

 

[Hard-Bitten]

Cheating is not as black and white as you seem to think it is!

Not all cheaters are pigs! Some are lonely!

True, though cheaters as usually classified as ' pigs'

 

[Hard-Bitten]

Just take care of you and let go