My abs split when I was pregnant plus I gained and lost 60 lbs. so the skin is loose, so no matter what I do I can't look the way I want to without a full tummy tuck. I already had the boobs done and had complications from infection, then had them done again and still had some complications but I'm happier than I was before. There are a lot of mixed feelings that go along with having plastic surgery done...just take your time and research, then one day you'll get the nerve to make the call to schedule surgery.