Have you ever had a same-sex experience?

[Tiervexx]

I had a gay dream about a friend of mine...

I havent dabbled at all though, but I think I may be by-sexual. If I were to tell this friend about my dream, how do you think he would react? I kinda feel that he feels the same way so how would I go about talking to him about it?

First you need to find out if he is homophobic. If he is very accepting you can just go ahead and tell him he is attractive. The worst thing that could happen is he will get flattered but turn you down.

Obviously if he is homophobic you just have to keep it to yourself.

 

[Luca Reinheart]

How can I find out if he's a homophobe without tipping him off to anything?

 

[thepi]

if you payed attention in school you realized at one point that there is so much diversity in this world and the world accomodates ... there is simplicty and diversity ... who told the DNA to unfold and the mRNA to come? good old Jesus? ... maybe ... because we can't still explain so many precise, mind blowing things that happen in nature and in us .. gay guys are a natural occurance as much as you and me .. I would go as far as saying that buch lesbians are a natural occurance as much as you and me ... there is only one thing though I can be sure of and that is that i'll never have sex with a butch lesbian ... what do you think are the odds of that? anyhow, in my eyes, women are the most beautifull thing in the world ... they bitch and all that but they are ergonometrically fine and they smell nice... i always felt like I wanted to stick something in between their legs and cover my face in a mount of curls ... very naughty Jesus if he programmed me like that ... all in all sex is for nirvana and not necesserly for procreating in this day and age .. and yeh .. I appreciate male power/beauty too ... all of you here do otherwise you won't wana transform your bodies into works of art ... regarding same sex experiences .. my best friend whom I've knowen since kindergarden, is the most handsome man I've ever seen and I've seen a few good looking guys ... my gf goes all soft when he comes by; I'm not gelous because I know even Jesus, in this case, would go soft on article 19: Genesis; he's straight and he dates she-bitch-from-hell who's as ugly as shit; I saw him naked he saw me naked we slept in the same bed and all that; I never thought about him sexually though; the interesting thing is that if we were to fool around (-: i think it would be no problem; he would go for it in a heart beat - sort of Dali and Lorca thing - this is as funny as shit

 

[solidspine]

Twice, both time after a certain amount of fun but very illegal street drugs,. Don't tell my friends, but it was actually very enjoyable, maybe at 53 I am turning gay?

 

[SC4EVA]

Its all good!

 

[Dando30]

Yup sure have- plenty of times and what's the big deal? Jesus Christ if people worried less about other people's business and spent more time keeping their own shit n order the world would be a better place. All this- you can't do that you can't do this...blar blar blar is for shit. Whatever goes on between consenting ADULTS is fine so long as they are happy and respectful of each other i.e. no one is taken advatage of. The world is ours to explore and why should we be afraid of checcking out whatever we want. Who knows- you might find out you like it- maybe you find out you don't...maybe you do it once and never do it again or maybe you never do at all because it isn't interesting- SO WHAT. All this shit about- you are a puss if you screw another guy blar is for shit cuz PLENTY of "straight" guys are putting it to each other. My first same sex experience and one of quite a few WAS IN THE ARMY. ALSO- I can assure you there are plenty of guys cruising parks, dirty book stores, online- you name it...and the only sad thing about that is that our society makes them feel all shitty about it so they then turn around and lie to their wives (which I think is wrong) and go out and do shit behind their backs. If people weren't so uptight about it then people could experiemnt without all the pressure and criticism which ultimately doesnt mean anything. And if you start talking all this god shit- then Ill say- which god- YOUR GOD? Oh so because your gos says Im going to hell for being human then Ill say screw you and your god because mine doesnt mind. And besides- who's to say your god is right? Buddha- was around before Jesus- and so were a shit load of other gods- oh but they are allw rong and he is right- hmmm did you ever stop to notice that its an awfully big coincidence that your god happens to be the one that you were raised with or at least raised in the culture where that god is dominant? So just think- if you were born somewhere else- SAY INDIA- then you's most likely be HINDU and you would think you were right and Pat Robertson was full of shit....so get over it and do whatever you want in the sack with whoever you want as much as you want- JUST PLAY SAFE and check your partners ID- don't wanna end up like Roman Polanski- besides let kids gorw up and make their own choices about themselves and their sexuality when they are grown up.....thats my rant.

Chicks are HOT- i.e Kylie Minogue
Guys are hot too i.e. Antonio Sabato for example.....

 

[descanting]

Dando30, you took the words right out of my mouth.. About everything, especially religions..

 

[Tiervexx]

Dando30, you took the words right out of my mouth.. About everything, especially religions..

ditto

 

[FreeOfCharge]

of course dicks are for chicks. whattafuck do ya think sex is about in essence--reproduction. the pleasure is to ensure reproduction of the species, whatever it is. of course there are mutations and variations. but the bottom line is, poke, prod, use your bod and stick your dick in a chick to keep the juices flowin' and humanity goin'.

So everytime you've had sex w/a woman the intent was to have a child? If not, then that strikes me as a hypocritical statement.

 

[HammerNail]

I feel sorry for guy who never had a same sex experiance.....