Have you ever had sex that was more

[Gymgurl]

more on the emotional almost felt spirtual side......or is that just when you are totally in love with someone.....?

 

[gotmilk]

I used to have emotional 4 hour bang-a-thons because I was madly in love.

Now, I want to dismember her skull if I ever see her again.

 

[rnch]

when this happens, the experience is called "making love"...... not "having sex".

 

[Longhorn85]

more on the emotional almost felt spirtual side......

For me yes. Those times when you're pretty sure you made a baby. When you're married, horny, not using birth control, in love and trying to make a baby, it's awesome.

 

[Gymgurl]

Oh god say it is not so.....no baby for me....BUT I love the feeling..

 

[Longhorn85]

When did you feel this GG? Last night?

 

[Gymgurl]

heck no....it has been along time...that is why I am craving it I think. Just that totally out of body experience but a completely physical thing...I know I am not amking much sense LOL

 

[Longhorn85]

..I know I am not amking much sense

You make perfect sense. Another time, another place, another world, LH & GG, (sigh)

 

[Bikini Mod]

heck no....it has been along time...that is why I am craving it I think. Just that totally out of body experience but a completely physical thing...I know I am not amking much sense LOL

You make absolute sense.

And I also agree with Longhorne... I knew exactly when my children were conceived (temperature charts and all that).

But, I have since had the pleasure of amazing experiences simply because my partner cared so deeply for my pleasure, thinking not of his own; something that sadly I never knew in my marriage as I chose so poorly.

Now I will only date men that are givers by nature because it is also my nature to give. So we have a circle unbroken - always about what pleases the other but as mature adults that have been broken by life we have also learned to have our own needs met so we can continue to WANT to give.

Does THAT make sense? LOL

 

[reno240]

Tantric sex is based on this whole concept. The idea that being together and close is more of what you should focus on than trying to give or receive orgasms.